Topic: better is not good enough.
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Sat 02/11/12 06:18 AM




Why is that many of our men and women in an online dating site are not truthful,sincere and openminded.why?


in some shape form or fashion ....."everyone lies"

noway.. noway I don't tell lies. shades


so your birth name is "joy4gud"?

if it's not, then it's an example of how "Everyone Lies"

if it is, then it's an example of how sometimes parents can be so cruel

laugh laugh
wait a minute!
My birth name is also Joy and iam here 4 gud...
I was thinking when i type my user name... Ok! happy

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Sat 02/11/12 06:19 AM
Edited by joy4gud on Sat 02/11/12 06:30 AM




Why is that many of our men and women in an online dating site are not truthful,sincere and openminded.why?


in some shape form or fashion ....."everyone lies"

noway.. noway I don't tell lies. shades


if it is, then it's an example of how sometimes parents can be so cruel

for me, Joy is a fine name for any happy couple happy

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Sat 02/11/12 06:28 AM


Why is that many of our men and women in an online dating site are not truthful,sincere and openminded.why?


in some shape form or fashion ....."everyone lies"


I especially like it when fashion helps cover up my little bulgy place

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Sat 02/11/12 08:11 AM
Edited by funches on Sat 02/11/12 08:31 AM





Why is that many of our men and women in an online dating site are not truthful,sincere and openminded.why?


in some shape form or fashion ....."everyone lies"

noway.. noway I don't tell lies. shades


so your birth name is "joy4gud"?

if it's not, then it's an example of how "Everyone Lies"

if it is, then it's an example of how sometimes parents can be so cruel

laugh laugh
wait a minute!
My birth name is also Joy and iam here 4 gud...
I was thinking when i type my user name... Ok! happy


so your birth name is "Joy and iam here 4 gud"

wow imagine the first day of every school year the first time the teacher takes attendance

is Carol Ann here ....present
is Kathy thickpen here....present
is...er.....what the?......er..is..."Joy and iam here 4 gud" ...er..here?

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Sat 02/11/12 08:13 AM





Why is that many of our men and women in an online dating site are not truthful,sincere and openminded.why?


in some shape form or fashion ....."everyone lies"

noway.. noway I don't tell lies. shades


if it is, then it's an example of how sometimes parents can be so cruel

for me, Joy is a fine name for any happy couple happy


even a name for a guy?

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Sat 02/11/12 08:14 AM



Why is that many of our men and women in an online dating site are not truthful,sincere and openminded.why?


in some shape form or fashion ....."everyone lies"


I especially like it when fashion helps cover up my little bulgy place


are you referring to your "Unmentionables"

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Sat 02/11/12 10:13 AM




Why is that many of our men and women in an online dating site are not truthful,sincere and openminded.why?


in some shape form or fashion ....."everyone lies"


I especially like it when fashion helps cover up my little bulgy place


are you referring to your "Unmentionables"


no just a few imperfections...my unmentionables are still in pretty good shape:wink: laugh

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Sat 02/11/12 10:23 AM
I am Living proof that most people can't handle the truth.
I am what I am.....
I don't pretend..........
I tell it as it is.....

Because.........IT IS WHAT IT IS!!!!!

Some people take issue with.....Honesty. Especially Brutal Honesty.

Most people don't have a clue how to deal with someone who is able to admit their flaws.......
Be aware and in touch with them.

Truth is......Most people would Rather be lied to....
Than hear ....

You're Truth!!!!

JMO based on my own Experience!!!

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Sat 02/11/12 10:46 AM






Why is that many of our men and women in an online dating site are not truthful,sincere and openminded.why?


in some shape form or fashion ....."everyone lies"

noway.. noway I don't tell lies. shades


so your birth name is "joy4gud"?

if it's not, then it's an example of how "Everyone Lies"

if it is, then it's an example of how sometimes parents can be so cruel

laugh laugh
wait a minute!
My birth name is also Joy and iam here 4 gud...
I was thinking when i type my user name... Ok! happy


so your birth name is "Joy and iam here 4 gud"

wow imagine the first day of every school year the first time the teacher takes attendance

is Carol Ann here ....present
is Kathy thickpen here....present
is...er.....what the?......er..is..."Joy and iam here 4 gud" ...er..here?

hey, i said my name is Joy, and iam here in Mingle2 for good time...
Whatever..iam not going talk on these again. waving

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Sat 02/11/12 10:53 AM


Most people don't have a clue how to deal with someone who is able to admit their flaws.......
Be aware and in touch with them.



This is so true...I know who I am warts and all and it can/does make some people uncomfortable.

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Sat 02/11/12 11:41 AM







Why is that many of our men and women in an online dating site are not truthful,sincere and openminded.why?


in some shape form or fashion ....."everyone lies"

noway.. noway I don't tell lies. shades


so your birth name is "joy4gud"?

if it's not, then it's an example of how "Everyone Lies"

if it is, then it's an example of how sometimes parents can be so cruel

laugh laugh
wait a minute!
My birth name is also Joy and iam here 4 gud...
I was thinking when i type my user name... Ok! happy


so your birth name is "Joy and iam here 4 gud"

wow imagine the first day of every school year the first time the teacher takes attendance

is Carol Ann here ....present
is Kathy thickpen here....present
is...er.....what the?......er..is..."Joy and iam here 4 gud" ...er..here?

hey, i said my name is Joy, and iam here in Mingle2 for good time...
Whatever..iam not going talk on these again. waving


was only using it as an example of how people do things knowingly or unknowingly through-out life and once it's pointed out they will attempt to justify it as not lying

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Sat 02/11/12 11:59 AM

Why is that many of our men and women in an online dating site are not truthful,sincere and openminded.why?

Wow, what extrapolation.

By the way, exactly what do you mean by "open minded"?

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Sat 02/11/12 12:05 PM

Unfortunately, this is one of the pitfalls of online dating.

Some misrepresent themselves hoping that you will 'fall' for them regardless of the lies...not realising they WILL be rejected them not because of who they are but because of the lies they told.

Maybe I’m just cynical but it does amaze me that some people loose their common sense when it comes to online dating...take whatever is typed to you or said to you with a pinch of salt until you know differently.

That doesn’t mean that you can’t ‘fall’ for someone that you met online someone it just means that until you meet face to face and spent some time with him/her, it’s not really real.



It's not just online dating. It can happen anywhere.

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Sat 02/11/12 12:06 PM




Why is that many of our men and women in an online dating site are not truthful,sincere and openminded.why?


in some shape form or fashion ....."everyone lies"

noway.. noway I don't tell lies. shades


so your birth name is "joy4gud"?

if it's not, then it's an example of how "Everyone Lies"

if it is, then it's an example of how sometimes parents can be so cruel


Where did she say her user id was her birth name? If she specifically told you that and it wasn't, then yes, it was a lie. If she didn't tell you it was her birth name when it wasn't, she didn't lie.

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Sat 02/11/12 12:08 PM
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xrCWMQgNXHE&feature=related

That's why!!!! LOL

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Sat 02/11/12 12:28 PM





Why is that many of our men and women in an online dating site are not truthful,sincere and openminded.why?


in some shape form or fashion ....."everyone lies"

noway.. noway I don't tell lies. shades


so your birth name is "joy4gud"?

if it's not, then it's an example of how "Everyone Lies"

if it is, then it's an example of how sometimes parents can be so cruel


Where did she say her user id was her birth name? If she specifically told you that and it wasn't, then yes, it was a lie. If she didn't tell you it was her birth name when it wasn't, she didn't lie.


no need to specifically tell me..the user name is either the name presented on her birth certificate or it's not ...calling an altered name a User I.D. is an attempt at justification and/or a form of acceptable lying

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Sat 02/11/12 12:45 PM
that's just the way it is............

navygirl's photo
Sat 02/11/12 01:11 PM

Why is that many of our men and women in an online dating site are not truthful,sincere and openminded.why?


Honestly; people aren't like that in everyday life so why should online dating be any different?

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Sat 02/11/12 01:28 PM
The Miranda and the Fifth Amendment comes to mind to me. Liability can be a big issue. I mean not being able to lie can put one at a disadvantage.

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Sat 02/11/12 01:42 PM


Unfortunately, this is one of the pitfalls of online dating.

Some misrepresent themselves hoping that you will 'fall' for them regardless of the lies...not realising they WILL be rejected them not because of who they are but because of the lies they told.

Maybe I’m just cynical but it does amaze me that some people loose their common sense when it comes to online dating...take whatever is typed to you or said to you with a pinch of salt until you know differently.

That doesn’t mean that you can’t ‘fall’ for someone that you met online someone it just means that until you meet face to face and spent some time with him/her, it’s not really real.



It's not just online dating. It can happen anywhere.


I have to disagree with you Sing. Granted a guy can just as easily lie in realife as he can online but in real life scenario's, if you've met him, he can't pretend to be a 6', musclebound Adonis as easily as he can hiding behind a computer screen or a telephone. :smile: