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Topic: Where are the seasoned, mature, brave men...
SarekParks's photo
Thu 08/04/11 05:53 PM
Men say they want a good woman, but when they read a profile or look at a photo that simply says; I don't take crap! They tend to say you are mean, too serious and pass you by.

Come on! Basically, we are all looking for the same thing; someone to love us for who and what we are. It is just a matter of the right chemistry and the first meeting.

You will know in the first meeting if there is any connection or not. I have learned to not look at all men as potential mates. Most, are just not! Some people come into your life for a few minutes; others, a few hours, still others, perhaps a few days, week and so on. But seldom, will you meet many, who will be in your life for years. And they don't have to be intimate with you; you just may be luck enough to find a friend.

I'm in my late 50's, I'm tired of the dating game. I'm easy going, but I'm serious about what I'm looking for. I don't care about race, we are all God's children. Your integrety, sincerity, ability to love, willingness to work with me for a better us: These things are important to me.

So...that being said; just where in the heck are the real men?

Just asking.

Isabel36's photo
Thu 08/04/11 06:02 PM
You know I wonder about the same thing too...
Where are all the men?
I hope some man or guy answers this thread....
wishful thinking.
Nice post by the way.
Take good care and God bless.
flowerforyou

Teditis's photo
Thu 08/04/11 06:07 PM
Wow... wonderful question.
Hope he comes your way soon.

Hi & Welcome. waving

no photo
Thu 08/04/11 06:10 PM
Beans means Heinz shades

Ladylid2012's photo
Thu 08/04/11 06:16 PM
I like the way you think Sarek :thumbsup:

There are still lots of good men out there,
some right here on mingle I think.

Join in the forum and get to know the
the good peopleoids of mingle2.

Welcome





no photo
Thu 08/04/11 06:17 PM
they went that a way ----->>>>>>>>

lewydllf's photo
Thu 08/04/11 06:33 PM

Men say they want a good woman, but when they read a profile or look at a photo that simply says; I don't take crap! They tend to say you are mean, too serious and pass you by.

Come on! Basically, we are all looking for the same thing; someone to love us for who and what we are. It is just a matter of the right chemistry and the first meeting.

You will know in the first meeting if there is any connection or not. I have learned to not look at all men as potential mates. Most, are just not! Some people come into your life for a few minutes; others, a few hours, still others, perhaps a few days, week and so on. But seldom, will you meet many, who will be in your life for years. And they don't have to be intimate with you; you just may be luck enough to find a friend.

I'm in my late 50's, I'm tired of the dating game. I'm easy going, but I'm serious about what I'm looking for. I don't care about race, we are all God's children. Your integrety, sincerity, ability to love, willingness to work with me for a better us: These things are important to me.

So...that being said; just where in the heck are the real men?

Just asking.


well, in brevity, im here! one of them at least. im just answering.
of course i say that with the lindest of manners.

lewydllf's photo
Thu 08/04/11 06:34 PM
kindest of manners

delilady's photo
Thu 08/04/11 06:35 PM
I met one here. Not a romantic match but has turned out to be one of my closest friends. I can't imagine not having him in my life.

axl_rose40's photo
Thu 08/04/11 06:58 PM
Hello flowerforyou Welcome to mingle!

There are lots of what you're looking for in this site, only some of them aren't really brave enough to try and make the first move so it would be up to you to make yourshappy

Good luck and enjoy... you may want to join us in the forums.

lionsbrew's photo
Thu 08/04/11 07:05 PM
We're taken.laugh

Dragoness's photo
Thu 08/04/11 07:13 PM

We're taken.laugh


I keep hearing this same thing. All the good ones are taken.

Is there a shortage or something?huh tears

mbcasey's photo
Thu 08/04/11 07:34 PM
Been on this site for 4 years and still single. I am strong, sincere, kind, and treat people great.

I have bipolar disorder and the 100's of women I have contacted can't get past that.

I have decided to give up looking. My choice to live my life alone but I come away from all of this very jaded and hurt.

My faith in humanity is forever changed. I use to help people all the time but I have started to pull back.

One of the biggest jokes about profiles is the lie I read over and over. Women who claim to be compassionate and open minded are usually cold and closed-minded. Like I said, I am jaded and I am stating a basic fact since I have read 100's of profiles and corresponded, or tried to, with so many I have become a quasi-expert on the subject.

One woman I fell in love with turned out to be a total fraud. My heart was shredded but I kept on looking. But it has become too clear that it won't happen for me and I know I am not to blame. That's the God's honest truth.

So I would like to know where all the real women at? If you are one, contact one of the nice gentlemen on here, but don't contact me. I wish we could have met a long time ago, but it wasn't meant to be.

Ladies, get bold. E-mail men and find someone instead of waiting for someone to find you.

Best of luck to all and goodbye.

Ken

no photo
Fri 08/05/11 11:01 AM

Been on this site for 4 years and still single. I am strong, sincere, kind, and treat people great.

I have bipolar disorder and the 100's of women I have contacted can't get past that.

I have decided to give up looking. My choice to live my life alone but I come away from all of this very jaded and hurt.

My faith in humanity is forever changed. I use to help people all the time but I have started to pull back.

One of the biggest jokes about profiles is the lie I read over and over. Women who claim to be compassionate and open minded are usually cold and closed-minded. Like I said, I am jaded and I am stating a basic fact since I have read 100's of profiles and corresponded, or tried to, with so many I have become a quasi-expert on the subject.

One woman I fell in love with turned out to be a total fraud. My heart was shredded but I kept on looking. But it has become too clear that it won't happen for me and I know I am not to blame. That's the God's honest truth.

So I would like to know where all the real women at? If you are one, contact one of the nice gentlemen on here, but don't contact me. I wish we could have met a long time ago, but it wasn't meant to be.

Ladies, get bold. E-mail men and find someone instead of waiting for someone to find you.

Best of luck to all and goodbye.

Ken


Hi Ken, somethings the ladies should know are

1) how treatable Bipolar is

2) how many people are Bipolar, tons

keep the faith of being up front my friend, share that love

frn12345's photo
Fri 08/05/11 11:11 AM
Men say they want a good woman, but when they read a profile or look at a photo that simply says; I don't take crap! They tend to say you are mean, too serious and pass you by.

So...that being said; just where in the heck are the real men?

>Just asking.


When I read a profile that basically says don't bother me because I don't take crap, I pass it by.

This tells me the person is jaded and not really open to the "given forum".

Frankly, I have no interest in trying to compete with obvious negativity.

no photo
Fri 08/05/11 11:33 AM
i've been shot down in flames by several women on this site. i won't mention names, but their names rhyme with
babchi
txsgal3333
carold
roadlesstrvld
txmomof2
yellowrose10
spiritfilled24
amandarj
lov2roknroll
rowbaby
soufiehere
bastet
pmarco
eileen9
red lace
chelsea466
unholyflesh
suzanne20
redhead44613
rhearabies
simonedemidova
okcutie67
heartbreaker123
mssilverfox
fireflysgirl
tanyaann
mag83
troublebug
josie68
stefy37
winterblue56
bettyb
vivian2981
mls31
ruth34611
sneaksintoyourheart
alterette
2kidsmom
kissablekiss
thewaterbearer
artgurl
holly4459 (on a daily basis)
and most recently krupa


no photo
Fri 08/05/11 11:34 AM

i've been shot down in flames by several women on this site. i won't mention names, but their names rhyme with
babchi
txsgal3333
carold
roadlesstrvld
txmomof2
yellowrose10
spiritfilled24
amandarj
lov2roknroll
rowbaby
soufiehere
bastet
pmarco
eileen9
red lace
chelsea466
unholyflesh
suzanne20
redhead44613
rhearabies
simonedemidova
okcutie67
heartbreaker123
mssilverfox
fireflysgirl
tanyaann
mag83
troublebug
josie68
stefy37
winterblue56
bettyb
vivian2981
mls31
ruth34611
sneaksintoyourheart
alterette
2kidsmom
kissablekiss
thewaterbearer
artgurl
holly4459 (on a daily basis)
and most recently krupa




Rofl sorry bud ya made me lol... Thank you

no photo
Fri 08/05/11 11:38 AM
yeah i'm laughing too laugh

no photo
Fri 08/05/11 11:45 AM

yeah i'm laughing too laugh


I love it! You are too cool for words my friend!

Rusty_Knight's photo
Fri 08/05/11 12:09 PM

i've been shot down in flames by several women on this site. i won't mention names, but their names rhyme with
babchi
txsgal3333
carold
roadlesstrvld
txmomof2
yellowrose10
spiritfilled24
amandarj
lov2roknroll
rowbaby
soufiehere
bastet
pmarco
eileen9
red lace
chelsea466
unholyflesh
suzanne20
redhead44613
rhearabies
simonedemidova
okcutie67
heartbreaker123
mssilverfox
fireflysgirl
tanyaann
mag83
troublebug
josie68
stefy37
winterblue56
bettyb
vivian2981
mls31
ruth34611
sneaksintoyourheart
alterette
2kidsmom
kissablekiss
thewaterbearer
artgurl
holly4459 (on a daily basis)
and most recently krupa




so *thats* where my shopping list went!!! slaphead rant

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