He decided to cut off ties and left me. He must have realized it wasn't right to be in a liaison with me. or he probably just lost interest in me. Whatever his reasons were, it just point to one thing... IT'S OVER..


I know he is happy right now even without me by his side. Even I always trying to close this chapter of my life, deep inside, there is still this silent yearning for the things that could have been.

I know that there are still plenty of time to wish for him to be back in my life but there are just instances when I accept my loss and move on with my life.

Sometimes LOVE leave scars that are impossible to erase but that does not mean that there is no life after we have been hurt and blemished. The scars might remind us from our past but it should not keep us from living our best today... LOVE HURTS..

But, I know and it is true that no matter how deep our wounds are, TIME HEALS THEM.. And is true that when we learn to accept the love that we have lost, we can have a chance to find it again in a better and more lasting relationship.

smexy. you just be...happy joan

And others will call it "baggage", but your lessons are important and others will call it something else, but IT'S BAGGAGE and you be FAITHFUL to your baggage.

It might hurt a little now but looking back it is usually better to have taken the chance at love then skip by because you are affraid of the pain later... Good Luck on the next time...

Thanks.. yeah I should be happy.. as always.

Thanks for the comment. Appreciated. Well, I should learn from my mistakes and move on.
That is one reason I joined the site to meet new match and friends.

Should learn over my mistakes.. From the bottom part of my phrase, only when I accept the love that I have lost I can have the chance to find it again in a better and more lasting relationship.

Thanks for your advice..

looking back isn’t necessarily a bad thing, just remember, one cannot move ahead unless he/she looks forward.

Stay strong!

What the hell is wrong with that guy, really? He just lost a lovely, happy, pretty lady? *Head desk*

Let go and let Joan.

Joan it's wonderful that your able to be so expressive. It doesn't take long to see that you are a woman of quality. Love and life together makes for a great ride.

enjoy the journey

Joan,,your name speaks your heart,,,HAPPY...as Bull here has mentioned you should be..
We all cross rivers and Mountains that we never thought we could.
And with love and finding that right person,,,it takes many stumbles and falls to find that ONE MAN,,who will be there to lift you up,,,who will help you lay down,,but not want to have sex with you,,just to be your best-friend and be their for you,,the Sex will come but yur know him by his tender kisses with nothing more to want,,His eyes always only on you,,and his mind lost in the litle things,,,like what do you really like to eat,,,drink,,,all those small things that most dudes never really ask or care about,,,,YOUR man will worry about how much sleep you get,,he'll watch you sleeping and stare at your beauty with his heart lost into you and him and always being together....WAIT for him,,because you know he is worth that,,,and be ready to find HIM,,,in a very short time,,
Good luck to your dreams,,and be Happy for your heart,,,as it needs to breathe and you need to laugh,,,,sweet dreams,,

Appreciate your comment.. And sometimes we have to move backward to have a better step forward.

Thanks Maam for the advice.. yeah, will remain strong.. and have to move on. I love the graphic.

Oh.. Thanks for the compliment.. I think he just wanted to focus his attention more on his priorities.. Well, that's life, nothing is permanent.

Yeah, I need to focus more on the important things..

Thanks for the message.. I have to express myself.. No one could help me except my own. Your message makes me to keep going.. I am still young, so there are alot of opportunity out there..

Breaking up is never fun. The end of a relationship means the beginning of a period of mourning and healing for both people...Yeah, I can have a chance to find a better and more lasting relationship soon.

I really love your message.. It made my heart skip a bit. I dont know what to say but I want to Thank you.. Your words helped me alot.. Thanks so much.

With looks like that i woudn't even worry about it. Sounds like he wasted your time