Topic: LDR - Still possible? | |
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A few years back, I met a sexy, wonderful woman from here. She lived 1,500 miles away. But I got my self together, and junped in the car and went to meet her a few times, before I went there to stay for an extended time.....I had just been hurt in Iraq and was still quite beat up, so I went back to take care of me, and life got in the way....We are still best of friends and talk a few times a month.
If you don't try, you are for sure going to fail. It is not easy and I don't think I have it in me anymore to try a LDR, but when the heart screams, sometimes ya just have to quiet it and see what the screaming is all about... |
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I hear you Phuque2... better luck for a SDR
I didn't hesitate to try and after 2 failures I still gave myself one last try. So far it is going good for now. I am happy |
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But for the yearning, my mingle mate and I
have found it fairly easy making a LDR work for nearly 2 years now. Absolute commitment helps. Blind ears listening to naysayers. Constant, unbroken contact, we talk 7 times a day without fail. It matters little if you are out of conversation, it is the connection itself that matters most. Complete individuality, free to 'be.' Trust. It can work. |
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I'm not sure if this will still work ... I've been in this whole online dating since I was 26, and have had 2 steady relationships - one 3 years, and one 4 years plus. Only thing that I haven't anticipated was the chance of meeting - both guys didn't make their ways to come and see me, though both have promised that they will. Both have financial problems, but I wonder why they haven't assessed their capabilities before committing on something - this what really makes my heart sink. For now I am giving my last try, although there's this one guy whom I have met face to face already, who likes me, but I am not sure about my feelings for him. Is it still possible to meet the One on here? LDRs are possible if both persons are committed to one another. It can be difficult to start a relationship off as an LDR, but if both parties are serious about each other nothing can stand between them, but what they allow to. |
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But for the yearning, my mingle mate and I have found it fairly easy making a LDR work for nearly 2 years now. Absolute commitment helps. Blind ears listening to naysayers. Constant, unbroken contact, we talk 7 times a day without fail. It matters little if you are out of conversation, it is the connection itself that matters most. Complete individuality, free to 'be.' Trust. It can work. |
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