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Topic: Make Love, Not War...
Swimforrealsgirl Joined Thu 05/03/07 Posts: 399	Thu 01/05/12 12:42 AM
So. My question is this...Is it possible to have this type of relationship? I mean-Traditional roles while having our own opinions-without conflict?????

Sin_and_Sorrow Joined Sun 01/01/12 Posts: 5757	Thu 01/05/12 12:58 AM
So. My question is this...Is it possible to have this type of relationship? I mean-Traditional roles while having our own opinions-without conflict????? Not entirely sure what you mean by 'traditional' roles. As in, man goes to work, woman maintains house and family?

Swimforrealsgirl Joined Thu 05/03/07 Posts: 399	Thu 01/05/12 01:14 AM
So. My question is this...Is it possible to have this type of relationship? I mean-Traditional roles while having our own opinions-without conflict????? Not entirely sure what you mean by 'traditional' roles. As in, man goes to work, woman maintains house and family? Men are good at some things. Women are good at other things. Sometimes-their gifts cross paths...sometimes they have the same skills...but....make no mistake....MEN AND WOMEN ARE NOT THE SAME.I merely want to bring 2 talents 2 THE FOREFRONT. And...I want to find a man who 'gets" what I am saying. Had one before...and unfortunately he passed away...way before his time.................I am upbeat and in the way, and on the way!

Sin_and_Sorrow Joined Sun 01/01/12 Posts: 5757	Thu 01/05/12 01:48 AM
So. My question is this...Is it possible to have this type of relationship? I mean-Traditional roles while having our own opinions-without conflict????? Not entirely sure what you mean by 'traditional' roles. As in, man goes to work, woman maintains house and family? Men are good at some things. Women are good at other things. Sometimes-their gifts cross paths...sometimes they have the same skills...but....make no mistake....MEN AND WOMEN ARE NOT THE SAME.I merely want to bring 2 talents 2 THE FOREFRONT. And...I want to find a man who 'gets" what I am saying. Had one before...and unfortunately he passed away...way before his time.................I am upbeat and in the way, and on the way! Ohhhhh... I still don't get it? Was there even a question there..? Sorry to hear about the end part though. That truly sucks. :( As for a man who 'gets' it.. It's clear that's not gonna be me. :D Cause I am soooo lost. :/

Swimforrealsgirl Joined Thu 05/03/07 Posts: 399	Thu 01/05/12 01:50 AM
So. My question is this...Is it possible to have this type of relationship? I mean-Traditional roles while having our own opinions-without conflict????? Not entirely sure what you mean by 'traditional' roles. As in, man goes to work, woman maintains house and family? Men are good at some things. Women are good at other things. Sometimes-their gifts cross paths...sometimes they have the same skills...but....make no mistake....MEN AND WOMEN ARE NOT THE SAME.I merely want to bring 2 talents 2 THE FOREFRONT. And...I want to find a man who 'gets" what I am saying. Had one before...and unfortunately he passed away...way before his time.................I am upbeat and in the way, and on the way! Ohhhhh... I still don't get it? Was there even a question there..? Sorry to hear about the end part though. That truly sucks. :( As for a man who 'gets' it.. It's clear that's not gonna be me. :D Cause I am soooo lost. :/

Sin_and_Sorrow Joined Sun 01/01/12 Posts: 5757	Thu 01/05/12 01:52 AM
Umm? You didn't post anything? o.-

Swimforrealsgirl Joined Thu 05/03/07 Posts: 399	Thu 01/05/12 01:54 AM
Darling. What's not to get? Men and Women are different. That's all. When a Man or a Woman acknowledges that....Great. When we PRETEND we are all the same...we are living a lie. I am merely seeking a man who understands....men and women are different. In spite of that, they are the same.

Sin_and_Sorrow Joined Sun 01/01/12 Posts: 5757	Thu 01/05/12 01:57 AM
Ohhh. I get it now! :D I thought it was a 'question'; not a statement. And yes, I do agree. I'm nothing like anyone I've ever met. There may be some similarities between people.. ..but no one is 'identical'. No one is truly the 'same'. By definition or otherwise. Sorry... Lack of sleep. x.x

RainbowTrout Joined Fri 04/06/07 Posts: 13869	Thu 01/05/12 02:01 AM
If give a bit more than you are asking for your love can set you free. Bee Gees

oldhippie1952 Joined Mon 03/14/11 Posts: 22693	Thu 01/05/12 06:50 AM
Darling. What's not to get? Men and Women are different. That's all. When a Man or a Woman acknowledges that....Great. When we PRETEND we are all the same...we are living a lie. I am merely seeking a man who understands....men and women are different. In spite of that, they are the same. Yes, men and women are different. The trick is to find someone who complements your abilities, if that's what you want. I prefer independent can-do womrn myself.

TxsGal3333 Joined Tue 09/05/06 Posts: 76433	Thu 01/05/12 07:32 AM
It seems you have already found one in the past that it worked with so the answer is yes it can happen...

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Thu 01/05/12 08:54 AM
Darling. What's not to get? Men and Women are different. That's all. When a Man or a Woman acknowledges that....Great. When we PRETEND we are all the same...we are living a lie. I am merely seeking a man who understands....men and women are different. In spite of that, they are the same. Who is pretending men and women are the same?

MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Fri 01/06/12 11:04 AM
Men and women will never be the same. Similar interests, trivial facts, that's all we got. Trying to decipher the reason why we're so different could take centuries. The point is wither or not it all clicks. And its all in the feeling.

John8659 Joined Thu 12/22/11 Posts: 299	Fri 01/06/12 11:07 AM Edited by John8659 on Fri 01/06/12 11:18 AM
A mind is a mind. A great many primitive languages are stuctured to indicate if the language is spoken by a male or a female. However, slowly, when it is realized that there is no such thing as male arithmetic and female arithmetic, or male geometry and female geometry, suddenly, slowly, some begin to realize that the mind in a body is not the body in which it is the mind. Someday, people will not think of each other as males and females, because they will also distinguish that a person is not the body, nor the body the person. And that reason is reason, be it spoken by a rock, a tree, or god forbid, a female.

Jeanniebean Joined Wed 01/30/08 Posts: 40028	Fri 01/06/12 01:25 PM
I hate rolls and expectations. Just let people be who they are. Don't expect them to fill some roll.

MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Fri 01/06/12 01:27 PM
I hate rolls and expectations. Just let people be who they are. Don't expect them to fill some roll. Damned straight! Veto on the labels por favor.

Sin_and_Sorrow Joined Sun 01/01/12 Posts: 5757	Fri 01/06/12 02:02 PM
I hate rolls and expectations. Just let people be who they are. Don't expect them to fill some roll. Damned straight! Veto on the labels por favor. ..but sometimes roles are good.. Like you play a french maid.. who's been naughty. I play the rich millionaire who delivers punishment. Not all roles are bad.. can already see someone whipping out Websters for this reply

Jeanniebean Joined Wed 01/30/08 Posts: 40028	Fri 01/06/12 02:08 PM
I hate rolls and expectations. Just let people be who they are. Don't expect them to fill some roll. Damned straight! Veto on the labels por favor. ..but sometimes roles are good.. Like you play a french maid.. who's been naughty. I play the rich millionaire who delivers punishment. Not all roles are bad.. can already see someone whipping out Websters for this reply Yes but it is when people believe that their rolls are real and should be taken seriously that they cease to be fun. How about you be a wild Indian and I'm a captured settler's wife and you swoop me up into your arms and take me to your t.P. and lay me down on a bear skin rug....

MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Fri 01/06/12 02:48 PM
I hate rolls and expectations. Just let people be who they are. Don't expect them to fill some roll. Damned straight! Veto on the labels por favor. ..but sometimes roles are good.. Like you play a french maid.. who's been naughty. I play the rich millionaire who delivers punishment. Not all roles are bad.. can already see someone whipping out Websters for this reply That's just yo fantasy

Sin_and_Sorrow Joined Sun 01/01/12 Posts: 5757	Fri 01/06/12 03:02 PM
I hate rolls and expectations. Just let people be who they are. Don't expect them to fill some roll. Damned straight! Veto on the labels por favor. ..but sometimes roles are good.. Like you play a french maid.. who's been naughty. I play the rich millionaire who delivers punishment. Not all roles are bad.. can already see someone whipping out Websters for this reply Yes but it is when people believe that their rolls are real and should be taken seriously that they cease to be fun. How about you be a wild Indian and I'm a captured settler's wife and you swoop me up into your arms and take me to your t.P. and lay me down on a bear skin rug.... :O You missed my post.. when I stated.. I'll allergic to synthetic fur. So.. If we did do that.. Make sure it's real? The rash.. Well.. You'll be carrying me. :D