Topic: How boring is your life?
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Sat 09/17/11 06:23 PM
Edited by Jeanniebean on Sat 09/17/11 06:25 PM
Lex, I have always been fascinated with writers and one of my dreams is to be a published writer... (but I'm too busy being an artist or trying to be an artist).

I don't read enough to be a writer and I don't have the patience to put stories or characters together. Then when I try to write, I get obsessed with re-writing.

But what I would like to do is to outline a story ( or sort of describe what it is about) and then design a cover for it. Then, hire someone else to actually write the book.

Or

Just design book covers and make up book titles.

I make up a book title, then I design a cover for the unwritten book, then find some writer who can write the book.

It is usually a book title and cover that makes me want to read the book. But I can't read the book because its not written.






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Sat 09/17/11 06:26 PM




I once complained that my life was boring and then all hell broke loose. It wasn't good -- but it was certainly exciting enough that I wished my life was boring again.

I decided I liked boring.... as apposed to disasters and problems, so be careful what you ask for...

My life is so boring now that I watch television and a netflix movie at the same time while I work on updating my website.




So tell us how boring your life is.


Why does it have to be either boring or disasters and problems?

I rarely ever get bored. There's always something to do. I find that the people who complain about being bored all the time put no effort into going out and living life for the most part.


singmesweet

You misunderstand. I'm not the least bit bored myself. I'm never bored. I love what I do, I love painting, relaxing, watching movies etc. I love learning and reading.

But being bored is not the same thing as leading a somewhat peaceful and boring life.

If I were to write a book about my actual life it would bore other people.

I'm not bored with it at all, it's just not interesting to others or it does not interest others.

Example:

Dear Diary,

Today I sold two small paintings at the art show booth and I made $95.00. I won an "honorable mention" on one of my paintings in the show. The judge was horrible and picked an ugly painting of a cow for the Best of Show and it was really awful. (Any one of my four paintings that I entered was better and executed with tens times the skill.) The judge thought she was a good impressionistic artist, but her work was butt ugly and her judging was butt ugly.

And this was a busy day. My cousin was here for a visit. We ate lunch at Love's subway.

(Not like: gee, I went para sailing today and crashed on a garbage barge, or Like: I went sky diving and my parachute did not open and I had to use my spare chute.)



I get what you mean, but my question still stands. Why is it either boring or disasters and problems? Surely there is something in the middle.

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Sat 09/17/11 06:27 PM
My life isn't boring at all. It is full of drama. Serenity is the key for me. I know that pain is necessary sometimes but the misery is optional. I can choose to start my day over at any time. It is my I and Stein theory of relativity. Is the glass half empty or half full? It used to be I would drink the contents and say it is empty fill it up again. But I don't look at it way today. I just love boring sometimes. It is nice to have a break from the drama sometimes. But if it gets too boring I can just go to a meetings and get my head screwed back on right down back to size it needs to be so it don't float away.happy

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Sat 09/17/11 06:27 PM
Never a dull moment

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Sun 09/18/11 03:42 AM
I dont think I can ever remember being bored in my life... But then I can amuse myself easily..

But to a lot of people my life is boring, I really dont leave my work very often, i live there, work there and mostly holiday there..
But at the same time I have a constant stream of people I enjoy staying here so realy something interesting is always happening, and if its not i love the computer so thats not boring, nor are my children , so really my life which may seem boring to some is a constant source of amusement and interesting things to me..

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Sun 09/18/11 07:47 AM
Here is what my daily activities look like:
study, research, read anywhere from 6-8 books each 10 week semester, write mid terms and finals, eat, sleep, swim, walk, write & analyse dreams, mingle2/internet

Once in a while:
make short documentaries, play backgammon with my backgammon partner, hang out with my out of town friends or visit them


I'm never bored. Don't even know how to be bored but my life might seem boring to someone else.

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Sun 09/18/11 07:56 AM
Always keep a Razor Edge on my life.

luv2roknroll's photo
Sun 09/18/11 08:01 AM
Ohhhhhhhhhhh gawwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwd!

I promise you, you really dont want to know.

If I told you how boring my life was, it would make you cry.

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Sun 09/18/11 08:10 AM
I donno...this is one of the best times of my life.

I have been traveling alot lately..San Antonio occasionally, Oregon, Oklahoma a couple of times, a couple of Mingle gatherings, Dallas to visit my sister. Went to a Mingler's birthday bash in Louisiana, got my ticket paid off to go back to Oregon. (I love my Mingle woman!)

Work is going pretty smoothe.



Sure the day to day stuff is monotonous but, I break it up by actually getting out of the house and doing stuff.

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Sun 09/18/11 08:42 AM





I once complained that my life was boring and then all hell broke loose. It wasn't good -- but it was certainly exciting enough that I wished my life was boring again.

I decided I liked boring.... as apposed to disasters and problems, so be careful what you ask for...

My life is so boring now that I watch television and a netflix movie at the same time while I work on updating my website.




So tell us how boring your life is.


Why does it have to be either boring or disasters and problems?

I rarely ever get bored. There's always something to do. I find that the people who complain about being bored all the time put no effort into going out and living life for the most part.


singmesweet

You misunderstand. I'm not the least bit bored myself. I'm never bored. I love what I do, I love painting, relaxing, watching movies etc. I love learning and reading.

But being bored is not the same thing as leading a somewhat peaceful and boring life.

If I were to write a book about my actual life it would bore other people.

I'm not bored with it at all, it's just not interesting to others or it does not interest others.

Example:

Dear Diary,

Today I sold two small paintings at the art show booth and I made $95.00. I won an "honorable mention" on one of my paintings in the show. The judge was horrible and picked an ugly painting of a cow for the Best of Show and it was really awful. (Any one of my four paintings that I entered was better and executed with tens times the skill.) The judge thought she was a good impressionistic artist, but her work was butt ugly and her judging was butt ugly.

And this was a busy day. My cousin was here for a visit. We ate lunch at Love's subway.

(Not like: gee, I went para sailing today and crashed on a garbage barge, or Like: I went sky diving and my parachute did not open and I had to use my spare chute.)



I get what you mean, but my question still stands. Why is it either boring or disasters and problems? Surely there is something in the middle.


singmesweet,

I don't know. If you watch movies or read a book, excitement is always because of a problem or a disaster. It is called drama. No one wants to read a book all about a person who has fun all the time and there are no problems to solve or disasters to overcome. That does not make for much drama and for others it would probably be boring.

Life is all about stories. I'm not bored with my life, but the stories are not very exciting... (even if I get excited about something.) It doesn't seem interesting, even if I am interested.

What would be great is if I could write about my life and express it in such a way that it would be as interesting to the reader as it is to me, even though it is not some Hollywood action movie. That is what I would like to try.



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Sun 09/18/11 10:14 AM

Lex, I have always been fascinated with writers and one of my dreams is to be a published writer... (but I'm too busy being an artist or trying to be an artist).

I don't read enough to be a writer and I don't have the patience to put stories or characters together. Then when I try to write, I get obsessed with re-writing.

But what I would like to do is to outline a story ( or sort of describe what it is about) and then design a cover for it. Then, hire someone else to actually write the book.

Or

Just design book covers and make up book titles.

I make up a book title, then I design a cover for the unwritten book, then find some writer who can write the book.

It is usually a book title and cover that makes me want to read the book. But I can't read the book because its not written.


The hardest thing for me has always been that I have too many ideas and nowhere to put them. The actual writing part is fairly easy for me, especially if it's dialogue.

But I have been totally unable to stick to any kind of a "schedule" -- a lot of writers will tell you to do three pages a day, no more, no less. Others will say do three pages in the morning, three in the afternoon. I've never been able to do three pages and then stop. It's always 12 or 15. One time, it was 26.

But I may go days without writing anything useful at all, too. So it's always more about when the creativity is flowing than it is about trying to force it.

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Sun 09/18/11 10:16 AM

..got my ticket paid off to go back to Oregon.
(I love my Mingle woman!)..

I cannot say I have ever been bored.
If I were in prison, maybe.
Hmmm, no then either really, as
there would plenty of time to just think.
But it is a good time, fraught with
tingly anticipation and love :-)

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Sun 09/18/11 10:23 AM
Edited by Jeanniebean on Sun 09/18/11 10:24 AM


Lex, I have always been fascinated with writers and one of my dreams is to be a published writer... (but I'm too busy being an artist or trying to be an artist).

I don't read enough to be a writer and I don't have the patience to put stories or characters together. Then when I try to write, I get obsessed with re-writing.

But what I would like to do is to outline a story ( or sort of describe what it is about) and then design a cover for it. Then, hire someone else to actually write the book.

Or

Just design book covers and make up book titles.

I make up a book title, then I design a cover for the unwritten book, then find some writer who can write the book.

It is usually a book title and cover that makes me want to read the book. But I can't read the book because its not written.


The hardest thing for me has always been that I have too many ideas and nowhere to put them. The actual writing part is fairly easy for me, especially if it's dialogue.

But I have been totally unable to stick to any kind of a "schedule" -- a lot of writers will tell you to do three pages a day, no more, no less. Others will say do three pages in the morning, three in the afternoon. I've never been able to do three pages and then stop. It's always 12 or 15. One time, it was 26.

But I may go days without writing anything useful at all, too. So it's always more about when the creativity is flowing than it is about trying to force it.



I was reading about the life of a successful writer called Sue Grafton who writes a series called The alphabet series. (A is for Alibi, B is for Burgler, C is for corpse, etc.)

She describes her life and says she writes for two hours a day, she jogs, and does other things. Her life is pretty awesome from my point of view. She gets a lot of books written.

She seems to be living my dream life. sad sad

http://www.suegrafton.com/bookshelf.asp






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Sun 09/18/11 10:28 AM



Lex, I have always been fascinated with writers and one of my dreams is to be a published writer... (but I'm too busy being an artist or trying to be an artist).

I don't read enough to be a writer and I don't have the patience to put stories or characters together. Then when I try to write, I get obsessed with re-writing.

But what I would like to do is to outline a story ( or sort of describe what it is about) and then design a cover for it. Then, hire someone else to actually write the book.

Or

Just design book covers and make up book titles.

I make up a book title, then I design a cover for the unwritten book, then find some writer who can write the book.

It is usually a book title and cover that makes me want to read the book. But I can't read the book because its not written.


The hardest thing for me has always been that I have too many ideas and nowhere to put them. The actual writing part is fairly easy for me, especially if it's dialogue.

But I have been totally unable to stick to any kind of a "schedule" -- a lot of writers will tell you to do three pages a day, no more, no less. Others will say do three pages in the morning, three in the afternoon. I've never been able to do three pages and then stop. It's always 12 or 15. One time, it was 26.

But I may go days without writing anything useful at all, too. So it's always more about when the creativity is flowing than it is about trying to force it.



I was reading about the life of a successful writer called Sue Grafton who writes a series called The alphabet series. (A is for Alibi, B is for Burgler, C is for corpse, etc.)

She describes her life and says she writes for two hours a day, she jogs, and does other things. Her life is pretty awesome from my point of view. She gets a lot of books written.

She seems to be living my dream life. sad sad

http://www.suegrafton.com/bookshelf.asp



I've read a few of hers, they were really good. What letter is she on now? I imagine we'll see "X is for Xylophone," because X is always for xylophone....

shades


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Sun 09/18/11 10:34 AM
Edited by Jeanniebean on Sun 09/18/11 10:35 AM
She has finished V. "V" is for Vengeance.

I'm curious what she will come up with for X. Maybe X marks the spot.

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Sun 09/18/11 10:38 AM
Edited by Jeanniebean on Sun 09/18/11 11:14 AM
How about X is for X-husband.

A woman is found dead in her apartment and investigators discover she had been married 8 times and all of her X-husbands had good reasons for wanting her dead.

Here is a quick book cover:
Jackie Tracer Hunt will be my pen name.tongue2




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Sun 09/18/11 01:13 PM

How about X is for X-husband.

A woman is found dead in her apartment and investigators discover she had been married 8 times and all of her X-husbands had good reasons for wanting her dead.

Here is a quick book cover:
Jackie Tracer Hunt will be my pen name.tongue2






I like that! The scarf concept is brilliant!

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Sun 09/18/11 01:27 PM
If you do a google search for Jackie Tracer Hunt you will find an article I wrote a few years back.

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Mon 09/19/11 09:20 PM


I once complained that my life was boring and then all hell broke loose. It wasn't good -- but it was certainly exciting enough that I wished my life was boring again.

I decided I liked boring.... as apposed to disasters and problems, so be careful what you ask for...

My life is so boring now that I watch television and a netflix movie at the same time while I work on updating my website.

So tell us how boring your life is.




My life is anything but boring but my job sure. I always find new things to do or learn, new people to meet, new challengs both mentally and physically, as well as great places to travel.

newarkjw's photo
Mon 09/19/11 09:32 PM
All I need are some tasty waves and a cool buzz and I'm fine.....smokin