Topic: Where are the seasoned, mature, brave men...
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Sun 08/07/11 09:49 AM



Theres real men out there it's just some see something in others that scare them away,such as unrealistic expectations,women who have misandry typed all over their profile or face and so on.




Same goes for some men. All the negativity toward women makes some seem as though they just don't like women very much.
It's true it's in both genders,but i was referring to what some real men see and shy away from.Honestly the definition of a real man is vague but in this thread i interpreted it as being what the OP wants in a man and if he has it then to her thats a real man.On the other hand very few are gonna find everything they want which is where unrealistic expectations come into play.

As for the misandry comment that was just an idiom i typed for another reason a "real man" may shy away.Unfortunately sometimes you witness the battle of who is the better gender and conclude "now i see what the problem is" generalizing and being deceived.


And I was just referring to what some real women shy away from. A guy may be a really awesome guy, but if he's negative a lot, women are going to back off. If they get rid of that negativity, women may be more likely to give them a chance.

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Sun 08/07/11 09:57 AM


Theres real men out there it's just some see something in others that scare them away,such as unrealistic expectations,women who have misandry typed all over their profile or face and so on.




Same goes for some men. All the negativity toward women makes some seem as though they just don't like women very much.


But that's not always the case. I love women -- since I was 15, the vast majority of my friends have always been female. Women are just smarter than men, better communicators, more intuitive, more understanding, better problem-solvers, and just more fun to be around.

That being the case, I still can't find one who won't try to turn me into a cardboard cutout once the spectre of the "relationship context" comes into view.

Sometimes it's not about negativity towards women -- it's about a realistic assessment of what to expect from them.


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Sun 08/07/11 10:03 AM


And of course those who mention they don't like drama or games tend to the be the ones who surround themselves in drama and still play games. laugh


yeah, the ones who say 'no drama'
are the same ones who will post that they
just love the crazy physco b!otches

won't have any drama there!! slaphead :laughing:
laugh

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Mon 08/08/11 06:38 PM
Edited by reb4250 on Mon 08/08/11 06:47 PM
We're here. But, unfortunately for both of us, most of us don't look like Brad Pitt or <name your favorite face>. Unfortunately also, if we're not a greek god in looks, most of you (women) pass us by without a thought.

You want a man, get beyond the superficiality of looks only. I do understand a physique that you like, i.e. thin, muscular, average, whatever, but a face always gets wrinkles.

so in essence, stop being superficial B's and you'll find men.

**edit** and that from a new guy who's been here a week and is disgusted

Ruth34611's photo
Mon 08/08/11 06:47 PM
Lots of good guys out there and quite a few here on Mingle. If I was in a position to date, I'd grab a few for myself. bigsmile

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Mon 08/08/11 06:50 PM

We're here. But, unfortunately for both of us, most of us don't look like Brad Pitt or <name your favorite face>. Unfortunately also, if we're not a greek god in looks, most of you (women) pass us by without a thought.

You want a man, get beyond the superficiality of looks only. I do understand a physique that you like, i.e. thin, muscular, average, whatever, but a face always gets wrinkles.

so in essence, stop being superficial B's and you'll find men.

**edit** and that from a new guy who's been here a week and is disgusted


a whole week huh


RainbowTrout's photo
Mon 08/08/11 07:11 PM
Personally, I like to hide under a rock. So when I saw that GIECO commercial it really hit home.:smile:

Ruth34611's photo
Mon 08/08/11 07:12 PM

Personally, I like to hide under a rock. So when I saw that GIECO commercial it really hit home.:smile:


I LOVE that commercial!

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Mon 08/08/11 07:13 PM


We're here. But, unfortunately for both of us, most of us don't look like Brad Pitt or <name your favorite face>. Unfortunately also, if we're not a greek god in looks, most of you (women) pass us by without a thought.

You want a man, get beyond the superficiality of looks only. I do understand a physique that you like, i.e. thin, muscular, average, whatever, but a face always gets wrinkles.

so in essence, stop being superficial B's and you'll find men.

**edit** and that from a new guy who's been here a week and is disgusted


a whole week huh




Imagine how bitter he'll be by next month.

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Mon 08/08/11 07:13 PM
Where are the seasoned, mature, brave men...



rofl rofl rofl rofl

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Mon 08/08/11 07:16 PM

Where are the seasoned, mature, brave men...



rofl rofl rofl rofl


We are in our fox holes. rofl

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Mon 08/08/11 09:47 PM

We're here. But, unfortunately for both of us, most of us don't look like Brad Pitt or <name your favorite face>. Unfortunately also, if we're not a greek god in looks, most of you (women) pass us by without a thought.

You want a man, get beyond the superficiality of looks only. I do understand a physique that you like, i.e. thin, muscular, average, whatever, but a face always gets wrinkles.

so in essence, stop being superficial B's and you'll find men.

**edit** and that from a new guy who's been here a week and is disgusted


Who are you talking to? Which of us said we were looking for the Brad Pitts of the world? Or the greek gods?

You've been here a whole week, yet this is your first post? Why are you disgusted? Did you expect something to happen immediately after joining the site?

Also, do you think calling women here "superficial bs" in your first post is going to help? If I had to guess, your attitude isn't helping you one bit.

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Mon 08/08/11 10:06 PM

i've been shot down in flames by several women on this site. i won't mention names, but their names rhyme with
babchi
txsgal3333
carold
roadlesstrvld
txmomof2
yellowrose10
spiritfilled24
amandarj
lov2roknroll
rowbaby
soufiehere
bastet
pmarco
eileen9
red lace
chelsea466
unholyflesh
suzanne20
redhead44613
rhearabies
simonedemidova
okcutie67
heartbreaker123
mssilverfox
fireflysgirl
tanyaann
mag83
troublebug
josie68
stefy37
winterblue56
bettyb
vivian2981
mls31
ruth34611
sneaksintoyourheart
alterette
2kidsmom
kissablekiss
thewaterbearer
artgurl
holly4459 (on a daily basis)
and most recently krupa




Now THAT'S frigging hilarious!!! ROFLMAO!!!


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Mon 08/08/11 11:37 PM

Men say they want a good woman, but when they read a profile or look at a photo that simply says; I don't take crap! They tend to say you are mean, too serious and pass you by.

Come on! Basically, we are all looking for the same thing; someone to love us for who and what we are. It is just a matter of the right chemistry and the first meeting.

You will know in the first meeting if there is any connection or not. I have learned to not look at all men as potential mates. Most, are just not! Some people come into your life for a few minutes; others, a few hours, still others, perhaps a few days, week and so on. But seldom, will you meet many, who will be in your life for years. And they don't have to be intimate with you; you just may be luck enough to find a friend.

I'm in my late 50's, I'm tired of the dating game. I'm easy going, but I'm serious about what I'm looking for. I don't care about race, we are all God's children. Your integrety, sincerity, ability to love, willingness to work with me for a better us: These things are important to me.

So...that being said; just where in the heck are the real men?

Just asking.



They are out there. I'm a hopeless romantic, I'll always believe that there's a good man out there for me. They say you always meet them when you least expect it.

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Tue 08/09/11 12:04 AM


I will take the men to the far side of the forest in search of women.


Let's go, the near side is clearly a wasteland....!

shades


Heard that!

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Tue 08/09/11 04:15 AM

We're here. But, unfortunately for both of us, most of us don't look like Brad Pitt or <name your favorite face>. Unfortunately also, if we're not a greek god in looks, most of you (women) pass us by without a thought.

You want a man, get beyond the superficiality of looks only. I do understand a physique that you like, i.e. thin, muscular, average, whatever, but a face always gets wrinkles.

so in essence, stop being superficial B's and you'll find men.

**edit** and that from a new guy who's been here a week and is disgusted


C'mon! Give yourself a chance and get to meet a lot of nice ladies here in this site. Ladies can sometimes act like gents (getting within the superficiality of looks only)... however given the right treatment from real gents, we can be as sweet as one can never imagine. Mind you, that's the intricacy of a woman's mind, not to mention her ever feeling heart.

Welcome to mingle2, reb4250 flowerforyou

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Tue 08/09/11 07:06 AM


i've been shot down in flames by several women on this site. i won't mention names, but their names rhyme with
babchi
txsgal3333
carold
roadlesstrvld
txmomof2
yellowrose10
spiritfilled24
amandarj
lov2roknroll
rowbaby
soufiehere
bastet
pmarco
eileen9
red lace
chelsea466
unholyflesh
suzanne20
redhead44613
rhearabies
simonedemidova
okcutie67
heartbreaker123
mssilverfox
fireflysgirl
tanyaann
mag83
troublebug
josie68
stefy37
winterblue56
bettyb
vivian2981
mls31
ruth34611
sneaksintoyourheart
alterette
2kidsmom
kissablekiss
thewaterbearer
artgurl
holly4459 (on a daily basis)
and most recently krupa




Now THAT'S frigging hilarious!!! ROFLMAO!!!




but but .... krupa is not a girl............just clarifyingnoway

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Tue 08/09/11 07:11 AM



i've been shot down in flames by several women on this site. i won't mention names, but their names rhyme with
babchi
txsgal3333
carold
roadlesstrvld
txmomof2
yellowrose10
spiritfilled24
amandarj
lov2roknroll
rowbaby
soufiehere
bastet
pmarco
eileen9
red lace
chelsea466
unholyflesh
suzanne20
redhead44613
rhearabies
simonedemidova
okcutie67
heartbreaker123
mssilverfox
fireflysgirl
tanyaann
mag83
troublebug
josie68
stefy37
winterblue56
bettyb
vivian2981
mls31
ruth34611
sneaksintoyourheart
alterette
2kidsmom
kissablekiss
thewaterbearer
artgurl
holly4459 (on a daily basis)
and most recently krupa




Now THAT'S frigging hilarious!!! ROFLMAO!!!




but but .... krupa is not a girl............just clarifyingnoway
according to Krupa at least..laugh

soufiehere's photo
Tue 08/09/11 08:40 AM


but but .... krupa is not a girl............just clarifyingnoway

according to Krupa at least..laugh

He DOES like chocolate..

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Tue 08/09/11 04:55 PM



but but .... krupa is not a girl............just clarifyingnoway

according to Krupa at least..laugh

He DOES like chocolate..


Does he eat it from a heart shaped red box?