Ok I wanna Know if Anyone has ever experienced it? IN REAL LIFE not a glimpse at a picture online infatuation.
Do you think that would be or should have been your soul-mate?
Do you think its a Myth?
Do you find it creepy?
What I mean is have you ever met someone then, you just clicked, right off the bat and were able to just openly be yourself? Someone you fell for right away and got in deep really fast?
Do you have a belief that something like that can last?
Would that scare you?
If you did have such a thing and it didn't last, did the feelings go just as fast as they started?


I believe In Love at first sight and soul-mates. Although sometimes I am a skeptic, but over all I feel they exist.

For me love at first is when u enjoy he's/her company at the first time u chat or talk with him/her, the feeling that u wont stop to chat and thingking him/her all the time after chating or talk with her/him. And in yourself, the feeling of u knw him/her for a long time

I dont think Id call it love at frist sight. For me its more of the reconition of a kindred spirit. I have severl people whom ive met in my life that this happened with both male and female from the moment We met something within our souls clicked. None of them were romantic interests it was more like they were apart of my family and always will be.

Did you have a relationship that sparked from such an encounter?

Well was there an existing feeling of love for them though? Like you would for a family member?

No, I believe in lust at first sight. Love comes later for me. During lust, I eventually go with respect and enjoyment of the other person, then love. I tend to find others who swear love at first sight odd, but they're certainly free to call it what they see it.

yea i would agree with the lust at first sight, love comes after you know more and like what there is. been a lot of ladys that i would say have been lust at first sight, couple that got ugly fast after i got to know more about them. but that was before i got married, but i am sure it's still the same now. but who knows, this is a crazy world we live in so it might be possable for some.

I have experienced attraction at first sight, I have experienced INTENSE attraction at first sight. I think "love" requires a little more than abrupt imagery.

I don't believe in love at first sight. You can be attracted to a persons appearance, their aura, some act they are performing that shows a glimpse into the person they are. But to actually feel love, that deep connection with who a person is, can't be felt with a look.

I have been drawn to someone so much at first sight that I wanted to get to know them.

No...I have never had it happen.It takes me a long time to love and tust somebody.So nothing instant here.

i believe in lust at first sight

yes & yes - it's rare but it can happen - just one of those rare coincidences that the person who catches your eye is also everything u love

i agree with the others who say its just lust at first sight.. i'll even go as far as saying infatuation... but not love... you cant really love someone until you know all their flaws, and STILL want to be with them everyday of forever

and i'm ALWAYS openly myself... i didnt think that had anything to do with love...

this is true!

Yes with each of them (their are 3) The day we met we became family to each other.

No. I can firmly say that I do not. It may just be me and how I personally tend to be somewhat guarded emotionally, but it has always taken me a very long time to feel a connection with someone so deep that I want them around in 'that' capacity. I go out on dates, and if I feel like they like me 'too much' (and I acknowledge that this is probably the wrong way to handle dates), then I figure they are interested for the wrong reasons. There's no way, after a single date (or two or three) that someone could like me so much that it warrants repeated phone calls, an attempt at a kiss, etc. It is very important to me to be friends first. Once I'm comfortable with you as my friend, then I'll start to feel like we are getting to know each other... and THEN something might develop.

I know that this is probably pretty backwards from reality (not to mention that it explains why I'm single, and probably will remain so), but what can I say, I'm a realist, and people who fall quickly for what I perceive are the wrong reasons lose my respect.

Such a smart man...... I agree with this statement..


(You can mail me the signed copies of your books as payment, or just leave them out on the doorstep so that next time I am stalking you, I will pick them up!! )

I want to know why we never discuss 'hate at first sight'

certainly, there must be people who have seen others and just by looking at them knew they were enemies in another time,, or that they were born to hate each other,,,,

if the alternate is possible , that is,,,

OK, but leave some Pepsi in the bushes while you're in there.....

I don't believe you can fall in love with someone at first sight. But, as others have stated, there is definitely lust at first sight.