Topic: dont you just hate !!
kissablekiss's photo
Mon 09/26/11 03:04 AM
When you see a guy or girl your attracted to or want to be friends with
And they have an age/distance barrier on their profile ?
Sometimes you just wanna tell that person how great
He/she is doing and how much you admire them
How do you deal with this ?
Or you just sweep it under the rug .

kc0003's photo
Mon 09/26/11 03:09 AM
Rug, they have those restrictions for a reason

josie68's photo
Mon 09/26/11 04:09 AM
It wouldnt bother me,
to me if my age was not ok for them it would be putting an obsticle in our paths before we even started, its hard enough to make a relationship work without any other problems..:smile:

74Drew's photo
Mon 09/26/11 04:23 AM

When you see a guy or girl your attracted to or want to be friends with
And they have an age/distance barrier on their profile ?
Sometimes you just wanna tell that person how great
He/she is doing and how much you admire them
How do you deal with this ?
Or you just sweep it under the rug .

i just think that it's their loss and then move on.
like bonnie raitt sang, "i can't make you love me"


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no photo
Mon 09/26/11 05:08 AM
People have their preferences.

I'll admit there have been times when I wished someone would be more flexible on the age thing. But I'm not going to try to change anybody's mind, because I'm tired of people trying to get me to change my standards.

no photo
Mon 09/26/11 05:11 AM
There are age and distance preferences for a reason, so I would just move on.

SHOULDORNOT's photo
Mon 09/26/11 06:13 AM
Well I hate it when a 19 yr old tries to pick me up! Are you kidding me? I took my pic off cause. I mean yeah I look okay for my age, but I am still my age and don't wannna babysit!

TxsGal3333's photo
Mon 09/26/11 11:52 AM
Hahaha I go around it and send them a e-mail anyway :laughing: bigsmile

soufiehere's photo
Mon 09/26/11 12:04 PM

When you see a guy or girl your attracted to
or want to be friends with
And they have an age/distance barrier on
their profile ?..

I will get an email and automatically go
look at their profile.
There, a lot, I see an age requirement
MUCH younger than myself.
I always reply that I do not accept mail
from those who age discriminate.
They will try to go round that, or go back
and change it.
But one can't unlearn that information.

prashant01's photo
Mon 09/26/11 12:14 PM

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Mon 09/26/11 12:21 PM
I'm not the type to initiate contact but if I did, I would send them a polite email telling the person that I'm attracted to them but I won't expect anything to happen.