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9. Solution Oriented vs. Conversation Oriented
Men like to get to the bottom of things so don't get upset if they don't want to talk for hours about a particular subject. So true. Women will talk with other women about a problem, not to find an answer, but to bond socially. When women try this with men it can end in disaster because men usually want to arrive at a conclusive answer to the problem. When a man offers an answer women will, many times, say, "you're not listening to me"! Women want sometimes to vent(whine) men want to fix the problem that is causing us to vent(whine)....it's a no win situation. I've learned, the only time I go to my man (if i had one) is when i really need help and want him to help me 'fix it'.. whatever it is. Otherwise, yes...vent (whine) with friends. |
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The "Testing" that some women put men through. some men do this also |
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1. Not Sticking to Agreements When agreements are made, women tend to break them or change them to suit their needs, no matter what the situation is. 2. Keeping Their Feelings It's stereotypical to believe women share automatically how they are feeling. Actually, women will hold in their feelings until they are asked often enough that they spill what is on their minds. 3. Try to Change Their Men Women often understand men but don't agree with the way they are. Women try to change them to suit their needs or leave them alone completely. 4. Mate Comparison Women, sometimes unknowingly, compare their current mate to their ex in terms of negative aspects. Comparisons should be made when it's favorable. 5. Belittling His Hobbies Everyone has a hobby or two that their mate doesn't like. However, you should never keep them from doing it. Also, never demand that they take an interest in your hobby. The message you send is that your hobbies are much more important than is and that's not the message you should be sending. 6. Gossiping While it would seem to stroke the man's ego, men don't like women gossiping about them, whether it's good or bad. It doesn't matter. 7. Nagging Men do not like it when a woman constantly nags them about getting things done whether or not it's with good intentions. 8. Interruption Believe it or not, a man needs to talk to so it's best you listen with an open mind and not try to interrupt. Men do not like it when a woman listens but looks impatient to talk too. If you interrupt him with something else not relevant to the current conversation, you could create tension between the both of you. 9. Solution Oriented vs. Conversation Oriented Men like to get to the bottom of things so don't get upset if they don't want to talk for hours about a particular subject. 10. Beauty Conscious Men do not like it when a woman spends a lot of time looking at herself in the mirror but still looks the same as she always does. 11. Paranoia Men don't like it when a woman gets paranoid about the way she looks. If your man doesn't like the way you look, they wouldn't be with you. 12. Insecure/Jealously Believe it or not, men do not like jealousy, even a small bit. This is especially true if you are out on a date together and catch their eye wander. You make a wise crack about it. This actually annoys them very much. well I am a woman and I don't really do any of those things. I am appearance and fashion concious but do not stand in front of the mirror all the time. And I have been known to interrupt once in a while but prolly far less than the average person I think at some point I may have done some of those things briefly, but no, I am not like that at all and do not care for the implication that because I am female I have those qualities men who do not like me do not like me for two reasons - 1. If I won't sleep with them and 2. I am usually smarter than they are > if both 1 & 2 are true - you can bet he won't even speak to me |
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Stretch Marks, I hate nothing more then when a women gets naked and she has stretch marks all over... Are you for real? Wow. And it makes you so frustrated that you just have to bang your head against the wall. A bit ironic, considering you're a "guidance counsellor". Don't understand how you got the job with that kind of outlook on women. I just hope you grow up one day. You have a chest pic, so i think i get what YOU'RE all about. |
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Stretch Marks, I hate nothing more then when a women gets naked and she has stretch marks all over... Are you for real? Wow. And it makes you so frustrated that you just have to bang your head against the wall. A bit ironic, considering you're a "guidance counsellor". Don't understand how you got the job with that kind of outlook on women. I just hope you grow up one day. You have a chest pic, so i think i get what YOU'RE all about. A guidance counsellor? Oh he is so busted! LOL |
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The "Testing" that some women put men through. i don't put men through test and i hate it when they put me through one. Generally i hate people testing me. |
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A guidance counsellor? Oh he is so busted! LOL He keeps a sign on his door labelled "No stretch marks allowed!". He is phsycology in reverse. You do what's right for you, and then he teaches you how to screw it up. lol. |
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If a man hates anything about a women why dont he go find another man? lol |
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I think a mature man will realize that any woman just about and lots and lots of women have had children will invitably have stretch marks...sorry but there's not a lot that can be done about it. Anyone who's had kids or has gained and lost a lot of weight will also more likely have them.
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She didn't say ALL men get them, she said men can get them as well which is true, my boys have them ages 20,23 because they grew so tall so fast 20 yr old is 6'3 older one is 6'7. As for the cocoa butter, it's a myth and a ploy for companies to make money, I don't know anyone it's worked for.
Stretch Marks, I hate nothing more then when a women gets naked and she has stretch marks all over... well then you would be talkin about yourself to because men get streach marks as well and theres nothing you can do to stop them I don't have any stretch marks. BTW, I've heard that you can use cocoa butter to prevent stretch marks......... |
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Not don't need a "woman cave" just a queit place to retreat to when the stress get's high and that place is usually my bedroom with a tv in it or a good book.
You know, the one thing that irritates all of mandom is the fact that women have not....after all these years....learned the value of a man cave. I mean, learn that when a man has his domain where he can, 1. Have a 50 inch LED TV with surround sound 2. A little mini fridge for the beer 3. A "DO NOT DISTURB" sign posted so he can enjoy the game 4. If room is avaiable, a pool table, or ping pong table, or air hockey table, or foozeball table 5. A big *** Lay-Z-Boy He has all these in his room, makes him the most happiest man alive. Get the picture ladies??? Great info although I think you were supposed to say what you hate about the ladies. I want a woman cave if you have a man cave though,, K? Not sayin you and me just women need a cave too. |
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A guidance counsellor? Oh he is so busted! LOL He keeps a sign on his door labelled "No stretch marks allowed!". He is phsycology in reverse. You do what's right for you, and then he teaches you how to screw it up. lol. I can't wait till he gets little older and gets stretch marks |
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I don't think men hate most women. But I know what you mean. Relationships are difficult for many reasons and also, individuals are more than just their gender.
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I've noticed a couple of comments about women being "smarter" than men. I'm sorry, but being intelligent about some things don't make you "smarter". Showing superiority is a sign of insecurity.
I have an above average IQ. I am intelligent about music, food and flavors, cooking, computers, and electronics. I also blog and build websites for the fun of it. I am a complex person, with complex interests. Does this make me "smarter" than anyone? No, because there's always someone who knows something I don't. Don't just assume the person you are speaking with is dumb or simple because they may not know about the subjects you're talking about. Also, don't assume we guys can read your mind because we can't. My last girlfriend thought she knew it all. Unfortunately, she also didn't know that she quite frequently did the majority of the things listed in the OP. Such a pity because I cared for her deeply. |
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What I hate in my women most is other men. lol, that was crude but witty,, nice one,, |
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When they have a bigger mustache than I do..... That would be an interesting looking woman... They got them at walmart....usually over by the donuts..yeah, the one with 23 kids running amok |
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