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Topic: Love At First Sight?
sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Mon 09/12/11 06:45 AM Edited by sweetestgirl11 on Mon 09/12/11 07:26 AM


singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Mon 09/12/11 06:53 AM
I just don't believe that you can look at someone and know instantly you're in love. Even if the feeling is strong, it isn't truly love, as that would take actually getting to know someone in order to find out. Then again, I don't believe in soulmates either.

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Mon 09/12/11 07:25 AM
Ok I wanna Know if Anyone has ever experienced it? IN REAL LIFE not a glimpse at a picture online infatuation. Do you think that would be or should have been your soul-mate? Do you think its a Myth? Do you find it creepy? What I mean is have you ever met someone then, you just clicked, right off the bat and were able to just openly be yourself? Someone you fell for right away and got in deep really fast? Do you have a belief that something like that can last? Would that scare you? If you did have such a thing and it didn't last, did the feelings go just as fast as they started? I believe In Love at first sight and soul-mates. Although sometimes I am a skeptic, but over all I feel they exist. yes & yes - it's rare but it can happen - just one of those rare coincidences that the person who catches your eye is also everything u love well I agree with me - as I fall in love with all kinds of people at first sight- am totally open - actually more guarded now and do not get hurt as much as when I was younger - lust at first sight has seldom happened to me

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Mon 09/12/11 07:29 AM
I just don't believe that you can look at someone and know instantly you're in love. Even if the feeling is strong, it isn't truly love, as that would take actually getting to know someone in order to find out. Then again, I don't believe in soulmates either. yes I do but I think it is rare - soulmates - but I don;t think it's anything mystical or cosmic I understand - I think there's all kinds of love - I will often feel love for someone before lust & I love all kinds a folks at first but obviously not in the same way and the love can grow & take on different meanings(or not - depends)

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Mon 09/12/11 07:29 AM
How do you fall in love just by looking at someone? I don't understand that at all.

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Wed 09/14/11 08:22 AM
^it requires not much to understand- I believe I've already explained as best as I can - beyond that I think everyone has to grow into their own understanding of love and how it works for them Your POVs being valid for you as mine is for me.

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Wed 09/14/11 09:34 AM
I never said anyone's point of view was not valid. Just that I don't understand how someone can fall in love just by looking at someone.

Mikey117 Joined Mon 11/20/06 Posts: 23736	Wed 09/14/11 09:40 AM
Yes I did fall in love with a female at first sight, My dog Cherokee!!!!

EquusDancer Joined Sun 04/05/09 Posts: 6281	Wed 09/14/11 02:11 PM
Yes I did fall in love with a female at first sight, My dog Cherokee!!!! Well, that's different. I can agree with that for animals. Easy. But not people.

illumastorm Joined Fri 05/06/11 Posts: 224	Wed 09/14/11 04:33 PM
Yes I did fall in love with a female at first sight, My dog Cherokee!!!! Well, that's different. I can agree with that for animals. Easy. But not people. yea animals are different somehow.

JAIYE136 Joined Mon 09/12/11 Posts: 129	Wed 09/14/11 06:51 PM
I BELIEVE IN LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT AND HAVE EXPERIENCED IT FOR THE LAST 10 YEARS. AT FIRST I THOUGHT IT WAS BECAUSE I WAS SO YOUNG THAT IT WAS FAKE BUT ONCE I GOT A LIL OLDER I REALIZED THAT I LOVED THIS PERSON LIKE NO OTHER AND KNOW THAT WE WERE MEANT TO BE FOREVER.

LexFonteyne Joined Thu 12/07/06 Posts: 32131	Thu 09/15/11 10:03 AM
Yes I did fall in love with a female at first sight, My dog Cherokee!!!! Well, that's different. I can agree with that for animals. Easy. But not people. I've never had an animal try to change me. That speaks volumes about their superiority over people.

EquusDancer Joined Sun 04/05/09 Posts: 6281	Thu 09/15/11 12:23 PM
Yes I did fall in love with a female at first sight, My dog Cherokee!!!! Well, that's different. I can agree with that for animals. Easy. But not people. I've never had an animal try to change me. That speaks volumes about their superiority over people. Yeah, you know, I can't say that. I've got the dogs that wake me up at 6am because they want to. Guess what, now I get up at 6am. I had the horse who would peer in my bedroom window at that time in the morning and nicker. I moved fence so he would stop that. It's kinda creepy. They made me change.