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Edited by
lil_bit
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Sun 07/24/11 04:57 PM
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Been there, done that...forgave for years and the infidelity continued. Finally packed my bags and am now three years in the new beginning. Once a cheater, always a cheater...
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What the eyes see may sway the heart...so seeing you husband or lover cheat/knowing they have betrayed you may affect your emotions..but do u think you could still love them? There are many heartbreaking things that couples can do to each other. I believe in giving people, including a significant other, a second chance. People are not infallable. Everyone makes mistakes. They would lose my trust; but if I truly love them with all my heart, I would hope that I could forgive...in time. Mistakes are one thing, but cheating? Is that really just a simple mistake people make that deserves a second chance? Does it deserve more than a second chance if they keep cheating? Can you truly love someone you don't trust? I suppose those are questions that you would have to answer for yourself based on your beliefs  They were questions based on what you said. I know what I believe already.
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I could never love anyone who cheated on me. I've had it happen to me, and i could not take it. I refuse to accept any excuse that led them to cheat.
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Wow,am touched by what u wrote,think you have a good ticker.. yabut think about it - really u can't love without trust kick him to frackin curb - with one boot I love people I dont trust they have shown me they arent TRUSTWORTHY , but like any other shortcoming, it doesnt cause me to stop loving them,,,, I understand and I agree. I don;t either - u ca't turn love on and off like a light switch, and it's important to look at the big picture - many very faithful long term partners have been tempted once or twice to cheat during that time it's what they DO about it that matters, and if it's a one time thing in a 10 to 20 year relationship that never happens again??? I think that something like that is a warning to either fix things or break up but a chronic cheater with no remorse - to the curb, I say! |
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I would love them regardless but i'd also walk away from them. I can forgive but i never forget. I couldn't be with someone that I always questioned what he/she (or who
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No way. The trust is gone for good.
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If I got cheated on she'd be quickly buried in the back yard.....
 
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LOVE means acceptance which meas that when your gf/bf/husband/wife cheated on you and they do ask and beg for forgiveness and second chance then you should, but make sure that it won't happen again. Love is all about forgiveness just don't ABUSE it...
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Hell no. Forgiving them only enables them to do it again. Hate em and save myself the trouble and heartache.
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oh i may still love him
but it's a deal breaker and actually quite easy to walk away from i never was any good at sharing... |
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What the eyes see may sway the heart...so seeing you husband or lover cheat/knowing they have betrayed you may affect your emotions..but do u think you could still love them? yep i would definately still love them, but I wouldnt want to be with them... its happened to me before, and although I hate what they have done, and couldnt understand it, it has never made me hate them.. i will always love them and have good memories of the things we did, but i surely would never ever want them to touch me again.. If they did it once i would never believe it couldnt happen again. So for me its just better to be friends and leave the rest behind.
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