Topic: What does a guy want?
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Thu 11/10/11 09:06 PM





Man way to jump all over me there, this thread asked what do men want? So i was answering honestly. There was no question as to what woman want or anything. So i gave an honest answer of what men really want. Sorry if you can't handle the truth. Now as for what woman want, who the hell knows. I been trying to figure that out for years. Seems to me they want a man to act more like a dog. Protect them from danger, support everything no matter what, listen to everything they say, and be a good little boy and stay in your cage till she is ready to make time for you. That about right?

I just don't get it, woman today are so confusing. I don't know what they want. They say they want one thing and run off with another. They use sex to get men to do what they want, and the first times a man disagrees hes out the door. None of them like to cook anymore, cleaning the house is seen as stepping back in being a slave. And they want to go out running around with their friends, spending money, getting drunk, who knows what else and men aren't supposed to say one word about this. Well personally im tired of being the guy who is sitting home waiting for her to feel ready to come home and see me. Talk about fair, woman just don't give a damn anymore


Women really aren't that confusing. However, trying to guess what anyone wants just isn't going to work.

Why should they have to cook all the time for you? Or clean all the time for you? Can't you share the responsibilities?

And why should they have to give up their friends for you? Why are you sitting at home instead of going out as well? Don't you have your own friends? Or at least go out with her!


For real are you eyes working? Where in my post does it say that I want a woman to cook clean and be bare foot and prego in the kitchen? This is the issue here women will take anything a man says and turn it into them being controling. WTF


This part makes it seem like you're not happy that women don't want to do these things for you: None of them like to cook anymore, cleaning the house is seen as stepping back in being a slave.


You stated "why can't both people share in the house work" I agree, why can't they? But in my experiance woman don't even know where the kitchen is, so how can she share? My last GF could only boil hotdogs. So it was completly left up to me. Also most woman see cleaning the house as taking a step back in time and feel they are above it now. I have no problem cleaning house, but she feels like this how can she share in that? See what i mean? Shareing is shareing, and if its your turn to cook, ordering out doesn't count. and the cloths are not done until they are folded and put away. Washing drying and putting on the coach in a pile doesn't count. You really should come check out my house, you would never believe that a single guy lives here alone. I'll give ya a hint, the toilet sit is always down, there are no cloths on my floor, you can't write you name in the dust, its smells good, and their are no dirty dishes in my sink. I have had many people tell me if they didn't know better they would never think a guy lives here alone.


Why are you assuming all women are like the ones you've dated? Just because a past girlfriend of yours wouldn't share in the cooking duties, does it mean that no woman would? Of course not. So, first thing you should do is stop complaining about all women not doing things simply because an ex didn't.

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Thu 11/10/11 09:07 PM






Man way to jump all over me there, this thread asked what do men want? So i was answering honestly. There was no question as to what woman want or anything. So i gave an honest answer of what men really want. Sorry if you can't handle the truth. Now as for what woman want, who the hell knows. I been trying to figure that out for years. Seems to me they want a man to act more like a dog. Protect them from danger, support everything no matter what, listen to everything they say, and be a good little boy and stay in your cage till she is ready to make time for you. That about right?

I just don't get it, woman today are so confusing. I don't know what they want. They say they want one thing and run off with another. They use sex to get men to do what they want, and the first times a man disagrees hes out the door. None of them like to cook anymore, cleaning the house is seen as stepping back in being a slave. And they want to go out running around with their friends, spending money, getting drunk, who knows what else and men aren't supposed to say one word about this. Well personally im tired of being the guy who is sitting home waiting for her to feel ready to come home and see me. Talk about fair, woman just don't give a damn anymore


Women really aren't that confusing. However, trying to guess what anyone wants just isn't going to work.

Why should they have to cook all the time for you? Or clean all the time for you? Can't you share the responsibilities?

And why should they have to give up their friends for you? Why are you sitting at home instead of going out as well? Don't you have your own friends? Or at least go out with her!


For real are you eyes working? Where in my post does it say that I want a woman to cook clean and be bare foot and prego in the kitchen? This is the issue here women will take anything a man says and turn it into them being controling. WTF


This part makes it seem like you're not happy that women don't want to do these things for you: None of them like to cook anymore, cleaning the house is seen as stepping back in being a slave.


You stated "why can't both people share in the house work" I agree, why can't they? But in my experiance woman don't even know where the kitchen is, so how can she share? My last GF could only boil hotdogs. So it was completly left up to me. Also most woman see cleaning the house as taking a step back in time and feel they are above it now. I have no problem cleaning house, but she feels like this how can she share in that? See what i mean? Shareing is shareing, and if its your turn to cook, ordering out doesn't count. and the cloths are not done until they are folded and put away. Washing drying and putting on the coach in a pile doesn't count. You really should come check out my house, you would never believe that a single guy lives here alone. I'll give ya a hint, the toilet sit is always down, there are no cloths on my floor, you can't write you name in the dust, its smells good, and their are no dirty dishes in my sink. I have had many people tell me if they didn't know better they would never think a guy lives here alone.


Why are you assuming all women are like the ones you've dated? Just because a past girlfriend of yours wouldn't share in the cooking duties, does it mean that no woman would? Of course not. So, first thing you should do is stop complaining about all women not doing things simply because an ex didn't.


Why is that, isn't that what woman do? I know i have seen posted about how "all men are the same" and "i wish one would prove to me that they are all not the same" etc

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Thu 11/10/11 09:14 PM
Nope. I know for sure all men are not the same.

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Thu 11/10/11 09:24 PM

Nope. I know for sure all men are not the same.


So glad to hear that

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Thu 11/10/11 09:54 PM

Men have two emotions: Hungry and Horny. If you see him without an erection, make him a sandwich.

LOL as I stated then laugh

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Thu 11/10/11 10:08 PM


Men have two emotions: Hungry and Horny. If you see him without an erection, make him a sandwich.

LOL as I stated then laugh


your cute

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Fri 11/11/11 06:28 AM

Nope. I know for sure all men are not the same.


Really? Well at least a large majority are. What do most men want? They want a beer and want to see something naked. *Jeff Foxworthy*

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Fri 11/11/11 06:58 AM


Nope. I know for sure all men are not the same.


Really? Well at least a large majority are. What do most men want? They want a beer and want to see something naked. *Jeff Foxworthy*


You want us to think all you men are the same? That you have no individuality?

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Fri 11/11/11 07:05 AM

Man way to jump all over me there, this thread asked what do men want? So i was answering honestly. There was no question as to what woman want or anything. So i gave an honest answer of what men really want. Sorry if you can't handle the truth. Now as for what woman want, who the hell knows. I been trying to figure that out for years. Seems to me they want a man to act more like a dog. Protect them from danger, support everything no matter what, listen to everything they say, and be a good little boy and stay in your cage till she is ready to make time for you. That about right?

I just don't get it, woman today are so confusing. I don't know what they want. They say they want one thing and run off with another. They use sex to get men to do what they want, and the first times a man disagrees hes out the door. None of them like to cook anymore, cleaning the house is seen as stepping back in being a slave. And they want to go out running around with their friends, spending money, getting drunk, who knows what else and men aren't supposed to say one word about this. Well personally im tired of being the guy who is sitting home waiting for her to feel ready to come home and see me. Talk about fair, woman just don't give a damn anymore


I didn't even read this entire comment because you start out presuming to know what all men want. so why should I take u seriously?

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Fri 11/11/11 07:06 AM

haha, nope. The last thing on my mind when I'm with a guy is cleaning for him. Luckily, I've never had a guy ask me to clean. I think I'd probably turn around and walk out the door if that happened.


rofl rofl rofl


unless it's cleaning HIM and he wants to jump in that bubble bath with me!!!drool

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Fri 11/11/11 07:07 AM
Well they dont want me that im sure of. Ive got no matches. and hardly get mail....wtf

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Fri 11/11/11 07:07 AM



Nope. I know for sure all men are not the same.


Really? Well at least a large majority are. What do most men want? They want a beer and want to see something naked. *Jeff Foxworthy*


You want us to think all you men are the same? That you have no individuality?


Jeff Foxworthy isn't a philosopher, he's a comedian. "They want a beer and want to see something naked." is a joke. Obviously. Chazster is also making a deprecating joke about men, implying that we are simple minded and have one track minds. I think you could do with a bit of levity in your life if you take this sort of post seriously.

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Fri 11/11/11 07:08 AM

Nope. I know for sure all men are not the same.


Now that is bragging beyond belief laugh

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Fri 11/11/11 07:09 AM



Nope. I know for sure all men are not the same.


Really? Well at least a large majority are. What do most men want? They want a beer and want to see something naked. *Jeff Foxworthy*


You want us to think all you men are the same? That you have no individuality?


Yes of course we all have individuality. That doesn't mean we don't all want the same thing. This post is about what guys want.

They want a beer and want to see something naked.

Now if you want to test this theory just hire an attractive nudist and buy some beers and start having her go up to guys and ask them if they would like a beer and to see her naked then survey the results. XD

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Fri 11/11/11 07:15 AM




Nope. I know for sure all men are not the same.


Really? Well at least a large majority are. What do most men want? They want a beer and want to see something naked. *Jeff Foxworthy*


You want us to think all you men are the same? That you have no individuality?


Jeff Foxworthy isn't a philosopher, he's a comedian. "They want a beer and want to see something naked." is a joke. Obviously. Chazster is also making a deprecating joke about men, implying that we are simple minded and have one track minds. I think you could do with a bit of levity in your life if you take this sort of post seriously.


So if a guy likes beer and things that are naked they are simple minded and have a 1 track mind? I disagree. I bet some of the smartest hard working people still like beer and sex. Just because they want something doesn't mean they can't function without it. Jeeze give more credit to your gender.

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Fri 11/11/11 07:15 AM




Nope. I know for sure all men are not the same.


Really? Well at least a large majority are. What do most men want? They want a beer and want to see something naked. *Jeff Foxworthy*


You want us to think all you men are the same? That you have no individuality?


Yes of course we all have individuality. That doesn't mean we don't all want the same thing. This post is about what guys want.

They want a beer and want to see something naked.

Now if you want to test this theory just hire an attractive nudist and buy some beers and start having her go up to guys and ask them if they would like a beer and to see her naked then survey the results. XD


That's fine. Many women want beer and to see something naked as well. Does that mean we're all the same? Of course not.

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Fri 11/11/11 07:15 AM


Nope. I know for sure all men are not the same.


Now that is bragging beyond belief laugh


This doesn't even make sense, as usual.

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Fri 11/11/11 07:19 AM





Nope. I know for sure all men are not the same.


Really? Well at least a large majority are. What do most men want? They want a beer and want to see something naked. *Jeff Foxworthy*


You want us to think all you men are the same? That you have no individuality?


Yes of course we all have individuality. That doesn't mean we don't all want the same thing. This post is about what guys want.

They want a beer and want to see something naked.

Now if you want to test this theory just hire an attractive nudist and buy some beers and start having her go up to guys and ask them if they would like a beer and to see her naked then survey the results. XD


That's fine. Many women want beer and to see something naked as well. Does that mean we're all the same? Of course not.


In respect to what they want then yes. You could have a neighborhood with different designed houses that are all blue. Then someone askes "what color are they?" They are all the same.. they are blue.

See how relativity works? Thus by asking what men want with no situation given it is not unreasonable to go to the most basic level of human desires. In fact someone on the first page mentioned food and sex but no one hassled her. I guess women can say stuff like that about guys but guys can't. Or maybe just I am not allowed to. I will say it though.

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Fri 11/11/11 07:21 AM
Edited by singmesweet on Fri 11/11/11 07:22 AM
You're really arguing with me about how you think all men are the same? laugh

It doesn't make them the same. It's just that they like some of the same things.

And I'm not saying it's bad that you said men want beer and something naked. I agree with that in general. Just like many women like the same thing.

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Fri 11/11/11 08:26 AM
All men and all women want the same thing. To love and to be loved. Unfortunately, HOW we express that or feel that vary from person to person and that's where all the trouble comes in.

Communication is the key. Well, finding someone you are basically compatible with is the first key. And, then communicating openly with that person should, under most circumstances, make it work.