I usually just say hi, ask about their day...then ask about their interests, or what they do for fun...pretty simple and not really invasive or interrogating.

Hey folks I'm curious because I have come across an increasingly familiar situation where conversations suddenly halt or don't get more than ten messages back and forth.
Maybe its my approach or maybe its just that the questions are boring or maybe its not my problem at all.
What I'm trying to ask is:
What is the best way to start a conversation with people online and what is the best way to keep it going?
( I find I have an easier time chatting face to face or on the phone with women or people in general)

Well was there an existing feeling of love for them though? Like you would for a family member?

Did you have a relationship that sparked from such an encounter?

I love myself, and those In my Life that are close to me

Ok I wanna Know if Anyone has ever experienced it? IN REAL LIFE not a glimpse at a picture online infatuation.
Do you think that would be or should have been your soul-mate?
Do you think its a Myth?
Do you find it creepy?
What I mean is have you ever met someone then, you just clicked, right off the bat and were able to just openly be yourself? Someone you fell for right away and got in deep really fast?
Do you have a belief that something like that can last?
Would that scare you?
If you did have such a thing and it didn't last, did the feelings go just as fast as they started?


I believe In Love at first sight and soul-mates. Although sometimes I am a skeptic, but over all I feel they exist.

Im only aiming at those who refuse to acknowledge evolution ... and have faith that everything is only created

I thing ..we as humans and this extends to other species as well..are proof of evolution.... two beings have sex make one new being with both traits evolution proved...

heheheheh thanks, i couldnt get my computer cords to go that far....

I just took everything about me out of my profile as I am starting to believe its something that can be discussed and asked about if there's and interest and the woman who is contacting me feels she is Ms right according to what I am looking for.

Ah ok gotchya.


I have done that and still find things i like and don't like. thanks i will keep striving for my perfect profile. :)

Also in my beliefs i think sex is something that is important in a relationship...i understand how some people dont do it until marriage or because they wish to maintain their virginity till the find the one, kudos to those for following in what they believe. I believe its a way of expressing affection and desire in the partner and important in maintain a relationship, i have more i believe about it but thats why I capitalized it so someone would ask why its capitalized...if a person makes assumptions on my thoughts without first asking or clarifying i feel that there will be an issue in communication... I want somone to ask me why i did something why i have the likes i do why i have the dislikes i do.. to find an interest in me and figure me out... i dont want to paint a picture of how i see syself but i want the woman who is searching to find out ni her own experience by talking to me to see who i am or what kind of guy i am... If you have any advice on how i can better do this,im still working on it and am taking everyone's advice to thought, as im also using this advice in all different ways on other dating sites too its becoming quite helpful :)

Well some people have different views on dating what it means and i am trying to communicate my views on it, like online dating should i only message one person and date only the one person.. or should i date more than one person at a time as these things everyone feels differently about... i am just stating what i feel im alright with with..would you have a say on how i can improve communicating that?

Ok took this into consideration whats your perspective on the new look

ok even more changes hows the new updates look?

I did now thank i realize that i had too many up there, I feel letting these particular dislikes i have left to be of importance. Eg. I dont want a smoking drug abuser to message me...

More changes made what do you think of it ?

imagine going to a bar or restuarant and doing this lol

I think the more i post in things the more popularity will come to me like this one... or any random one i feel i can add too, after all i dont wanna just creep pages and message every single attractive lady that will take awhile good job on the successful attention grabber :)

in an office setting its not unheard of....