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can't there be trust in a distant relationship?i believe it's the person that matters,not the proximity. Lovers/couples can live under the same roof for years and still cheat on each other while some far apart r very faithful.So why the notion that distant lovers cheat. It drives me crazy when people take this perspective.
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I guess it all depends on the person, if they have the ability to trust and also if the person they are seing shows them that they can be trusted.
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If there isn't trust...all is lost.
 Near or far..doesn't matter.
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If there isn't trust...all is lost. Near or far..doesn't matter.
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can't there be trust in a distant relationship?i believe it's the person that matters,not the proximity. Lovers/couples can live under the same roof for years and still cheat on each other while some far apart r very faithful.So why the notion that distant lovers cheat. It drives me crazy when people take this perspective. People who can not trust are damaged goods in my book. I feel bad for them but I'm not going to be in a relationship built anywhere near a non-trusting person. Too much in life that is good to be spoiled by this. nice topic |
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can't there be trust in a distant relationship?i believe it's the person that matters,not the proximity. Lovers/couples can live under the same roof for years and still cheat on each other while some far apart r very faithful.So why the notion that distant lovers cheat. It drives me crazy when people take this perspective. People who can not trust are damaged goods in my book. I feel bad for them but I'm not going to be in a relationship built anywhere near a non-trusting person. Too much in life that is good to be spoiled by this. nice topic Yep, theres nothing worse than being involved with someone who questions your every move 
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If you can't trust the one your in-love with then there is no relationship regardless of the distance..... 
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Yep, you gals are so right.
Kristy, you have seen me do it. That is a button in a relationship that makes it a non-relationship quick. There is really no questions to be asked or problems to solve at that point. |
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Sometimes we are the victim.
Of trust gone bad. We have to..reboot. |
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If there isn't trust...all is lost. Near or far..doesn't matter.
Pure and Simple 
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Sometimes we are the victim. Of trust gone bad. We have to..reboot. Reboot as in stay with, or learning how to trust again? I don't know how people manage to stay, if that is the case. Breaks my heart just thinking the pain they must have. I don't know, but would that tape ever truly get erased? |
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Reboot as in stay with, or learning how to trust again? I don't know how people manage to stay, if that is the case. Breaks my heart just thinking the pain they must have. I don't know, but would that tape ever truly get erased? I meant, as in start over. With someone who has NOT..betrayed the trust. I cannot see, going back either..seems like it would be torture. |
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I think you have to give people the benefit of the doubt until proven otherwise. You would be limiting yourself to do otherwise.
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If there isn't trust...all is lost. Near or far..doesn't matter.
That pretty much sums it up. |
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thanks u all.i was in such a situation.i met a man here and throughout d relationship i had to spend time and energy just trying to dispel his distrust.it sapped me emotionally. i am one who loves life and live it happily.though i would love to have that special person to live d sweet life with,i'd rather be alone than be with an emotionally insecure man.
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Insecurities are probably the number one killer of relationships.
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Trust no one! I mean...didn't we learn this from X-Files?
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Edited by
Seakolony
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Sat 11/19/11 06:42 PM
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can't there be trust in a distant relationship?i believe it's the person that matters,not the proximity. Lovers/couples can live under the same roof for years and still cheat on each other while some far apart r very faithful.So why the notion that distant lovers cheat. It drives me crazy when people take this perspective. Trust freely given is worth its weight in gold. Belief in that trust unleashes treasures untold. I trust unless given reason to not trust. |
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Edited by
sweetestgirl11
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Sat 11/19/11 06:35 PM
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trust is earned and maintained
if a man behaves in a way that is trustworthy I will trust him if he behaves in a way that gives cause for question I will question and hopefully that would resolve it if not, I would not continue on with someone that i cannot trust but just to expect trust, carte blanche, not necessarily- to some degree it is earned over time. I would be very suspicious of a man who just expected to be trusted "no questions asked" |
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Sometimes we are the victim. Of trust gone bad. We have to..reboot. Reboot as in stay with, or learning how to trust again? I don't know how people manage to stay, if that is the case. Breaks my heart just thinking the pain they must have. I don't know, but would that tape ever truly get erased? Well, I hope so. I was the dummy who stayed and it is very painful. I tried just about everything I could, until there was nothing left. I have faith that I'll be able to trust again. |
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