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Topic: How would you handle love?
Loveachday's photo
Thu 12/01/11 09:15 PM
I have found it very difficult to find someone that loves me as much as I love her. How can I make a girl I love show as much love as i show her?brokenheart frown

Kissesz's photo
Fri 12/02/11 01:42 AM

I have found it very difficult to find someone that loves me as much as I love her. How can I make a girl I love show as much love as i show her?brokenheart frown

You can't "make" anyone do anything, that's rule #1.

Communication is key. Talk with her and let her know of your needs. Be honest and tell her how you feel.

Don't tell her what to do or complain about what she doesn't do, tell her what you like and enjoy instead.


Good Luck. flowerforyou

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Fri 12/02/11 04:22 AM

I have found it very difficult to find someone that loves me as much as I love her. How can I make a girl I love show as much love as i show her?brokenheart frown


Ditch your measuring cup....

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Fri 12/02/11 05:14 AM
Edited by 42BlackBBW on Fri 12/02/11 05:21 AM



I have found it very difficult to find someone that loves me as much as I love her. How can I make a girl I love show as much love as i show her?brokenheart frown


Ditch your measuring cup....


I love that!


:thumbsup: Me too.

If you have such unattainable (and I’m not say that you do), requirements of love it’s unlikely that you’ll find anyone that will live up to them.

I agree with Klc, I think that you're putting to much emphasis on finding the 'one' love of your life. Think about starting with 'like' and taking it from there.

Loveachday's photo
Fri 12/02/11 05:20 AM


I have found it very difficult to find someone that loves me as much as I love her. How can I make a girl I love show as much love as i show her?brokenheart frown

You can't "make" anyone do anything, that's rule #1.

Communication is key. Talk with her and let her know of your needs. Be honest and tell her how you feel.

Don't tell her what to do or complain about what she doesn't do, tell her what you like and enjoy instead.


Good Luck. flowerforyou



Thanks so much. That really should help.

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Fri 12/02/11 05:20 AM

Loveachday's photo
Fri 12/02/11 05:21 AM


I have found it very difficult to find someone that loves me as much as I love her. How can I make a girl I love show as much love as i show her?brokenheart frown


Ditch your measuring cup....


Yes, I agree. But how easy is it?

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Fri 12/02/11 05:50 AM



I have found it very difficult to find someone that loves me as much as I love her. How can I make a girl I love show as much love as i show her?brokenheart frown


Ditch your measuring cup....


Yes, I agree. But how easy is it?


Now we are getting to the bottom of things....It is impossible to measure love....True love is never a test of wills.

no photo
Fri 12/02/11 06:19 AM

I have found it very difficult to find someone that loves me as much as I love her. How can I make a girl I love show as much love as i show her?brokenheart frown


u can't

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Fri 12/02/11 06:26 AM


I have found it very difficult to find someone that loves me as much as I love her. How can I make a girl I love show as much love as i show her?brokenheart frown


u can't


Can too, can too!!tongue2

:laughing:

waving

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Fri 12/02/11 06:30 AM



I have found it very difficult to find someone that loves me as much as I love her. How can I make a girl I love show as much love as i show her?brokenheart frown


u can't


Can too, can too!!tongue2

:laughing:

waving


hey I like that new photo!! It's so good to see u here! I agree completely with what u said - we accept the love we're given and in being that gracious usually we continue to receive - especially if we also give. I just felt that it helps at times to hear the obvious stated succinctly! no harm intended!flowerforyou

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Fri 12/02/11 06:58 AM




I have found it very difficult to find someone that loves me as much as I love her. How can I make a girl I love show as much love as i show her?brokenheart frown


u can't


Can too, can too!!tongue2

:laughing:

waving


hey I like that new photo!! It's so good to see u here! I agree completely with what u said - we accept the love we're given and in being that gracious usually we continue to receive - especially if we also give. I just felt that it helps at times to hear the obvious stated succinctly! no harm intended!flowerforyou


Hey Sweet!...Is it cold up there? I miss Columbus during Christmas, lots of holiday action!biggrin I like your pic too!flowerforyou

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Fri 12/02/11 07:03 AM





I have found it very difficult to find someone that loves me as much as I love her. How can I make a girl I love show as much love as i show her?brokenheart frown


u can't


Can too, can too!!tongue2

:laughing:

waving


hey I like that new photo!! It's so good to see u here! I agree completely with what u said - we accept the love we're given and in being that gracious usually we continue to receive - especially if we also give. I just felt that it helps at times to hear the obvious stated succinctly! no harm intended!flowerforyou


Hey Sweet!...Is it cold up there? I miss Columbus during Christmas, lots of holiday action!biggrin I like your pic too!flowerforyou


my pic is a tribute to the bare chested headless bathroom cell phone guys - who don;t really seem to be around much any more anywaylaugh

it's just an image - my actual photos are on my profile

It's not really been all that cold - a few cold days. Not even a glimmer of snow yet.

no photo
Fri 12/02/11 07:11 AM






I have found it very difficult to find someone that loves me as much as I love her. How can I make a girl I love show as much love as i show her?brokenheart frown


u can't


Can too, can too!!tongue2

:laughing:

waving


hey I like that new photo!! It's so good to see u here! I agree completely with what u said - we accept the love we're given and in being that gracious usually we continue to receive - especially if we also give. I just felt that it helps at times to hear the obvious stated succinctly! no harm intended!flowerforyou


Hey Sweet!...Is it cold up there? I miss Columbus during Christmas, lots of holiday action!biggrin I like your pic too!flowerforyou


my pic is a tribute to the bare chested headless bathroom cell phone guys - who don;t really seem to be around much any more anywaylaugh

it's just an image - my actual photos are on my profile

It's not really been all that cold - a few cold days. Not even a glimmer of snow yet.


You're kidding?!! We've had snow twice already...

Really???? That's not the same pic I took of you at last year's office party??!!! bigsmile

:laughing:

Ladylid2012's photo
Fri 12/02/11 07:12 AM



I have found it very difficult to find someone that loves me as much as I love her. How can I make a girl I love show as much love as i show her?brokenheart frown


Ditch your measuring cup....


Yes, I agree. But how easy is it?


you choose
you can make it easy or you can make it difficult

change the way you look at things and
the things you look at change

solitairé's photo
Fri 12/02/11 07:16 AM

I have found it very difficult to find someone that loves me as much as I love her. How can I make a girl I love show as much love as i show her?brokenheart frown
we seem to be in the same boat. I sure need whatever advice u r getting here.flowerforyou

PacificStar48's photo
Fri 12/02/11 07:18 AM
"Living your life by the ruler is to die by the sword in inches." I don't know who said this but it is very true.

If you measure every effort someone makes you are missing the gifts they GIVE you in whatever increment they can give it to you it is cutting you both to shreds.

If you savor each serving of love placed on your lips you will spare yourself the misery of every being hungry or over full and actually remember the flavor much longer.

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Fri 12/02/11 07:21 AM

"Living your life by the ruler is to die by the sword in inches." I don't know who said this but it is very true.

If you measure every effort someone makes you are missing the gifts they GIVE you in whatever increment they can give it to you it is cutting you both to shreds.

If you savor each serving of love placed on your lips you will spare yourself the misery of every being hungry or over full and actually remember the flavor much longer.


:thumbsup:


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Fri 12/02/11 01:52 PM


I have found it very difficult to find someone that loves me as much as I love her. How can I make a girl I love show as much love as i show her?brokenheart frown


Ditch your measuring cup....
HAHAHA, my new quote of the day.

How do you get someone to love you as much as you love them . . . ditch your measuring cup!

It takes a confident cook to ditch the cup . . . wink wink.

navygirl's photo
Fri 12/02/11 03:06 PM




Or in a bottle. drinker

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