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Sounds like a whole lot of stress build up or maybe a blockage some where ... Good grief there are sooooo many diff people out there and sooooo many choices but from what I have just read most have already talked them selves out of the possibilities of a true love happening.. As A good friend told me you cant get wet if you don't get in the water.. Some swims are worth it.... 
I like the desert!!! 
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@latheman03 Thanks for the really uplifting words. If this thread sounds a little like I have a defeated attitude I really don't. Darn hormones, some times I feel like the prefect love for me is just a moment away and other times I feel like wow, I've waited so long and I'm getting older what's the use.  Just give me a HWB, (husband with benifits). 
LOL Everyone one of us is getting older. I swore I would never get old and look what happened lol.. But getting old does not mean that we should stop living. We all been hurt and some of us more so then others. Its not a gender specific ailment.. Women think that men are all calloused and tough as a rock and don't have feelings.. I beg to differ. Pain is pain we just all handle it differently. We I will leave it at that and leave you all to continue. On a final not just remember that we were not designed to be alone.. Car will not run with out gas , grass will not grow with out water, We do not HAVE to have a significant other but you have to admit life is a more interesting trip when shared. 
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Has anyone else notice that if you out and out make a proclamation to the universe that you are through with dating that the universe will through someone irresistible in front of you to prove you wrong? Good point.  But the trouble is that she old enough to be my grandmother. Have you ever seen that movie where Christopher Reeves goes back in time? It was called, "Somewhere in Time". It was made in 1980. A Chicago playwright uses self-hypnosis to find the actress whose vintage portrait hangs in a grand hotel.
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@latheman03 Thanks for the really uplifting words. If this thread sounds a little like I have a defeated attitude I really don't. Darn hormones, some times I feel like the prefect love for me is just a moment away and other times I feel like wow, I've waited so long and I'm getting older what's the use. Just give me a HWB, (husband with benifits).
LOL Everyone one of us is getting older. I swore I would never get old and look what happened lol.. But getting old does not mean that we should stop living. We all been hurt and some of us more so then others. Its not a gender specific ailment.. Women think that men are all calloused and tough as a rock and don't have feelings.. I beg to differ. Pain is pain we just all handle it differently. We I will leave it at that and leave you all to continue. On a final not just remember that we were not designed to be alone.. Car will not run with out gas , grass will not grow with out water, We do not HAVE to have a significant other but you have to admit life is a more interesting trip when shared.
I love your outlook on life! Thanks! |
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Edited by
sweetestgirl11
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Sun 11/06/11 07:11 AM
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Sounds like a whole lot of stress build up or maybe a blockage some where ... Good grief there are sooooo many diff people out there and sooooo many choices but from what I have just read most have already talked them selves out of the possibilities of a true love happening.. As A good friend told me you cant get wet if you don't get in the water.. Some swims are worth it.... 
true -love your posters - both of them and I agree completely with what you said - sad to say I've been impacted by men who have the attitude that something or someone better is just a click away.at least I am open to the possibilities and do not treat people like items on a grocery shelf I am also a little older than most on here and a lot older than many so I know the "connection" and that things will work almost immediately...I have just had more experience. And that is a little bit of a challenge on here with the younger guys because most of them have no clue what they want - or have not had enough expereince to recognize a good connect when it happens. |
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Ok I am going to another thread before some one throws something at me.. Thought I was in love many times but stayed away from everyone for 3 years and the only person I hurt was me doing it. Took my daughter a year to talk me into even joining a dating site. I love her for her stubbornness because in the 1 week I have been here I can actually hear my heart beating again... I will leave you all with this foot note..... 
thank you for this if anyone throws anything at you come find me and they will learn that Sweetest has an alter ego
seriously, I have this saying that we should always remember when we interact with others that we have no way of knowing the depths of their suffering or where they have been, what they have had to deal with in life. So treat others accordingly. I just automatically assume that someone comes from pain when I meet them. I can spot those that don;t - usually younger, usually selfish & act spolied, but it is not their fault - that's all they know |
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i think Lex has that poster it does sound a little like something he'd say it's a good poster & true
some of us read it and like it - others read and know it, as they've lived it |
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