Why don't you inItiate something...If he can't handle that, then he Is really backward.

You snooze you lose..I say give him that kiss. If he runs what have you really lost? A man who is not worth your time to begin with?

We maybe older women but our hearts are still beating. Give it a go..

He migt just be respectful, maybe shy, maybe something else. The only way to really know is to ask.Don't be shy yourself, maybe he is just waiting for you to make the fist move. I am57 and if the opportunity arises so will I, but then everyone is different. Tell him how you feel. Be stright to the point about what you feel and expect the same in return. If there is one thing I have learnt in this life is that too many people are afraid to tell the truth about what they feel. Tell himwhat you feel and want. The worst is you find out it is not mutual before you invest more time looking for something that isn't there. The bestthing is you find what you want. Good luck!

THIS IS ASOLUTELY THE WORRST RUN DATING WEBSITE I'V EVER ENCOUNTERED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!TOTALLY DISINGENUOUS -YOU MIGHT AS WELL GO TO A BAR TO MEET SOMEONE!!!!!!*******???????????????
VERY DISGUSTED.RICH

With only one post, it is hard to understand how you could make that statement. I like it. Count my posts.

People that like to control everything, give me a pain in the kester. Lack of manners & just plain RUDE,are my thoughts. Of course liquid courage might be the source also.

Good to see you Metal

Hey looks like we got another 'impatient' poster..oh well he'll be gone soon if he isn't already!

Thanks Don. It's good to be back. No more Windows XP for me.

I can only speak for myself but even today, at the mellow age of 59, it's all in his eyes. That look that tells you. That's when you invest yourself. I mean it's the same rules as when you went to the prom. That look, that feeling, is better than Viagra and lasts a whole lot longer. Age hasn't dampered my sexual desires. Oddly enough though, I am no different now than when I was younger...just have to work around all my aches and pains. LOL! How's that saying go?..."If I knew I was going to live this long I would've taken better care of myself " Body language plays a big factor too. Get inside that comfort zone. Men like that about their woman. How about moving his stuff around. That'll get his attention. What's he going to do? Spank you : ) Just be you. It's the same horse, same ride Brava, get back in the saddle so to speak lol. PS I think you're hot

Welcome to our little part of Mingle

Me?

I guess you could call me the new kid on the block so I'm not sure how this works.

yes, you...I don't know your name, and you don't look much like a 'Let's"

Most of us aren't on here right now..maybe they got a life, who knows?

We do try to welcome any new comers..we're fairly friendly around here.

My name is Ted and I hope to tell ya, we all got a life. Go figure...lol! Thank you much fer da welcome! To stay on the subject Brava introduced, I beleave its's chemistry...or just a moment connected...that FEELING. It never goes away you know. Sure time mellows us out abit. Hell, if I put my mind to it, I could.still hop a fence too. I'm glad to see.women like Brava still has the gumpshin. It's encourageing to know I'm not alone

Ted...glad to meet you, I'm Vivian.
Just because we've aged doesn't mean that life's over for any of us. What's that song? 'I'm not a good as I once was, but I'm as good once as I ever was!"
Oh, BTW...we never stay on topic for long..hang around and you'll get used to us!
Jump in any of the threads or start one of your own..you'll meet some interesting people.

Viv is right about "interesting people."

Welcome.

Just passing through this room :-)

He might be to shy.... Plant a big, deep, kiss on him

He might be to shy.... Plant a big, deep, kiss on him

1. He's shy.
2. He has low testosterone and isn't passionate.
3. He's heard all of the complaints from women that "all men want is sex" and doesn't want to come across as an animal. Thus being extra cautious.
4. His ex-wife wasn't very passionate and he's not use to a woman who is.
5. You "may" be giving off body language that says "don't be pushy".
6. He may only be interested in you as a friend.

In the last three years I've dated a few women and number three and four are issues with me. Just being honest.