Topic: would you love him even if u knew he cheated
winterblue56's photo
Fri 07/22/11 09:57 AM



What the eyes see may sway the heart...so seeing you husband or lover cheat/knowing they have betrayed you may affect your emotions..but do u think you could still love them?


There are many heartbreaking things that couples can do to each other. I believe in giving people, including a significant other, a second chance. People are not infallable. Everyone makes mistakes. They would lose my trust; but if I truly love them with all my heart, I would hope that I could forgive...in time.


Mistakes are one thing, but cheating? Is that really just a simple mistake people make that deserves a second chance? Does it deserve more than a second chance if they keep cheating? Can you truly love someone you don't trust?


I suppose those are questions that you would have to answer for yourself based on your beliefs :smile:

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Fri 07/22/11 09:58 AM
Edited by 2KidsMom on Fri 07/22/11 10:09 AM






noway explode


laugh Reminds me of the country song by Carrie Underwood



rightlaugh

another good one..for this would be..Leann Rimes- Crazy Womenpitchfork


Who'd-a guessed that Aquanette
Could start a fire with a single cigarette
She wasn't drunk, she wasn't stoned
Just sick and tired of wonderin' when he was coming home
So she drove around
She found his car
They heard a boom from in the bar
He called the cops
She called his bluff
They hauled her off in high heels and handcuffs

Crazy women, ex-wives and old girlfriends
Keep their crazy hidden till they're pushed off the deep end
Oh yea, God forgive them, they weren't born like this
Oh no, crazy women are made by crazy men

He told his friends she was depressed
Borderline bi-polar, ***** with PMS
Well he cheats and lies and then plays the victim
He don't know why they always seem to pick him

Crazy women, ex-wives and old girlfriends
Keep their crazy hidden till they're pushed off the deep end
Oh yea, God forgive them, they weren't born like this
Oh no, crazy women are made by crazy men

Some take a pistol, some take an axe
Boy if you feel the fire, you damn well bet she's got a match
Might be the teacher just down the street
The hairdresser or the housewife or the waitress that's so sweet
No you won't see it when you meet ‘em
So be careful how you treat ‘em
She might look just like mepitchfork

Crazy women, ex-wives and old girlfriends
Keep their crazy hidden till they're pushed off the deep end
Oh yea, God forgive them, they weren't born like this
God knows, crazy women are made by crazy crazy crazy
Crazy women are made by crazy men



winterblue56's photo
Fri 07/22/11 09:59 AM

I thought this song kind of fit:


Jaron And The Long Road To Love- Pray For You.

I havent been to church since I don’t remember when
Things were goin’ great ‘til they fell apart again
So I listened to the preacher as he told me what to do
He said you can’t go hatin’ others who have done wrong to you
Sometimes we get angry, but we must not condemn
Let the good Lord do His job and you just pray for them

I pray your brakes go out runnin’ down a hill
I pray a flowerpot falls from a window sill and knocks you in the head like I’d like to
I pray your birthday comes and nobody calls
I pray you’re flyin’ high when your engine stalls
I pray all your dreams never come true
Just know where ever you are honey, I pray for you

I’m really glad I found my way to church
‘Cause I’m already feelin’ better and I thank God for the words
Yeah I’m goin’to take the high road
And do what the preacher told me to do
You keep messin’ up and I’ll keep prayin’ for you
Find More lyrics at www.sweetslyrics.com

I pray your tire blows out at 100 and 10
I pray you pass out drunk with your best friend and wake up with his and her tattoos

I pray your brakes go out runnin’ down a hill
I pray a flowerpot falls from a window sill and knocks you in the head like I’d like to
I pray your birthday comes and nobody calls
I pray you’re flyin’ high when your engine stalls
I pray all your dreams never come true
Just know wherever you are, near or far, in your house or in your car,
wherever you are honey, I pray for you.




laugh I sing along when I hear that song.

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Fri 07/22/11 10:18 AM




noway explode


laugh Reminds me of the country song by Carrie Underwood


I LOVE that song!!!

I do believe a person deserves a second chance ... if he really wants one. If it happens again, yes I'd still love him for a while. But it would be from afar because his butt would be out the door. And he'd be lucky if I didn't throw out his things onto the front lawn and set them on fire. Or slash them, if I had the time.

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Fri 07/22/11 10:22 AM


I thought this song kind of fit:


Jaron And The Long Road To Love- Pray For You.


I pray your brakes go out runnin’ down a hill
I pray a flowerpot falls from a window sill and knocks you in the head like I’d like to
I pray your birthday comes and nobody calls
I pray you’re flyin’ high when your engine stalls
I pray all your dreams never come true
Just know where ever you are honey, I pray for you



laugh I sing along when I hear that song.


Ha ha ha ... me too.

soufiehere's photo
Fri 07/22/11 10:23 AM
I heavily weed for cheaters.
While I could still love them
(love isn't a tissue you throw away)
I would not mate with them.

delilady's photo
Fri 07/22/11 10:30 AM
I believe a man in love would never cheat. If he cheats, he does not love me so why would I want to hold on to someone who could not give me what I want? I would forgive him but I would definitely forget him also. For me it is better to be alone than with someone who will break my heart. Accepting it means that I feel I am not worth fidelity. I have more self esteem than to settle!

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Fri 07/22/11 06:56 PM
I get u loud and clear,frankly...if u have someone you love and cherish and they love you back I don't see any reason you shld cheat

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Fri 07/22/11 06:57 PM
nah

dirtbag status

kicked to THE curb

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Fri 07/22/11 06:57 PM

I heavily weed for cheaters.
While I could still love them
(love isn't a tissue you throw away)
I would not mate with them.

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Fri 07/22/11 06:58 PM
my favorite carrie underwood song, momdrinker

msharmony's photo
Fri 07/22/11 06:58 PM
as tina turner says

whats love got to do with it?


Love is an emotion that occurs in various degrees of intimacy

If I love, I dont stop loving

but TRUST is another issue, and I need trust AS WELL As love to continue in a relationship,,,

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Fri 07/22/11 06:59 PM
Wow,am touched by what u wrote,think you have a good ticker..

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Fri 07/22/11 07:00 PM

Wow,am touched by what u wrote,think you have a good ticker..


yabut think about it - really u can't love without trust

kick him to frackin curb - with one boot

msharmony's photo
Fri 07/22/11 07:03 PM


Wow,am touched by what u wrote,think you have a good ticker..


yabut think about it - really u can't love without trust

kick him to frackin curb - with one boot



I love people I dont trust

they have shown me they arent TRUSTWORTHY , but like any other shortcoming, it doesnt cause me to stop loving them,,,,



nObOdys_wiFe_JM's photo
Sun 07/24/11 04:11 PM

What the eyes see may sway the heart...so seeing you husband or lover cheat/knowing they have betrayed you may affect your emotions..but do u think you could still love them?


I did experienced that once with my ex he actually had several gf and he's very good a it but I still love him and our relationship last almost 3yeaars but then I couldn't take it anymore so I start dating too and I'm so glad it's really over and now I've move on and learned from my experience that being martyr is never was a good idea.
Anyway, ever heard the song " LOVE IS BLIND "?? haha that's it! L:banana:

TxsGal3333's photo
Sun 07/24/11 04:19 PM

What the eyes see may sway the heart...so seeing you husband or lover cheat/knowing they have betrayed you may affect your emotions..but do u think you could still love them?


If that was so I would have never divorced my ex...enough said...bigsmile

krupa's photo
Sun 07/24/11 04:38 PM

What the eyes see may sway the heart...so seeing you husband or lover cheat/knowing they have betrayed you may affect your emotions..but do u think you could still love them?


NO!

Next question.......

krupa's photo
Sun 07/24/11 04:41 PM

I believe a man in love would never cheat.


That right there is the basic truth of all relationships.

axl_rose40's photo
Sun 07/24/11 04:54 PM
Yes, why not? If he'd still love me when I cheat on him! devil That way we'd both be suckers for cheaters mad frown