I take u with kindness as that which you demonstrate
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besides biscuit man - I am well aware that I have a bit of wear and tear

Well for me age is the least thing I consider or look out for in going into a relationship. I need someone that'll make me smile and that i'll adore, regardless of who they are(terms and conditions apply), where they've been and their age

You're so kind, thankyou :)

I think I must get my kindness from you, you're a good teacher

"AGE DOESN'T MATTER AS LONG AS ONE'S MIND IS MATURE ENOUGH TO BE IN A RELATIONSHIP OR TO HANDLE A RELATIONSHIP"...... hihihi.. I think.. My opinion

You need to get out more. There has been a trend for several years wherein older women date or marry younger men. And if you think that society "condones" an 80 year old man with a 20 year old woman, think again! People would say that she married him for his money.

Well they'd always say but it hurts no-one as long as they're not sorry for being in that relationship. And i think some people will avoid the trauma of what others would say about them, hence they won't want to be a societal deviant instead they avoid such relationship.

Younger men looking for older women generally do o for one of four reasons:

(1) They haven't currently attracted a younger one but will drop the older one the very second one shows up,

(2) they are looking for a mom,

(3) they are looking for a woman old enough to die early and leave them with a pile of money, or

(4) they are looking for a hopefully dumb cook and housekeeper while they toy with a younger woman on the side.

(5) they think older women are an easy make sexually.

Probably number one is the biggest reason.

I don't agree. Some men nowadays actually have their lives together, and just don't want to deal with the maturity level of younger women. Just like some women look for younger men, because they don't have any agenda's.
Its all a matter of preference.

I guess it also depends on the age difference. Someone my age (60) chasing a woman in their 30's just seems odd. they have so little in common outside of being a men and a woman.

Hi trouble!

I'm not.... ^_^

I find that old men are often intimidated by the thought of women their ages dating or being with younger men. I lived with a man MUCH younger than me fore seven years. When the relationship ended and I began to date, when I told men my age about my relationship, they often said, "I can't compete with that!"

From reading forums on dating sites, this is a sentiment often repeated.

Age has little to do with men trying to find a woman who is an "easy make": 70 year men do the same!

Interesting Topic.......

Since I have come into my OWN New Life, I have pondered this as well, but a friend brought it to my attention. She says if you find someone younger then when walking hand in hand, what the worse could happen? He makes you look even younger.....(:

Always New ways of looking at Old ways.....This I enjoy...(:

Do cougar care about age?

By definition, they'd be into younger guys. So, I would say yes.

Okay but are u one? And do u think they have an age-limit(down)?

Me, when I look at a younger guy; I feel more like his mommy. I also found I have nothing in common with a younger man. The guys that are attracted to me are in their 20s to 30s. So having 20/30 years of living over them would make it hard to have any type of relationship. I think younger guys just want an older woman for sex and nothing else.

I had a hard time reading your response as with my old age; the eyes are going Had to actually get out of my rocking chair to see it.

I don’t mind a few years either side but any more than that is a problem for me. I prefer guys around my own age as we often have same points of reference.

I was chatted up recently by someone 10 years younger than me. I was flattered by his interest and loved the attention but wasn’t comfortable taking it any further.

I have also been on dates with guys 10 years older and I felt and was treated like a child almost – my opinions weren’t valid, he’d already bought the t-shirt...