What irks me is when a man puts seeking long term relationship but when you chat with them for a couple of minutes, the next thing you know, they are asking you what type of underwear you are wearing. I just end up blocking them, however, my quirk about that is why put long term if you are just seeking a quick fix, via cyber or in person. What a turn off!! I know anyone can say anything on dating sites to sound enticing, but, come on now, I want respect and honesty more than just a line. Where are all the good men with true self and honesty, because I am a good woman that is more than ready to love, and build an everlasting relationship with a best friend for life!!

Both of us have done the same by blocking. There are those who use this site for only themselves.... If profiles are honest and clear, people should realize that there is another real person on the other side of the msg/email communication. Best of luck to you!

I think your clearing up of what long term means to you may help others to figure out what it means to them.

So what color are you wearing????

Yep, its either the underwear or what do you like when it comes to sex. My response to the underwear is; not wearing them. My response to the sex question; is you will never find out.

Welcome to Mingle. People who arent honest about who they are irks me too. But their are always gonna be those types especially online. Try getting to know people thru the forums their are alot of great people here. Best of Luck.

You never know what is on the other end.. that is why I always say no thanks to the ppl who immediately give out their phone numbers or ask for them. A quick hello and they give you everything.. doesn't make them look too good as far as I can tell. How many others have they done that with and why. How does that make them different.

People like that just want to lure you in and play with your emotions

Sure it is a line for some but for others it really is what they are looking for. Listen politely but let actions speak louder than words.

If some member of the Frog Prince association is just mouthing the words put them on block or ignore them and they eventually go to someone gulible enough to buy it the first time they say it.

I guess so, better them than me...

You will never know...

You will never know...

a clean topic when chating in private is always better. if they want to there fine but in general, guys should start w/ the basics