Topic: Beauty or Brains?
joy4gud's photo
Sun 08/07/11 09:37 AM
Edited by joy4gud on Sun 08/07/11 09:43 AM
I want both of them,
i can have both.
Watch me!!!
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no photo
Sun 08/07/11 09:40 AM

I want both.

That's why I'm single.


And it wouldn't hurt if she had a good job too.


as usual motown, you are on the page as I am

I want it all - weak in the knees, love, friendship, ans enuff money to have us some FUN

TxsGal3333's photo
Sun 08/07/11 09:46 AM
Hummm unless they appeal to me in every sense of the word I would not be with them regardless what they have to give.. It is not all about looks and not all about the brains it is a combination of both... I would rather be single then be with someone that I don't want to be with or happy to be with them....whoa Unless the chemistry is there regardless what they look like or have it is a no go on my part.

Ladylid2012's photo
Sun 08/07/11 09:53 AM
It really all comes down to chemistry anyway.
Sure, we all want one we find attractive, smart, funny, honest
bla, bla, bla all those wonderful traits

The beautiful thing about chemistry
is it's either there or it's not
it can't be forced or faked

The problem with some is that the chemistry may be there to some degree
but they stop them self because he, she isn't as "hot" as they had wanted. Anything can happen with an initial spark.

People DO become more attractive as you learn to know them and
people DO become ugly as you learn to know them.

Smile2chidex's photo
Sun 08/07/11 09:54 AM

My baby has both.love:banana:

Smile2chidex's photo
Sun 08/07/11 09:54 AM

My baby has both.love:banana:

kaliman1's photo
Sun 08/07/11 10:35 AM
beauty

Kleisto's photo
Mon 08/08/11 05:49 AM

It really all comes down to chemistry anyway.
Sure, we all want one we find attractive, smart, funny, honest
bla, bla, bla all those wonderful traits

The beautiful thing about chemistry
is it's either there or it's not
it can't be forced or faked

The problem with some is that the chemistry may be there to some degree
but they stop them self because he, she isn't as "hot" as they had wanted. Anything can happen with an initial spark.

People DO become more attractive as you learn to know them


I've definitely found this to be the case. You have to be willing to let go of what you may have expected love to be when you feel it, otherwise you may lose it before you ever had it. If your heart is saying something, even if you may think otherwise elsewhere, you'd be wise to listen to it. It's not likely to steer you wrong.

I know for me, going with it has given me an incredible experience, so don't be afraid of something different. It can end up that what you thought before would never work, could be the best thing to ever happen to you.

no photo
Mon 08/08/11 06:31 AM

I couldn't be with an Einstein that physically repulsed me, nor could I date a hot looking guy with the intellectual aptitude of a forest mushroom. I need a man that makes my heart beat faster both when he speaks and when he's silent. Go figure why I've been single forever. ohwell


actually forest mushrooms are incredible, amazingly resourceful with an above and underground network called mychorrihza - root system - that would knock you over. It causes the "Fairy Rings" you see beneath woodland trees.

They have an amazing reproductive style as well, and are far more interesting than most men.


there I said it.flowerforyou

no photo
Mon 08/08/11 06:31 AM

It really all comes down to chemistry anyway.
Sure, we all want one we find attractive, smart, funny, honest
bla, bla, bla all those wonderful traits

The beautiful thing about chemistry
is it's either there or it's not
it can't be forced or faked

The problem with some is that the chemistry may be there to some degree
but they stop them self because he, she isn't as "hot" as they had wanted. Anything can happen with an initial spark.

People DO become more attractive as you learn to know them and
people DO become ugly as you learn to know them.
:thumbsup:

no photo
Mon 08/08/11 07:13 AM

It really all comes down to chemistry anyway.
Sure, we all want one we find attractive, smart, funny, honest
bla, bla, bla all those wonderful traits

The beautiful thing about chemistry
is it's either there or it's not
it can't be forced or faked

The problem with some is that the chemistry may be there to some degree
but they stop them self because he, she isn't as "hot" as they had wanted. Anything can happen with an initial spark.

People DO become more attractive as you learn to know them and
people DO become ugly as you learn to know them.


Well said!

Simonedemidova's photo
Mon 08/08/11 09:20 AM
brains n personality will typically lead me to believing they are very attractive. Physical attraction is varied by ones personal taste. Most my relationships start with initial glance at beauty, but the more I know, the more attractive they become, (or not sometimes)

74Drew's photo
Mon 08/08/11 11:23 AM
beauty with a side of brains.


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Simonedemidova's photo
Mon 08/08/11 11:26 AM

beauty with a side of brains.


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what will you enjoy together after the beauty fades and the face looks like a labrynth board?

Simonedemidova's photo
Mon 08/08/11 11:26 AM
Edited by Simonedemidova on Mon 08/08/11 11:32 AM
oops what

74Drew's photo
Mon 08/08/11 11:27 AM


People DO become more attractive as you learn to know them


i'm wondering how many men would honestly agree with this statement.
then again some would probably call me shallow, so maybe i'm the anomaly.


people DO become ugly as you learn to know them


this one however, i do agree with.


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74Drew's photo
Mon 08/08/11 11:34 AM


beauty with a side of brains.


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what will you enjoy together after the beauty fades and the face looks like a labrynth board?


the fading of beauty happens to everyone (with the exceptions of those who can afford to fight it off with surgery). knowing this, why start low only to end lower?

the initial question is too black and white anyway. people aren't either smart or dumb, attractive or not. there are varying degrees in both categories. IMO I'd prefer to have someone above average in both categories.

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Simonedemidova's photo
Mon 08/08/11 11:36 AM



beauty with a side of brains.


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what will you enjoy together after the beauty fades and the face looks like a labrynth board?


the fading of beauty happens to everyone (with the exceptions of those who can afford to fight it off with surgery). knowing this, why start low only to end lower?

the initial question is too black and white anyway. people aren't either smart or dumb, attractive or not. there are varying degrees in both categories. IMO I'd prefer to have someone above average in both categories.

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yay, no point in starting on the lower end..

Ladylid2012's photo
Mon 08/08/11 11:37 AM



People DO become more attractive as you learn to know them


i'm wondering how many men would honestly agree with this statement.
then again some would probably call me shallow, so maybe i'm the anomaly.


people DO become ugly as you learn to know them


this one however, i do agree with.


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maybe the first statement isn't true for all
it has happened to me, but then what is hot
to me is not always about appearance

if a personality can make one ugly
why couldn't it make one more attractive
kinda works both ways, don't ya think

74Drew's photo
Mon 08/08/11 11:46 AM




People DO become more attractive as you learn to know them


i'm wondering how many men would honestly agree with this statement.
then again some would probably call me shallow, so maybe i'm the anomaly.


people DO become ugly as you learn to know them


this one however, i do agree with.


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if a personality can make one ugly
why couldn't it make one more attractive
kinda works both ways, don't ya think

in theory, yes. but i've not found it to be the case. maybe i've not met any women who were close enough to the threshold between what i would consider attractive or not. i have a friend that is intelligent and has a good personality, but too far into my unattractive zone for her other traits to bring her back into the running (so to speak).


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