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yeah right I'm all brawn and no brains.
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beautiful brain i prefer a beautiful heart Nicely put Ladylid, me too. I once had the BIGGEST crush on a guy who lived across the street from me. Oh my goodness was he fine. Nice body and and everything. When I met him boy was I disappointed. This guy talked and talked and talked about nothing but himself. How good he was at this and that. How women wanted him so bad, yada, yada, yada. He never said anything of substance. I've never talked to a more boring person in my life. After that evening I was so turned off I never talked to him again. In fact I didn't do much talking at all. Maybe I should rephrased the question. Which would you choose a person with a good heart verses good looks? I'd have to go for the heart if I had to choose. |
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yeah right I'm all brawn and no brains.
Shut your trap you liar....  
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I've been involved with way too many cutesy airhead fluffballs. The attraction wanes with the ever-more-evident lack of brains. (And that rhymes.) Now I'd rather be with someone who has a conversational grasp of something beyond American Idol and whether the toilet paper should go over or under. Yes, to have both would be nice. Might as well ask for a solid gold baleen whale while I'm at it. While we're at it, which way does the toilet paper go? It goes over, GRRRR, MEN, sheez I swear. LOL Thank you, just needed a little help here. |
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beautiful brain i prefer a beautiful heart Nicely put Ladylid, me too. I once had the BIGGEST crush on a guy who lived across the street from me. Oh my goodness was he fine. Nice body and and everything. When I met him boy was I disappointed. This guy talked and talked and talked about nothing but himself. How good he was at this and that. How women wanted him so bad, yada, yada, yada. He never said anything of substance. I've never talked to a more boring person in my life. After that evening I was so turned off I never talked to him again. In fact I didn't do much talking at all. Maybe I should rephrased the question. Which would you choose a person with a good heart verses good looks? I'd have to go for the heart if I had to choose. i hear ya sometimes a 'beautiful' person can turn ugly real fast once they open their mouth then, a 'beautiful heart' can also turn an average person into a hottie!!! : ) |
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I've been involved with way too many cutesy airhead fluffballs. The attraction wanes with the ever-more-evident lack of brains. (And that rhymes.) Now I'd rather be with someone who has a conversational grasp of something beyond American Idol and whether the toilet paper should go over or under. Yes, to have both would be nice. Might as well ask for a solid gold baleen whale while I'm at it. While we're at it, which way does the toilet paper go? It goes over, GRRRR, MEN, sheez I swear. LOL yes, over!! there are STILL some who don't know this?!?!? : ) |
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My baby has both.  
That's great, I love it when a man compliments his lady. |
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My baby has both.
That's great, I love it when a man compliments his lady. I wasnt complimenting here just stating the truth. Its really quite the understatement too. She has a lot more than just beauty and brains. |
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We all want both...a very lucky few find it.
I will say what you kids wont. WE WANT TO HOOK UP WITH GORGEOUS PEOPLE! "It is about the personality".....bullschitt. Any one of you ladies would happily hook up with a Bradd Pitt, Billy Dee Williams or an Antonio Banderas.....and you wouldn't give a damn if they were dumber than your mailbox. They are gorgeous men that women slobber over. All the guys who say that they want an intellectual shy chick aint EVER gonna admit that they want the sexy women. A horny Pamela Anderson, Rebecca Romaine Stamos,Dolly Parton or Betty Rubble will trump a smart Janet Reno, Queen Elizabeth or Hillary Clinton every day of the week. No one wants to hook up with someone that they know is physically unattractive....Life ain't fair. |
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Brains. Sure i have a crush on a few hot guys, but as i got to know my ex, i knew my love for him would out-do any crush i had on anyone. For me, there has to be butterflies in my stomach, and a sense of not being able to let him go.
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Ouch. I'd love to be a deep person and say "I don't care what a guy looks like as long as he's smart!" but I'm shallower than that, apparently.
I definitely wouldn't date a man who was gorgeous but an idiot. I probably wouldn't date a man who was ugly but a genius. But I'd much rather date a really smart guy who was acceptably attractive than date a really attractive guy who was acceptably smart. I hate "acceptably smart" but I can handle an average-looking man in appearance. So I guess brains... but only by a small margin, sadly! |
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Ladies and gentlemen. Would you choose beauty or brains. If he or she wasn't the brightest star, but had the looks and body that made you weak verses someone who wasn't so nice looking but had everything you were looking for in a relationship which would you choose to be with and why? Be honest now. I want both too. If I had to choose, brains. |
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Ladies and gentlemen. Would you choose beauty or brains. If he or she wasn't the brightest star, but had the looks and body that made you weak verses someone who wasn't so nice looking but had everything you were looking for in a relationship which would you choose to be with and why? Be honest now. Honest answer for the 2 listed options is Brains then Beauty. My personal preference would be Heart/Humor/Brains/Beauty. Heart - If someone is true to themselves then they can love you unconditionally Humor - Who doesn't want to be around someone who makes you smile and feel good about the day ahead Brains - I enjoy good conversation, and a long relationship should have a never ending dialogue Beauty - You have to have a physical spark, does not mean you have to be a super model, just means you are a super model in my eyes. |
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We all want both...a very lucky few find it. I will say what you kids wont. WE WANT TO HOOK UP WITH GORGEOUS PEOPLE! "It is about the personality".....bullschitt. Any one of you ladies would happily hook up with a Bradd Pitt, Billy Dee Williams or an Antonio Banderas.....and you wouldn't give a damn if they were dumber than your mailbox. They are gorgeous men that women slobber over. All the guys who say that they want an intellectual shy chick aint EVER gonna admit that they want the sexy women. A horny Pamela Anderson, Rebecca Romaine Stamos,Dolly Parton or Betty Rubble will trump a smart Janet Reno, Queen Elizabeth or Hillary Clinton every day of the week. No one wants to hook up with someone that they know is physically unattractive....Life ain't fair. Attraction is different to different people. I will agree that we all need some sort of attraction. But, I don't do stupid. I don't care how good looking someone is, if they're stupid, it's just not going to happen. |
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Well, I would choose both. It depends of what beauty means to everybody. For me 4 example, someone who has a compassionate heart and is smart is already beautiful.
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We all want both...a very lucky few find it. I will say what you kids wont. WE WANT TO HOOK UP WITH GORGEOUS PEOPLE! "It is about the personality".....bullschitt. Any one of you ladies would happily hook up with a Bradd Pitt, Billy Dee Williams or an Antonio Banderas.....and you wouldn't give a damn if they were dumber than your mailbox. They are gorgeous men that women slobber over. All the guys who say that they want an intellectual shy chick aint EVER gonna admit that they want the sexy women. A horny Pamela Anderson, Rebecca Romaine Stamos,Dolly Parton or Betty Rubble will trump a smart Janet Reno, Queen Elizabeth or Hillary Clinton every day of the week. No one wants to hook up with someone that they know is physically unattractive....Life ain't fair. I have fell for guys I wasn't physically attracted to. Why because after knowing them I saw the good heart they had. I was treated with respect and kindness. Only thing is they didn't want marriage and I do. Dang, why do I attract the no marrying kind? 
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I'm not saying looks aren't important. Of course we all want to find someone we are attracted to. I do a lot of self evaluation and wonder what's more important to me for a healthy relationship. Will I past up a good relationship base on someone's looks, financial status in life, race, or if they have kids or not. Something to think about.
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I have fell for guys I wasn't physically attracted to. Why because after knowing them I saw the good heart they had. I was treated with respect and kindness. Only thing is they didn't want marriage and I do. Dang, why do I attract the no marrying kind?
Don't look at me Honey! I ain't getting married till I get pregnant. :) |
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We all want both...a very lucky few find it. I will say what you kids wont. WE WANT TO HOOK UP WITH GORGEOUS PEOPLE! "It is about the personality".....bullschitt. Any one of you ladies would happily hook up with a Bradd Pitt, Billy Dee Williams or an Antonio Banderas.....and you wouldn't give a damn if they were dumber than your mailbox. They are gorgeous men that women slobber over. All the guys who say that they want an intellectual shy chick aint EVER gonna admit that they want the sexy women. A horny Pamela Anderson, Rebecca Romaine Stamos,Dolly Parton or Betty Rubble will trump a smart Janet Reno, Queen Elizabeth or Hillary Clinton every day of the week. No one wants to hook up with someone that they know is physically unattractive....Life ain't fair. AMEN!!!!! If you don't find the person physically attractive you're not going to give a rat's behind about their personality! |
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Edited by
Holly4459
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Sun 08/07/11 09:40 AM
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When the lights are off -who can tell?
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