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I'm not sure if this will still work ...
I've been in this whole online dating since I was 26, and have had 2 steady relationships - one 3 years, and one 4 years plus. Only thing that I haven't anticipated was the chance of meeting - both guys didn't make their ways to come and see me, though both have promised that they will. Both have financial problems, but I wonder why they haven't assessed their capabilities before committing on something - this what really makes my heart sink. For now I am giving my last try, although there's this one guy whom I have met face to face already, who likes me, but I am not sure about my feelings for him. Is it still possible to meet the One on here? 
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It's possible, but LDR's SUCK!
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I'm not sure if this will still work ... I've been in this whole online dating since I was 26, and have had 2 steady relationships - one 3 years, and one 4 years plus. Only thing that I haven't anticipated was the chance of meeting - both guys didn't make their ways to come and see me, though both have promised that they will. Both have financial problems, but I wonder why they haven't assessed their capabilities before committing on something - this what really makes my heart sink. For now I am giving my last try, although there's this one guy whom I have met face to face already, who likes me, but I am not sure about my feelings for him. Is it still possible to meet the One on here?
I'm wondering myself. I've been on several sites for many years and only one relationship. Guy was nice but we just weren't a match. I think I'll go for the meeting them in person, old fashion way before there was internet dating. Hope you have better success than I have. |
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It's possible, but LDR's SUCK! No they don't. They can be beautiful. |
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It's possible, but LDR's SUCK! No they don't. They can be beautiful. They CAN be, but works better for some than for others. For some reason I keep finding myself in them. 
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I'm wondering myself. I've been on several sites for many years and only one relationship. Guy was nice but we just weren't a match. I think I'll go for the meeting them in person, old fashion way before there was internet dating. Hope you have better success than I have. I agree, and thanks 
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It's possible, but LDR's SUCK! No they don't. They can be beautiful. LOL they both suck and are beautiful..But they can work |
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LOL they both suck and are beautiful..But they can work 
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Meeting on line has to be the goal not having the relationship on line. If a person doesn't want to let go of their life to the degree that you do cut bait and walk away. Relationships have an amplification curve and if something is going flat line then it is dead and faceing facts saves wasteng your life. Personal opinion is living life with someone who is so indecisive or scared to go after something they want will be a very frusterateing waste of a good life.
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If you truly want that person, then go for it. :shrug: Just wondering why you prefer long distance over local. If the partner isn't putting forth enough effort i'd start questioning why they ain't so eager. They can't promise you one thing, and go do another. That just isn't fair.
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I'm not sure if this will still work ... I've been in this whole online dating since I was 26, and have had 2 steady relationships - one 3 years, and one 4 years plus. Only thing that I haven't anticipated was the chance of meeting - both guys didn't make their ways to come and see me, though both have promised that they will. Both have financial problems, but I wonder why they haven't assessed their capabilities before committing on something - this what really makes my heart sink. For now I am giving my last try, although there's this one guy whom I have met face to face already, who likes me, but I am not sure about my feelings for him. Is it still possible to meet the One on here?
here is what i did. Find out if they are willing to relocate if needed. Obviously not right away but why invest in something that will never be tangible. I met a lot of great handsome men on here, but damn all the good ones live so far away. Finally found one who A. can afford plane tickets, LOL. B. Is actually willing to visit C. Is not afraid to relocate and give things a shot. |
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Why are there so many asain woman on here trying to date american men? Don't get me wrong i love asain women but why should i spend thousands trying to bring them here, or travel half way around the world to see them, when there are plenty of asian women already here? You complain that these two men have not come to see you, have you made any effort to travel to them? What do you have to offer these men if anything or are you just looking for a free ride?
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It's possible, but LDR's SUCK! No they don't. They can be beautiful. LOL they both suck and are beautiful..But they can work Lol couldnt agree more. |
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Edited by
newg78
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Mon 10/17/11 07:19 PM
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Why are there so many asain woman on here trying to date american men? Don't get me wrong i love asain women but why should i spend thousands trying to bring them here, or travel half way around the world to see them, when there are plenty of asian women already here? You complain that these two men have not come to see you, have you made any effort to travel to them? What do you have to offer these men if anything or are you just looking for a free ride? FYI: These two men had so much from me. In fact I have offered the latter with the following: 1. Money for passport fee - CASH UPFRONT (but he never got one) 2. Whole amount for plane tickets 3. Expense-free hotel accommodation 4. Expense-free Wedding 5. Thousands of phonecards (when I was the one calling him) 6. House to stay when married, if he wanted to live in the Philippines 7. Last month I tried my fortune on getting a US tourist visa just to go see him, but unfortunately was turned down - US Embassy hates single people visiting the USA - weird but aren't we allies??? I just wanted to help, I knew this man has financial issues. But because of my great love for him, I was willing to give all. Don't get me wrong - I'm Asian but never asked a white man for a free ride. Damn, I'm just soo good :( |
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Hello. Long distance? How is Mrs. Long Distance and all those short distances between?
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Hello. Long distance? How is Mrs. Long Distance and all those short distances between? Yeah, ok, Whatever 21!
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Hi Babygirl
BIG KISSES! You deserve them! Guys, this is the real deal. One of my absolute favorite people that is worthy of the very best. love you dada |
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ok this is one i have chatted with many beautifull women from different countries an almost all of them will ask if you love them phh heck i dont know just met em. 2 they will say they love you repeatively to the scary point of talking imediately about marrage dont get me wrong i would love nothing more than to find that special one to spend the rest of my life with. but who can know that quick an the other thing is if you are looking to another country for a man dont expect he is rich an going to pay your way to come here. must say they chat very nice an conversation is great but the outcome is never a good one for me when they find out im to poor to send them a dime ever lol.
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A lot of people tend to be fake on the internet and not themselves in person. I have never dated online nor will I. If i cant speak to the person face to face and have that "physical" attraction and desire then i don't see the point. Thats like saying you travel a lot or love the outdoors, but your always in side chatting on the internet. If your older I could see it happening, but not under 30.
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A lot of people tend to be fake on the internet and not themselves in person. I have never dated online nor will I. If i cant speak to the person face to face and have that "physical" attraction and desire then i don't see the point. Thats like saying you travel a lot or love the outdoors, but your always in side chatting on the internet. If your older I could see it happening, but not under 30.
OMG all us poor oldies.. 
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