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Lol, no I'm not. I have a very normal sex drive.
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.. for a monk??lol
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.. for a monk??lol 
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Guys want.....
-Beer -Cookies -ESPN -Porn -Slut in bed -Great cook who has dinner on the table at 5:35PM sharp! -More Beer...and porn... |
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you know that hole between your legs? thats what we want. What a classy guy! |
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Lol, no I'm not. I have a very normal sex drive. What does "very normal sex drive" mean? |
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Men have two emotions: Hungry and Horny. If you see him without an erection, make him a sandwich. If only this were true for all guys.  My ex-husband was never happy with anything he had. He always needed a better car or a bigger house or more toys or whatever. And he had the same problem in a relationship. He couldn't be faithful to just one girl. He always wanted more and different. So, I'm sure there are lots of guys who are happy with regular sex and food, but I don't think you can say "all guys want XY and Z" any more than you can say what "all girls want". Are you sure we didnt marry the same guy?  I second every word! It was horrible. I spend almost 10 years trying to make him happy. Then one day I realized that there's nothing I, or anyone, could do to make him happy. It was a never ending cycle. 
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Men have two emotions: Hungry and Horny. If you see him without an erection, make him a sandwich. If only this were true for all guys. My ex-husband was never happy with anything he had. He always needed a better car or a bigger house or more toys or whatever. And he had the same problem in a relationship. He couldn't be faithful to just one girl. He always wanted more and different. So, I'm sure there are lots of guys who are happy with regular sex and food, but I don't think you can say "all guys want XY and Z" any more than you can say what "all girls want". He sounds insecure. A good therapist (or a great deal of introspection) could help him with that. No doubt. But, that's something a person has to want to do. |
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Lol, no I'm not. I have a very normal sex drive. What does "very normal sex drive" mean? 8 - 10 times a day is pretty normal I think |
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Last I checked I had a pulse. Not all men are dependent on women, they are out there. No, I'm not a great cook but salad and fruit are my 2 favorite foods so I don't need to cook. Are you a vegan? That would explain your low sex drive. Sex hormones are largely made of triglycerides found in meat. You genuinely believe that? My partner and I have been vegetarians for over 30 years respectively, and lack of libido is NOT something either of us have a challenge with!...we have 11 children between us and neither of us are rampant 20 year olds.. |
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Guys are simple, but not every guy is the same or wants the samethings. One thing we have in common, is that unlike woman we look for a girl that turns us on and makes us want to take her to bed. This is the first thing we think of. If a guy comes over to you and even says hi, he has already undressed you with his eyes, pictured you and him in bed, and knows what he wants to do to you. From here guys are different. Some want someone they can talk too, other just want someone to not talk to much. Some want someone to share interests with, others just want a girl to only do what he wants to do or leave him alone to his own thing. Some want a girl to have her own life, others want a girl whos life consists of him and his needs only. Some want a partner, others want a pet. We all want a girl who cooks, cleans, and can keep house.
If you want like a general rule to follow, bed good in bed (meaning you do everything he wants to do) and keep a good house. Other than that its just figuring out how much freedom he wants you to have and how much talking he wants you to do. Yea that pretty much sums it up |
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Edited by
sweetestgirl11
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Thu 11/10/11 07:31 PM
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may I remind you that most girls are capable of buying our own houses and are well beyond caring about how much freedom "he" wants us to have. If he doesn't please us in bed it will be the last sex he has (because we'll tell everyone he;s a cum ho). Most of us will talk when we feel like it and really do not care what guys think about that. really what we want is just as important to us as what you want - it's just that way now grand dad
if a man can't pull his own weight around the house, he will have a tough time keeping a woman interested in sex - there is no bigger turn off than watching some couch potato watch you clean house ....just sayin' |
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Edited by
singmesweet
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Thu 11/10/11 07:49 PM
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Guys are simple, but not every guy is the same or wants the samethings. One thing we have in common, is that unlike woman we look for a girl that turns us on and makes us want to take her to bed. This is the first thing we think of. If a guy comes over to you and even says hi, he has already undressed you with his eyes, pictured you and him in bed, and knows what he wants to do to you. From here guys are different. Some want someone they can talk too, other just want someone to not talk to much. Some want someone to share interests with, others just want a girl to only do what he wants to do or leave him alone to his own thing. Some want a girl to have her own life, others want a girl whos life consists of him and his needs only. Some want a partner, others want a pet. We all want a girl who cooks, cleans, and can keep house. If you want like a general rule to follow, bed good in bed (meaning you do everything he wants to do) and keep a good house. Other than that its just figuring out how much freedom he wants you to have and how much talking he wants you to do. Yea that pretty much sums it up So all a woman has to do to make you happy is be obedient in bed and clean your house?  I think some men forget that women like sex just as much as they do. And that we're not just there to do exactly what you desire. You may want to figure out what women like in bed as well. |
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may I remind you that most girls are capable of buying our own houses and are well beyond caring about how much freedom "he" wants us to have. If he doesn't please us in bed it will be the last sex he has (because we'll tell everyone he;s a cum ho). Most of us will talk when we feel like it and really do not care what guys think about that. really what we want is just as important to us as what you want - it's just that way now grand dad if a man can't pull his own weight around the house, he will have a tough time keeping a woman interested in sex - there is no bigger turn off than watching some couch potato watch you clean house ....just sayin' I'm not quite sure why men these days still expect women to clean for them. |
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Last I checked I had a pulse. Not all men are dependent on women, they are out there. No, I'm not a great cook but salad and fruit are my 2 favorite foods so I don't need to cook. Are you a vegan? That would explain your low sex drive. Sex hormones are largely made of triglycerides found in meat. You genuinely believe that? My partner and I have been vegetarians for over 30 years respectively, and lack of libido is NOT something either of us have a challenge with!...we have 11 children between us and neither of us are rampant 20 year olds.. I misspoke (er...wrote), Testosterone is made of Cholesterol, not triglycerides. Even if you don't eat enough cholesterol in your diet, your liver can make cholesterol. The problem is that your liver can only make about 75% of the cholesterol you need. Maybe you eat dairy or eggs or maybe you and your partner have some other twist in your diet or makeup that allows your body to make plenty of cholesterol. |
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Edited by
sweetestgirl11
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Thu 11/10/11 07:58 PM
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may I remind you that most girls are capable of buying our own houses and are well beyond caring about how much freedom "he" wants us to have. If he doesn't please us in bed it will be the last sex he has (because we'll tell everyone he;s a cum ho). Most of us will talk when we feel like it and really do not care what guys think about that. really what we want is just as important to us as what you want - it's just that way now grand dad if a man can't pull his own weight around the house, he will have a tough time keeping a woman interested in sex - there is no bigger turn off than watching some couch potato watch you clean house ....just sayin' I'm not quite sure why men these days still expect women to clean for them. nor do we care.... and I really don;t mind cleaning - and even doing some nice things housekeeping-wise for my guy - it's just the attutide of civicman where it is "expected" rather than appreciated |
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Edited by
singmesweet
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Thu 11/10/11 07:57 PM
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haha, nope. The last thing on my mind when I'm with a guy is cleaning for him. Luckily, I've never had a guy ask me to clean. I think I'd probably turn around and walk out the door if that happened.
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if a man can't pull his own weight around the house, he will have a tough time keeping a woman interested in sex - there is no bigger turn off than watching some couch potato watch you clean house ....just sayin' Major point there. My ex was a couch potato who thought having a job left him immune to cleaning duties, cooking for himself, or doing anything but playing with his guitar while I worked my butt off doing housekeep for room and board...that HE benefited from. >.< 
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"Having sex is like playing bridge. If you don't have a good partner, you'd better have a good hand."
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if a man can't pull his own weight around the house, he will have a tough time keeping a woman interested in sex - there is no bigger turn off than watching some couch potato watch you clean house ....just sayin' Major point there. My ex was a couch potato who thought having a job left him immune to cleaning duties, cooking for himself, or doing anything but playing with his guitar while I worked my butt off doing housekeep for room and board...that HE benefited from. >.< I just want to make sure I understand this...He supported you and you just had to clean up after him and yourself and you see that as being unfair? |
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