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Theres real men out there it's just some see something in others that scare them away,such as unrealistic expectations,women who have misandry typed all over their profile or face and so on. Same goes for some men. All the negativity toward women makes some seem as though they just don't like women very much. As for the misandry comment that was just an idiom i typed for another reason a "real man" may shy away.Unfortunately sometimes you witness the battle of who is the better gender and conclude "now i see what the problem is" generalizing and being deceived. And I was just referring to what some real women shy away from. A guy may be a really awesome guy, but if he's negative a lot, women are going to back off. If they get rid of that negativity, women may be more likely to give them a chance. |
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Theres real men out there it's just some see something in others that scare them away,such as unrealistic expectations,women who have misandry typed all over their profile or face and so on. Same goes for some men. All the negativity toward women makes some seem as though they just don't like women very much. But that's not always the case. I love women -- since I was 15, the vast majority of my friends have always been female. Women are just smarter than men, better communicators, more intuitive, more understanding, better problem-solvers, and just more fun to be around. That being the case, I still can't find one who won't try to turn me into a cardboard cutout once the spectre of the "relationship context" comes into view. Sometimes it's not about negativity towards women -- it's about a realistic assessment of what to expect from them. |
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And of course those who mention they don't like drama or games tend to the be the ones who surround themselves in drama and still play games. yeah, the ones who say 'no drama' are the same ones who will post that they just love the crazy physco b!otches won't have any drama there!! |
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reb4250
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Mon 08/08/11 06:47 PM
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We're here. But, unfortunately for both of us, most of us don't look like Brad Pitt or <name your favorite face>. Unfortunately also, if we're not a greek god in looks, most of you (women) pass us by without a thought.
You want a man, get beyond the superficiality of looks only. I do understand a physique that you like, i.e. thin, muscular, average, whatever, but a face always gets wrinkles. so in essence, stop being superficial B's and you'll find men. **edit** and that from a new guy who's been here a week and is disgusted |
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Lots of good guys out there and quite a few here on Mingle. If I was in a position to date, I'd grab a few for myself.
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We're here. But, unfortunately for both of us, most of us don't look like Brad Pitt or <name your favorite face>. Unfortunately also, if we're not a greek god in looks, most of you (women) pass us by without a thought. You want a man, get beyond the superficiality of looks only. I do understand a physique that you like, i.e. thin, muscular, average, whatever, but a face always gets wrinkles. so in essence, stop being superficial B's and you'll find men. **edit** and that from a new guy who's been here a week and is disgusted a whole week huh |
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Personally, I like to hide under a rock. So when I saw that GIECO commercial it really hit home.
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Personally, I like to hide under a rock. So when I saw that GIECO commercial it really hit home. I LOVE that commercial! |
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We're here. But, unfortunately for both of us, most of us don't look like Brad Pitt or <name your favorite face>. Unfortunately also, if we're not a greek god in looks, most of you (women) pass us by without a thought. You want a man, get beyond the superficiality of looks only. I do understand a physique that you like, i.e. thin, muscular, average, whatever, but a face always gets wrinkles. so in essence, stop being superficial B's and you'll find men. **edit** and that from a new guy who's been here a week and is disgusted a whole week huh Imagine how bitter he'll be by next month. |
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Where are the seasoned, mature, brave men...
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Where are the seasoned, mature, brave men... We are in our fox holes. |
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We're here. But, unfortunately for both of us, most of us don't look like Brad Pitt or <name your favorite face>. Unfortunately also, if we're not a greek god in looks, most of you (women) pass us by without a thought. You want a man, get beyond the superficiality of looks only. I do understand a physique that you like, i.e. thin, muscular, average, whatever, but a face always gets wrinkles. so in essence, stop being superficial B's and you'll find men. **edit** and that from a new guy who's been here a week and is disgusted Who are you talking to? Which of us said we were looking for the Brad Pitts of the world? Or the greek gods? You've been here a whole week, yet this is your first post? Why are you disgusted? Did you expect something to happen immediately after joining the site? Also, do you think calling women here "superficial bs" in your first post is going to help? If I had to guess, your attitude isn't helping you one bit. |
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i've been shot down in flames by several women on this site. i won't mention names, but their names rhyme with babchi txsgal3333 carold roadlesstrvld txmomof2 yellowrose10 spiritfilled24 amandarj lov2roknroll rowbaby soufiehere bastet pmarco eileen9 red lace chelsea466 unholyflesh suzanne20 redhead44613 rhearabies simonedemidova okcutie67 heartbreaker123 mssilverfox fireflysgirl tanyaann mag83 troublebug josie68 stefy37 winterblue56 bettyb vivian2981 mls31 ruth34611 sneaksintoyourheart alterette 2kidsmom kissablekiss thewaterbearer artgurl holly4459 (on a daily basis) and most recently krupa Now THAT'S frigging hilarious!!! ROFLMAO!!! |
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Men say they want a good woman, but when they read a profile or look at a photo that simply says; I don't take crap! They tend to say you are mean, too serious and pass you by. Come on! Basically, we are all looking for the same thing; someone to love us for who and what we are. It is just a matter of the right chemistry and the first meeting. You will know in the first meeting if there is any connection or not. I have learned to not look at all men as potential mates. Most, are just not! Some people come into your life for a few minutes; others, a few hours, still others, perhaps a few days, week and so on. But seldom, will you meet many, who will be in your life for years. And they don't have to be intimate with you; you just may be luck enough to find a friend. I'm in my late 50's, I'm tired of the dating game. I'm easy going, but I'm serious about what I'm looking for. I don't care about race, we are all God's children. Your integrety, sincerity, ability to love, willingness to work with me for a better us: These things are important to me. So...that being said; just where in the heck are the real men? Just asking. They are out there. I'm a hopeless romantic, I'll always believe that there's a good man out there for me. They say you always meet them when you least expect it. |
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I will take the men to the far side of the forest in search of women. Let's go, the near side is clearly a wasteland....! Heard that! |
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We're here. But, unfortunately for both of us, most of us don't look like Brad Pitt or <name your favorite face>. Unfortunately also, if we're not a greek god in looks, most of you (women) pass us by without a thought. You want a man, get beyond the superficiality of looks only. I do understand a physique that you like, i.e. thin, muscular, average, whatever, but a face always gets wrinkles. so in essence, stop being superficial B's and you'll find men. **edit** and that from a new guy who's been here a week and is disgusted C'mon! Give yourself a chance and get to meet a lot of nice ladies here in this site. Ladies can sometimes act like gents (getting within the superficiality of looks only)... however given the right treatment from real gents, we can be as sweet as one can never imagine. Mind you, that's the intricacy of a woman's mind, not to mention her ever feeling heart. Welcome to mingle2, reb4250 |
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i've been shot down in flames by several women on this site. i won't mention names, but their names rhyme with babchi txsgal3333 carold roadlesstrvld txmomof2 yellowrose10 spiritfilled24 amandarj lov2roknroll rowbaby soufiehere bastet pmarco eileen9 red lace chelsea466 unholyflesh suzanne20 redhead44613 rhearabies simonedemidova okcutie67 heartbreaker123 mssilverfox fireflysgirl tanyaann mag83 troublebug josie68 stefy37 winterblue56 bettyb vivian2981 mls31 ruth34611 sneaksintoyourheart alterette 2kidsmom kissablekiss thewaterbearer artgurl holly4459 (on a daily basis) and most recently krupa Now THAT'S frigging hilarious!!! ROFLMAO!!! but but .... krupa is not a girl............just clarifying |
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i've been shot down in flames by several women on this site. i won't mention names, but their names rhyme with babchi txsgal3333 carold roadlesstrvld txmomof2 yellowrose10 spiritfilled24 amandarj lov2roknroll rowbaby soufiehere bastet pmarco eileen9 red lace chelsea466 unholyflesh suzanne20 redhead44613 rhearabies simonedemidova okcutie67 heartbreaker123 mssilverfox fireflysgirl tanyaann mag83 troublebug josie68 stefy37 winterblue56 bettyb vivian2981 mls31 ruth34611 sneaksintoyourheart alterette 2kidsmom kissablekiss thewaterbearer artgurl holly4459 (on a daily basis) and most recently krupa Now THAT'S frigging hilarious!!! ROFLMAO!!! but but .... krupa is not a girl............just clarifying |
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but but .... krupa is not a girl............just clarifying according to Krupa at least.. He DOES like chocolate.. |
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but but .... krupa is not a girl............just clarifying according to Krupa at least.. He DOES like chocolate.. Does he eat it from a heart shaped red box? |
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