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Topic: Too Much?
MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Sun 01/22/12 05:03 PM Edited by MariahsFantasy on Sun 01/22/12 05:04 PM
Just curious how much is too much when you're in the beginning stages of a relationship? What really turns you guys off about the opposite sex?

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32402	Sun 01/22/12 05:07 PM
The problem with this question is that every guy is different. I prefer just to be my spastic self and hope for the best. Que sera sera.

kc0003 Joined Fri 05/11/07 Posts: 26382	Sun 01/22/12 05:10 PM
insecurity...the need for constant contact. having to know where I am and what I’m doing every moment of the day frightens me.

DTHRomeo Joined Wed 06/20/07 Posts: 43387	Sun 01/22/12 05:12 PM
I must agree with Kc ... it's scary

Sin_and_Sorrow Joined Sun 01/01/12 Posts: 5757	Sun 01/22/12 05:12 PM
Attitude. Smell. (too much/lack of perfume) Style. Body/facial hair. 'DB Syndrome'. Excessive talking. (rambling on about exes, i.e.) TMFI (telling me you had the clap once) Comparing me to others. Mangled hair. (like you just left Chainsaw Massacre house) Being toooooo shy. Just to name a few... Annoying laughs, and uncalled for ones too..

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32402	Sun 01/22/12 05:14 PM
insecurity...the need for constant contact. having to know where I am and what I’m doing every moment of the day frightens me. If you would just answer your phone when I call every 15 minutes I wouldn't have to follow you around.

machug Joined Sun 09/04/11 Posts: 6601	Sun 01/22/12 05:14 PM
Attitude. Smell. (too much/lack of perfume) Style. Body/facial hair. 'DB Syndrome'. Excessive talking. (rambling on about exes, i.e.) TMFI (telling me you had the clap once) Comparing me to others. Mangled hair. (like you just left Chainsaw Massacre house) Being toooooo shy. Just to name a few... Annoying laughs, and uncalled for ones too.. Awwwww, see I knew you wouldn't love me!!

kc0003 Joined Fri 05/11/07 Posts: 26382	Sun 01/22/12 05:15 PM Edited by kc0003 on Sun 01/22/12 05:18 PM
The problem with this question is that every guy is different. I prefer just to be my spastic self and hope for the best. Que sera sera. "spastic-selves" can be fun. here ruth... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xxsu9060VEg

Sin_and_Sorrow Joined Sun 01/01/12 Posts: 5757	Sun 01/22/12 05:16 PM
Attitude. Smell. (too much/lack of perfume) Style. Body/facial hair. 'DB Syndrome'. Excessive talking. (rambling on about exes, i.e.) TMFI (telling me you had the clap once) Comparing me to others. Mangled hair. (like you just left Chainsaw Massacre house) Being toooooo shy. Just to name a few... Annoying laughs, and uncalled for ones too.. Awwwww, see I knew you wouldn't love me!! Whaaaaa? Which one(s)? :O

machug Joined Sun 09/04/11 Posts: 6601	Sun 01/22/12 05:16 PM
insecurity...the need for constant contact. having to know where I am and what I’m doing every moment of the day frightens me. If you would just answer your phone when I call every 15 minutes I wouldn't have to follow you around. pssssst, Ruth...did you get that phone tap kit I sent you??

kc0003 Joined Fri 05/11/07 Posts: 26382	Sun 01/22/12 05:17 PM
insecurity...the need for constant contact. having to know where I am and what I’m doing every moment of the day frightens me. If you would just answer your phone when I call every 15 minutes I wouldn't have to follow you around.

machug Joined Sun 09/04/11 Posts: 6601	Sun 01/22/12 05:18 PM Edited by machug on Sun 01/22/12 05:19 PM
Attitude. Smell. (too much/lack of perfume) Style. Body/facial hair. 'DB Syndrome'. Excessive talking. (rambling on about exes, i.e.) TMFI (telling me you had the clap once) Comparing me to others. Mangled hair. (like you just left Chainsaw Massacre house) Being toooooo shy. Just to name a few... Annoying laughs, and uncalled for ones too.. Awwwww, see I knew you wouldn't love me!! Whaaaaa? Which one(s)? :O You can leave off the TMFI one, but that looks like that's it. LOL. Good thing you found Becca. oh wait, what's DB syndrome?

Godiva Joined Tue 12/09/08 Posts: 5330	Sun 01/22/12 05:18 PM
The problem with this question is that every guy is different. I prefer just to be my spastic self and hope for the best. Que sera sera. ^ This for the most part. Otherwise, someone who is degrading or obnoxious about certain subjects.

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32402	Sun 01/22/12 05:20 PM
The problem with this question is that every guy is different. I prefer just to be my spastic self and hope for the best. Que sera sera. "spastic-selves" can be fun. here ruth... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xxsu9060VEg I have never heard that version before. It was beautiful.

Sin_and_Sorrow Joined Sun 01/01/12 Posts: 5757	Sun 01/22/12 05:22 PM
Attitude. Smell. (too much/lack of perfume) Style. Body/facial hair. 'DB Syndrome'. Excessive talking. (rambling on about exes, i.e.) TMFI (telling me you had the clap once) Comparing me to others. Mangled hair. (like you just left Chainsaw Massacre house) Being toooooo shy. Just to name a few... Annoying laughs, and uncalled for ones too.. Awwwww, see I knew you wouldn't love me!! Whaaaaa? Which one(s)? :O You can leave off the TMFI one, but that looks like that's it. LOL. Good thing you found Becca. oh wait, what's DB syndrome? DB Syndrome: It is also referred to as the SheriBabe complex. While it is more properly known as the Dumb Blonde Syndrome.

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Sun 01/22/12 05:22 PM
insecurity...the need for constant contact. having to know where I am and what I’m doing every moment of the day frightens me. I basically agree I'm very difficult to reach and have gotten some flack for it - so it's not like this is something I'd do but at the same time, part of me is also suspicious if you aren't doing anything wrong why does this matter? Can you see how this paranoia makes it look like you may be doing things or with people you don;t want her to know about/ hiding something?

kc0003 Joined Fri 05/11/07 Posts: 26382	Sun 01/22/12 05:22 PM
The problem with this question is that every guy is different. I prefer just to be my spastic self and hope for the best. Que sera sera. "spastic-selves" can be fun. here ruth... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xxsu9060VEg I have never heard that version before. It was beautiful. pink martini rocks!

machug Joined Sun 09/04/11 Posts: 6601	Sun 01/22/12 05:23 PM
Attitude. Smell. (too much/lack of perfume) Style. Body/facial hair. 'DB Syndrome'. Excessive talking. (rambling on about exes, i.e.) TMFI (telling me you had the clap once) Comparing me to others. Mangled hair. (like you just left Chainsaw Massacre house) Being toooooo shy. Just to name a few... Annoying laughs, and uncalled for ones too.. Awwwww, see I knew you wouldn't love me!! Whaaaaa? Which one(s)? :O You can leave off the TMFI one, but that looks like that's it. LOL. Good thing you found Becca. oh wait, what's DB syndrome? DB Syndrome: It is also referred to as the SheriBabe complex. While it is more properly known as the Dumb Blonde Syndrome. Oh haha, OK that's not me either.

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Sun 01/22/12 05:28 PM
Just curious how much is too much when you're in the beginning stages of a relationship? What really turns you guys off about the opposite sex? well not a guy here, but I'll answer anyway - if there is something that turns me off in the beginning stages of a relationship, there most likely will not be a relationship (just to back the original premise up a little) what might cause me to NOT move forward - basic incompatabilities - we have little in common also if he doesn;t listen, speaks for me (like orders my food in a restaurant), shows any outward signs of anger or hostility toward me- for ANY reason

paul1217 Joined Fri 01/29/10 Posts: 904	Sun 01/22/12 05:28 PM
Pressure/demanding behavior. I once met a woman on line and we chatted about meeting. I was busy at work during the week and when I got online after a few days I had a few e-mails, the last one saying something to the effect of, "I have been putting off responding to other people because you said you wanted to meet. If you want to meet then reply to me and don't leave me waiting." My response was, " If you are going to start nagging me before we even meet in person then I think I'm going to pass." A friend introduced me to a woman once and she spent about an hour of our first meeting talking about how she wanted " the house with the white picket fence and the kids in the yard." I thought to myself, "Shouldn't we maybe try going out to dinner first?"