Community > 50 and over

Topic: Men over 55 Only
willing2 Joined Sun 06/08/08 Posts: 20221	Sun 04/01/12 06:55 PM Edited by willing2 on Sun 04/01/12 06:58 PM
Oops, sorry, Post Reply wasn't what I intended to hit. Mr. Shy has been out of touch for a month. I assumed he had dropped me due to lack of interest. I mean, if I look at the guy he looks away. Either he's shy or he can't stand the sight of me, in which case why keep dating. Now I have one new e-mail from him, so maybe either shyness or low-T is the actual reason. I've never dealt with either in a man before. But then, I haven't actually dated in over 20 years. Back then, I had hormones and wasn't quite as horrified of the mirror as I am now. If we do get back together again, I'm definitely going to try to push past this invisible wall he seems to be putting up, and at least find out if he's actually looking for a lover or just a friend. And if the answer is A, find out which category he sees me in. The thing about sex is, I prefer doing it to reading about it or talking about it. These days I guess that makes me a prude. Oh, and Metalwing, I abandon threads all I am on

willing2 Joined Sun 06/08/08 Posts: 20221	Sun 04/01/12 07:05 PM
Lights are out here. A storm. Am using my phone. Just trying to tell ms brava, i think she needn't fear the mirror. I think she still has a lot of hot left in her.

Bravalady Joined Sun 01/01/12 Posts: 1034	Tue 04/03/12 07:50 AM
Thank you!

metalwing Joined Fri 11/14/08 Posts: 26218	Tue 04/03/12 11:43 AM
I still think you should plant a big smooch on him and see what happens!

Bravalady Joined Sun 01/01/12 Posts: 1034	Tue 04/03/12 04:09 PM
Not a bad idea, but it can't come out of the blue. We have to be in the same room together first, and I'd prefer not to have to tackle him to do it. These things need a bit of finesse.

metalwing Joined Fri 11/14/08 Posts: 26218	Tue 04/03/12 04:15 PM
Not a bad idea, but it can't come out of the blue. We have to be in the same room together first, and I'd prefer not to have to tackle him to do it. These things need a bit of finesse. Finesse is fine. Invite him over for dinner and put the moves on him. If he makes up some excuse to not come, never give him another thought.

oldsage Joined Thu 09/14/06 Posts: 18043	Sat 04/07/12 05:58 PM Edited by oldsage on Sat 04/07/12 06:00 PM
Not a bad idea, but it can't come out of the blue. We have to be in the same room together first, and I'd prefer not to have to tackle him to do it. These things need a bit of finesse. Oh, BS on finesse. Let him konw that YOU would like a kiss. He will either go there or decline. End of questions. If he kisses you, congrats.

prashant1951 Joined Sun 03/04/12 Posts: 13	Thu 04/12/12 04:44 AM
I am 58n yr married male still physically strong tall handsome living in india still do sex with satisfaction senior manager in delhi (India)

metalwing Joined Fri 11/14/08 Posts: 26218	Thu 04/12/12 08:57 PM
I am 58n yr married male still physically strong tall handsome living in india still do sex with satisfaction senior manager in delhi (India) I'm thinking this message is for Bravalady!

carold Joined Sun 03/23/08 Posts: 26747	Thu 04/12/12 09:53 PM


Bravalady Joined Sun 01/01/12 Posts: 1034	Fri 04/13/12 03:19 PM
I am 58n yr married male still physically strong tall handsome living in india still do sex with satisfaction senior manager in delhi (India) I'm thinking this message is for Bravalady! Well if it is, although I appreciate the intention, India is a heck of a long way, and also 58-year-olds don't seem to be willing to put up with me. Mr. Shy has moved on, or possibly even away. Not much of a loss under the circumstances.

writer1865reiki Joined Sun 04/29/12 Posts: 14	Wed 05/09/12 10:08 PM Edited by writer1865reiki on Wed 05/09/12 10:15 PM
This was the best fo rme tonight. Thank you for starting this topic. I invite men of color to participate as well in the answers. writer1865reiki THANKS BROTHER FROM INDIA!

writer1865reiki Joined Sun 04/29/12 Posts: 14	Thu 05/10/12 07:55 PM
BESIDES KISSING WHAT ABOUT MEN S RESPONSE TO THIS... IF a man has texted you and talked on the phone and then says he will call again at a certain time and does not ....is this the older man imitating the younger generation...how do you deal with this? Never answer if he does call later...ask? go with flow?

metalwing Joined Fri 11/14/08 Posts: 26218	Fri 05/11/12 06:57 AM
BESIDES KISSING WHAT ABOUT MEN S RESPONSE TO THIS... IF a man has texted you and talked on the phone and then says he will call again at a certain time and does not ....is this the older man imitating the younger generation...how do you deal with this? Never answer if he does call later...ask? go with flow? Maybe he just forgot. He is older. What day is today?

njflguy Joined Thu 11/24/11 Posts: 1	Mon 05/14/12 12:44 AM
I just wanted to introduce myself and say hi.

carold Joined Sun 03/23/08 Posts: 26747	Mon 05/14/12 04:16 AM
Welcome to the over 50's threads enjoy them

vivian2981 Joined Thu 04/16/09 Posts: 37289	Mon 05/14/12 12:01 PM
welcome!

larrykaraoke Joined Sun 06/24/12 Posts: 1	Sun 07/22/12 08:35 PM
He's just not that into you! That's it!

ashanisha Joined Sat 03/19/11 Posts: 3	Mon 07/30/12 02:16 AM
i am just 50 + now at home doing nothing but my sexual parts give me trouble so i have to do something for it

carold Joined Sun 03/23/08 Posts: 26747	Mon 07/30/12 07:37 AM
Hey guys are yah shy