Topic: what do men hate most in women
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Mon 07/18/11 06:46 PM

You know, the one thing that irritates all of mandom is the fact that women have not....after all these years....learned the value of a man cave. I mean, learn that when a man has his domain where he can,

1. Have a 50 inch LED TV with surround sound
2. A little mini fridge for the beer
3. A "DO NOT DISTURB" sign posted so he can enjoy the game
4. If room is avaiable, a pool table, or ping pong table, or air hockey table, or foozeball table
5. A big *** Lay-Z-Boy


He has all these in his room, makes him the most happiest man alive. Get the picture ladies???



I know the value of a man cave ... to kick out the men and have it for myself! rofl rofl

How about:

1. Have a 32 inch LED TV with a Wii Fit
2. A walk-in fridge
3. A "No Men Allowed if you use that tongue to talk" Sign
4. A pool table with a Chippendale stripper to rack the balls *cough*
5. A personal trainer (see #4)

FearandLoathing's photo
Mon 07/18/11 06:57 PM
I don't hate anything...But do realize, I also don't feel emotions the same way that you do. Generally, that's what ****s me.

RainbowTrout's photo
Tue 07/19/11 07:42 AM
I was told that women have feelings and men have feelers. That might be what is disconcerting to you.

FearandLoathing's photo
Tue 07/19/11 01:48 PM

I was told that women have feelings and men have feelers. That might be what is disconcerting to you.


I lack the basic emotions that most people feel, ever since my accident I just don't "feel" anymore.

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Tue 07/19/11 02:08 PM
What I hate in my women most is other men.

actionlynx's photo
Tue 07/19/11 02:31 PM
For me, shallowness and vanity are a big turn-off.

Compared to women, most guys don't need a lot of shoes or clothes. We don't use purses. We generally don't even look at fashion magazines (though we think the women are hawt). We don't need manicures and pedicures. We don't spend $100 on a haircut and tip. I think you get the picture...

Do I like a woman to look nice? Sure I do. I like to look nice too, but I'm not going to let it gobble up huge chunks of time and cash.

I also am not a big fan of make-up. I think it makes a lot beautiful women look fake. Granted, it helps some women look better, but it still places the emphasis on appearance, even if that appearance is false. I seen a lot of women of all appearances that I feel look just fine without a bunch of make-up.

I can say the same about breast implants. I hate them. BIG turn off, and for several reasons. Some of those reasons are specific to each case. Still, there generally are only one or two reasons why women get breast implants (unless they've lost a breast to cancer....even then, most use falsies). Those reasons are to improve self-esteem through appearance and to be more attractive to men.

There are a lot more guys in the world that like small breasts than society or media leads us to believe. That's because it's only the guys who like big breasts that bother to talk about breast size....and then a number of others just follow along to fit in. In fact, that mode of thinking is a relic the old days when large breasts were considered a measure of a woman well-suited to childbirth. Funny how guys no longer drool over wide hips, isn't it? So, whenever a woman tells me she wants implants, I try to talk her out of it.

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Tue 07/19/11 02:39 PM

For me, shallowness and vanity are a big turn-off.

Compared to women, most guys don't need a lot of shoes or clothes. We don't use purses. We generally don't even look at fashion magazines (though we think the women are hawt). We don't need manicures and pedicures. We don't spend $100 on a haircut and tip. I think you get the picture...

Do I like a woman to look nice? Sure I do. I like to look nice too, but I'm not going to let it gobble up huge chunks of time and cash.

I also am not a big fan of make-up. I think it makes a lot beautiful women look fake. Granted, it helps some women look better, but it still places the emphasis on appearance, even if that appearance is false. I seen a lot of women of all appearances that I feel look just fine without a bunch of make-up.

I can say the same about breast implants. I hate them. BIG turn off, and for several reasons. Some of those reasons are specific to each case. Still, there generally are only one or two reasons why women get breast implants (unless they've lost a breast to cancer....even then, most use falsies). Those reasons are to improve self-esteem through appearance and to be more attractive to men.

There are a lot more guys in the world that like small breasts than society or media leads us to believe. That's because it's only the guys who like big breasts that bother to talk about breast size....and then a number of others just follow along to fit in. In fact, that mode of thinking is a relic the old days when large breasts were considered a measure of a woman well-suited to childbirth. Funny how guys no longer drool over wide hips, isn't it? So, whenever a woman tells me she wants implants, I try to talk her out of it.


i couldnt agree with you any more on that i wear very lil make up cuz i know men hate girls with caked on makeup but when men look at them airbrushed fake chicks in the magazines it makes us girls feel like we have to work ten times harder on ourselves because thats what men want is sick skinny girls who are fakes well im sorry i rather be a meat eatter then to eat 1 soda cracker n one peice of gum

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Tue 07/19/11 03:40 PM
If a man hates anything about a women why dont he go find another man? lol

indianadave4's photo
Tue 07/19/11 08:29 PM
9. Solution Oriented vs. Conversation Oriented

Men like to get to the bottom of things so don't get upset if they don't want to talk for hours about a particular subject.


So true. Women will talk with other women about a problem, not to find an answer, but to bond socially. When women try this with men it can end in disaster because men usually want to arrive at a conclusive answer to the problem. When a man offers an answer women will, many times, say, "you're not listening to me"!

Noella101's photo
Fri 08/12/11 01:16 PM

If a man hates anything about a women why dont he go find another man? lol


lol so true babe but most men just need to find there other half who isnt so much that would make them want to kill her off the next day

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Fri 08/12/11 01:20 PM

What I hate in my women most is other men.


Tell me about it! devil

metalwing's photo
Fri 08/12/11 01:21 PM
Leaning the wrong way at the wrong time on the back of the Harley!

Sometimes those adjustments get spooky!

Simonedemidova's photo
Fri 08/12/11 01:31 PM

Stretch Marks, I hate nothing more then when a women gets naked and she has stretch marks all over...explode explode frustrated


WOW, hope there are no plans for babies in your future with your future wife. Oh and hope your wallet is thicker than your-DOH!slaphead Cuz you will need it to remove those stretch marks....

Honesty is appreciated, thanks for sharing. I am just joking with you, dont be offended. i truley would rather have your honest opinion..

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Fri 08/12/11 01:34 PM
Number 2--- The part about feelings....

Women talk A LOT and are very emotional...
However it is true as much as they talk, they do tend to hide a lot. For instance -

How a man doesnt even know she is mad at him even if she is a motormouth, she is likely to withhold some of her true feelings in fear of chasing him away or starting a pious fight.

Simonedemidova's photo
Fri 08/12/11 01:35 PM

When they have a bigger mustache than I do.....


Awww come on, dont be so picky.laugh

Niceladyrealy's photo
Fri 08/12/11 01:51 PM

what do men hate most in women


just kidding
they hate ithat woman are smarter!

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Fri 08/12/11 02:20 PM

Stretch Marks, I hate nothing more then when a women gets naked and she has stretch marks all over...explode explode frustrated


That's a horrible thing to say. I've heard this from guys before and I wonder if they have a real grip on life and the beauty of life. A woman's body before and after is a wonderful piece of art when you think about it. I hope someday you can wrap your mind around the miracle of birth and maturing.

Hate is too strong of a word for me period, but I don't like or have time for conflict that lingers. I do not like or tolerate deceit or anything that feels or looks like deceit. If I feel like I'm going around in a circle with a woman she better start locating the luggage. Being who I am and what I do "IF" is not an excepted word. If is the enemy of do and is usually one step away from no.

At the same time when I have a friend or woman that lives by the laws of if or deceit I will sometimes keep the relationship but will always treat it like it is in the box that it is openly with the person and will not slip into the mode of maybe it's OK now.

Knowing someone is excepting them and excepting that they are only going to get so deep with you. When your able to deal with this and draw the line in a way that doesn't hurt yourself or them you can be with them without ever having to hate.

indianadave4's photo
Fri 08/12/11 03:11 PM
The "Testing" that some women put men through.

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Fri 08/12/11 03:39 PM
Edited by ybcat1 on Fri 08/12/11 03:40 PM

what do men hate most in women


Long lists. :tongue: just kidding


You've been MIA, glad to see you.

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Fri 08/12/11 04:33 PM

When they have a bigger mustache than I do.....

So YOUR the reason Luv shaved hers off?rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl