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Topic: Men over 55 Only
jimbo375 Joined Mon 10/22/12 Posts: 1	Tue 10/23/12 10:36 AM
You need to let him know where you want to go with the relationship and if he's got the same ideas, the first step is the hardest. After that...... I have tried some goodnight kisses on a first date and they were not sending me any messages to try more. Try flirting a little, you are adults after all. Best of luck

navygirl Joined Sat 06/02/07 Posts: 8118	Tue 10/23/12 10:46 AM
Wow read every post on this thread and what an eye full ... or what ever full. LOL. First time here and enjoyed reading all. To bravalady ... good luck and I hope you find someone that won't be afraid to give you a wowser of a kiss. I turned 75 this year and still love to give a good passionate kiss. Any girls interested? LOL Why would I want to date someone that's married? I guess cheaters come in all ages. Makes me want to puke.

oldsage Joined Thu 09/14/06 Posts: 18043	Tue 10/23/12 03:12 PM
I have a great sex drive,just can't find a woman that likes sex as much as I do!Maybe I'm just not sexy enough! Or maybe the women you are dating aren't smart enough to know a good thing when they have it. Or maybe "his" sex drive needs to take care of the lady BEFORE him. This seems to be a serious problem with age.

2Keith Joined Thu 04/14/11 Posts: 155	Fri 10/26/12 01:15 PM
Being an "Older man" I can say that if the 'sex' cues are not there the assumption is that she isn't into sex. It is assumed that younger women are driven by sexual or reproductive urges but not so older women. May be false but...

Toodygirl5 Joined Fri 10/26/12 Posts: 14591	Fri 10/26/12 04:51 PM Edited by Toodygirl5 on Fri 10/26/12 04:53 PM
We are older men. That does not mean we are dysfunctional. Or suffer from low T. Some of us are gentlemen who prefer not to paw at ladies like teenagers with raging hormones. He may just want to get to know you a little bit better. I prefer a older man that is a gentleman, myself. lol

samuel1386 Joined Mon 09/05/11 Posts: 1	Sat 12/29/12 07:49 AM
i dont think men lose their sex drive i think women lose some thing.some of us have it more more more

navygirl Joined Sat 06/02/07 Posts: 8118	Sat 12/29/12 10:22 AM Edited by navygirl on Sat 12/29/12 10:25 AM
i dont think men lose their sex drive i think women lose some thing.some of us have it more more more Have to correct you but everyone loses their sex drive eventually and its normal. I have two male friends; one is 59 and one 62 both have lost their sex drive. Doctor has told both of them that is completely normal as we all lose our sex drive at different ages.

Toodygirl5 Joined Fri 10/26/12 Posts: 14591	Sat 12/29/12 11:01 AM
Before I conclude that my new relationship just doesn't find me attractive, I'd like to know how it is for other older men. This is the first time I have dated a new person over 55. He is 58 and I am 64. I know there's an age difference, but he contacted me first and we've had 4 or 5 dates in the past month. All seem to have gone very well and he e-mails me every few days to keep in touch. BUT . . . not even any kisses yet. Actually, nothing but friend-type hugs when we part. I'm baffled. I'm certainly no movie star, but I would think if he was interested he'd initiate something. Do men over 55 lose their sex drive? If it's not that, then he must not be attracted to me, I don't know what else it could be. Opinions please? Older men like to have a friendship with a woman. But when it comes to romance they Usually seek out Younger women, it tends to do something for their limbo.

navygirl Joined Sat 06/02/07 Posts: 8118	Sat 12/29/12 11:09 AM
Before I conclude that my new relationship just doesn't find me attractive, I'd like to know how it is for other older men. This is the first time I have dated a new person over 55. He is 58 and I am 64. I know there's an age difference, but he contacted me first and we've had 4 or 5 dates in the past month. All seem to have gone very well and he e-mails me every few days to keep in touch. BUT . . . not even any kisses yet. Actually, nothing but friend-type hugs when we part. I'm baffled. I'm certainly no movie star, but I would think if he was interested he'd initiate something. Do men over 55 lose their sex drive? If it's not that, then he must not be attracted to me, I don't know what else it could be. Opinions please? Older men like to have a friendship with a woman. But when it comes to romance they Usually seek out Younger women, it tends to do something for their limbo. Their limbo? Did you mean to say Libido?

oldsage Joined Thu 09/14/06 Posts: 18043	Sat 12/29/12 11:16 AM
I sometimes wonder what some of these people are SMOKING?? REMEMBER, all people are NOT ALIKE.

carold Joined Sun 03/23/08 Posts: 26747	Sat 12/29/12 01:39 PM
Thank God for differences

metalwing Joined Fri 11/14/08 Posts: 26218	Sat 12/29/12 02:17 PM
There are drugs for sex drive too ... and drugs to make it lessen.

Toodygirl5 Joined Fri 10/26/12 Posts: 14591	Thu 01/03/13 12:24 PM
He might think you don't want him to try, so he's taking what he gets. I went out with a 59 yo lady and one hug on the first date and that was it. She just liked spending my money so I quit dating her. Most women like spending Money!!!

Toodygirl5 Joined Fri 10/26/12 Posts: 14591	Thu 01/03/13 12:29 PM
Before I conclude that my new relationship just doesn't find me attractive, I'd like to know how it is for other older men. This is the first time I have dated a new person over 55. He is 58 and I am 64. I know there's an age difference, but he contacted me first and we've had 4 or 5 dates in the past month. All seem to have gone very well and he e-mails me every few days to keep in touch. BUT . . . not even any kisses yet. Actually, nothing but friend-type hugs when we part. I'm baffled. I'm certainly no movie star, but I would think if he was interested he'd initiate something. Do men over 55 lose their sex drive? If it's not that, then he must not be attracted to me, I don't know what else it could be. Opinions please? Older men like to have a friendship with a woman. But when it comes to romance they Usually seek out Younger women, it tends to do something for their limbo. Their limbo? Did you mean to say Libido?

navygirl Joined Sat 06/02/07 Posts: 8118	Thu 01/03/13 12:35 PM
We are older men. That does not mean we are dysfunctional. Or suffer from low T. Some of us are gentlemen who prefer not to paw at ladies like teenagers with raging hormones. He may just want to get to know you a little bit better. Nicely put!!!!