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Topic: Beauty or Brains?
mg1959 Joined Thu 04/05/07 Posts: 7872	Tue 08/09/11 06:03 PM
Ok, let me throw this at you. Those who chose beautiful. Your telling me that if something happened to their looks their out the door? Beauty certainly has to go deeper than appearance. Brains. So if something happens to their thought process, your done? I see some of these answers as being a little selfish folks. I like your honesty. Some would see at as an attack, i prefer to view it as you are challenging others to look inside themselves and just be honest. You rock in my book dude. Anyone who understands depth of the heart, or honestly makes effort to better understand it and themselves and more importantly make the right changes for the right reasons, earns my respect. Cheers dude (i'm not much on drinking but i would buy you a beer) thanks buddy, I'm enjoying your posting as well

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32402	Tue 08/09/11 06:06 PM
I want chemistry over brains or beauty.

mg1959 Joined Thu 04/05/07 Posts: 7872	Tue 08/09/11 06:09 PM
I want chemistry over brains or beauty. Now where talking. Chemistry is where it is at. There's magic in the Vibe when 2 people have it.

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32402	Tue 08/09/11 06:14 PM
I want chemistry over brains or beauty. Now where talking. Chemistry is where it is at. There's magic in the Vibe when 2 people have it. Exactly.

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Tue 08/09/11 06:25 PM
Ok, let me throw this at you. Those who chose beautiful. Your telling me that if something happened to their looks their out the door? Beauty certainly has to go deeper than appearance. Brains. So if something happens to their thought process, your done? I see some of these answers as being a little selfish folks. I thought you liked honesty? Should people have said something different in order not to offend you? Will you go out with me? XOXO No

mg1959 Joined Thu 04/05/07 Posts: 7872	Tue 08/09/11 06:40 PM
Ok, let me throw this at you. Those who chose beautiful. Your telling me that if something happened to their looks their out the door? Beauty certainly has to go deeper than appearance. Brains. So if something happens to their thought process, your done? I see some of these answers as being a little selfish folks. I thought you liked honesty? Should people have said something different in order not to offend you? Will you go out with me? XOXO No Rats! Hey guys cancel that flight. I don't think she wants a seven day trip to the islands. Yep, better take the Bentley back to the shop too. Probably not her style. Mingle, I'm single now, I've been dumped.

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32402	Tue 08/09/11 06:42 PM
Rats! Hey guys cancel that flight. I don't think she wants a seven day trip to the islands. Yep, better take the Bentley back to the shop too. Probably not her style. Mingle, I'm single now, I've been dumped. I like the islands!!!!!!!!!

mg1959 Joined Thu 04/05/07 Posts: 7872	Tue 08/09/11 06:53 PM
Rats! Hey guys cancel that flight. I don't think she wants a seven day trip to the islands. Yep, better take the Bentley back to the shop too. Probably not her style. Mingle, I'm single now, I've been dumped. I like the islands!!!!!!!!! Guys, fire up those engines again. Mingle, I'm no longer available! I've just been picked up!

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Tue 08/09/11 06:55 PM
Rats! Hey guys cancel that flight. I don't think she wants a seven day trip to the islands. Yep, better take the Bentley back to the shop too. Probably not her style. Mingle, I'm single now, I've been dumped. You are one strange guy. heh. And no, not my style :).

mg1959 Joined Thu 04/05/07 Posts: 7872	Tue 08/09/11 07:02 PM
Rats! Hey guys cancel that flight. I don't think she wants a seven day trip to the islands. Yep, better take the Bentley back to the shop too. Probably not her style. Mingle, I'm single now, I've been dumped. You are one strange guy. heh. And no, not my style :). Well, I have a new girl, be gone you little heart breaker.

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32402	Tue 08/09/11 07:09 PM
I'm ready!!!!!

bruneibabe Joined Wed 08/03/11 Posts: 42	Tue 08/09/11 07:38 PM
I'd have to throw a third category in "sincerity". Sincerity wins my heart over looks or brains. i agree!! :)

wux Joined Wed 07/29/09 Posts: 7426	Tue 08/09/11 07:54 PM
I think people can be attractive without the movie star look I think it comes from the heart You're a bit of an exception from that, sunsetrose. You do have the movie star looks, and yet you look very attractive. Kinda strange, but hey, there you have it.

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Tue 08/09/11 07:54 PM
Wow...Been reading... I have a headache...I know my comment is irrelevant,and stupid..just saying. same here.... but I kinda like what Ruth said see ya in S&I

wux Joined Wed 07/29/09 Posts: 7426	Tue 08/09/11 07:57 PM
I want chemistry over brains or beauty. To me, physics provide the best chemistry. (Physique.) Brains provide the best beauty. Beauty is the butterfly that randomly finds you and sits on your shoulder, weightlessly, waving its wings, and panting from the exaustion of too much flip-flop-flying around. Ah, life be my wild mistress. ---------------------- Providence is not providing me with any of the above.

mg1959 Joined Thu 04/05/07 Posts: 7872	Tue 08/09/11 09:19 PM
I'd have to throw a third category in "sincerity". Sincerity wins my heart over looks or brains. i agree!! :) Thanks, I'm afraid I would have to throw in the towel if my personal choices were limited to looks or brains. I'm not sure my mind works that way.

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Tue 08/09/11 09:24 PM
I'd have to throw a third category in "sincerity". Sincerity wins my heart over looks or brains. i agree!! :) Thanks, I'm afraid I would have to throw in the towel if my personal choices were limited to looks or brains. I'm not sure my mind works that way. well at least you seem to be sure your mind works things could be worse

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Tue 08/09/11 09:27 PM
I'd have to throw a third category in "sincerity". Sincerity wins my heart over looks or brains. i agree!! :) Thanks, I'm afraid I would have to throw in the towel if my personal choices were limited to looks or brains. I'm not sure my mind works that way. The OP asked a hypothetical question based on two choices. I think you're reading way too into it.

axl_rose40 Joined Mon 08/30/10 Posts: 868	Tue 08/09/11 10:22 PM
Ladies and gentlemen. Would you choose beauty or brains. If he or she wasn't the brightest star, but had the looks and body that made you weak verses someone who wasn't so nice looking but had everything you were looking for in a relationship which would you choose to be with and why? Be honest now. I wouldn't care if my man wasn't the brightest star so long as he understands me and is sensitive to my being his woman. I wouldn't care if he wasn't so nice looking coz he will be the most good looking man for me if he'll cherish me and love me with all his heart. For someone to be my man, he's got to be the one my heart longs for me to love and my mind dictates me to have - not just someone my eyes want me to feast on.

ybcat1 Joined Sat 12/29/07 Posts: 530	Tue 08/09/11 10:42 PM
Ladies and gentlemen. Would you choose beauty or brains. If he or she wasn't the brightest star, but had the looks and body that made you weak verses someone who wasn't so nice looking but had everything you were looking for in a relationship which would you choose to be with and why? Be honest now. I wouldn't care if my man wasn't the brightest star so long as he understands me and is sensitive to my being his woman. I wouldn't care if he wasn't so nice looking coz he will be the most good looking man for me if he'll cherish me and love me with all his heart. For someone to be my man, he's got to be the one my heart longs for me to love and my mind dictates me to have - not just someone my eyes want me to feast on. That made my heart warm.