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Wed 11/09/11 08:12 PM
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its simply because, we can't still find the right person that we can be with for the rest of our lives.

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Wed 07/06/11 06:56 AM
I wish I could answer the question.. But I dont have lovelife..
Maybe the problem is in me.

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Tue 06/28/11 10:17 PM

With looks like that i woudn't even worry about it. Sounds like he wasted your time


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I appreciate your comment.. Yeah, somehow he wasted my time. We have been together for almost 3 years.. But, now.. All I must do is to move on.

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Tue 06/28/11 04:56 AM

Joan,,your name speaks your heart,,,HAPPY...as Bull here has mentioned you should be..
We all cross rivers and Mountains that we never thought we could.
And with love and finding that right person,,,it takes many stumbles and falls to find that ONE MAN,,who will be there to lift you up,,,who will help you lay down,,but not want to have sex with you,,just to be your best-friend and be their for you,,the Sex will come but yur know him by his tender kisses with nothing more to want,,His eyes always only on you,,and his mind lost in the litle things,,,like what do you really like to eat,,,drink,,,all those small things that most dudes never really ask or care about,,,,YOUR man will worry about how much sleep you get,,he'll watch you sleeping and stare at your beauty with his heart lost into you and him and always being together....WAIT for him,,because you know he is worth that,,,and be ready to find HIM,,,in a very short time,,
Good luck to your dreams,,and be Happy for your heart,,,as it needs to breathe and you need to laugh,,,,sweet dreams,,:heart:


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Breaking up is never fun. The end of a relationship means the beginning of a period of mourning and healing for both people...Yeah, I can have a chance to find a better and more lasting relationship soon.

I really love your message.. It made my heart skip a bit. I dont know what to say but I want to Thank you.. Your words helped me alot.. Thanks so much.

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Tue 06/28/11 04:49 AM

Joan it's wonderful that your able to be so expressive. It doesn't take long to see that you are a woman of quality. Love and life together makes for a great ride.

enjoy the journey


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Thanks for the message.. I have to express myself.. No one could help me except my own. Your message makes me to keep going.. I am still young, so there are alot of opportunity out there..

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Tue 06/28/11 04:47 AM

Let go and let Joan.


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Yeah, I need to focus more on the important things..

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Tue 06/28/11 04:46 AM

What the hell is wrong with that guy, really? He just lost a lovely, happy, pretty lady? *Head desk*


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Oh.. Thanks for the compliment.. I think he just wanted to focus his attention more on his priorities.. Well, that's life, nothing is permanent.

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Tue 06/28/11 04:45 AM


Stay strong!


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Thanks Maam for the advice.. yeah, will remain strong.. and have to move on. I love the graphic.

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Tue 06/28/11 04:44 AM

looking back isn’t necessarily a bad thing, just remember, one cannot move ahead unless he/she looks forward.


Appreciate your comment.. And sometimes we have to move backward to have a better step forward.

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Sun 06/26/11 11:38 PM

It might hurt a little now but looking back it is usually better to have taken the chance at love then skip by because you are affraid of the pain later... Good Luck on the next time...


Should learn over my mistakes.. From the bottom part of my phrase, only when I accept the love that I have lost I can have the chance to find it again in a better and more lasting relationship.

Thanks for your advice.. :smile: :smile:

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Sun 06/26/11 11:36 PM

And others will call it "baggage", but your lessons are important and others will call it something else, but IT'S BAGGAGE and you be FAITHFUL to your baggage.


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Thanks for the comment. Appreciated. Well, I should learn from my mistakes and move on.
That is one reason I joined the site to meet new match and friends.

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Sun 06/26/11 11:34 PM

smexy. you just be...happy joan


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Thanks.. yeah I should be happy.. as always.

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Sun 06/26/11 10:59 PM
He decided to cut off ties and left me. He must have realized it wasn't right to be in a liaison with me. or he probably just lost interest in me. Whatever his reasons were, it just point to one thing... IT'S OVER..


I know he is happy right now even without me by his side. Even I always trying to close this chapter of my life, deep inside, there is still this silent yearning for the things that could have been.

I know that there are still plenty of time to wish for him to be back in my life but there are just instances when I accept my loss and move on with my life.

Sometimes LOVE leave scars that are impossible to erase but that does not mean that there is no life after we have been hurt and blemished. The scars might remind us from our past but it should not keep us from living our best today... LOVE HURTS..

But, I know and it is true that no matter how deep our wounds are, TIME HEALS THEM.. And is true that when we learn to accept the love that we have lost, we can have a chance to find it again in a better and more lasting relationship.

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Sun 06/26/11 10:57 PM
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Sun 06/26/11 10:49 PM

Well? Where are they? It seems like they all just want someone to take care of them, and to be treated like spoiled children.

Where are the... like.... not spoiled ones? the ones that just want a friend and lover to go through life with? Why is it always about "getting stuff" and being "treated like a princess"?

Too many demands these days. What happened to simple relationships? Those seemed to be the ones that lasted, and were the most intimate and beautiful.

Hmm..... am I missing something?
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Well, not all Christian singles are spoiled and demanding.. but every women wanted someone to take care of them. Everyone has their own idea of who a good woman should be--some more flattering than others--but the qualities of a good woman go further than mere looks or shallow immediacy.

Kindness leads to trust and affection. Look for a woman who thinks of others as much as herself and treats others the way she would like to be treated.

Remember what Proverbs 14:1 says: The truly wise woman has built up her house, but the foolish one tears it down with her own hands...

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Sun 06/26/11 06:38 PM




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Thank you.

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Sun 06/26/11 06:36 PM

This is so true you have layered out everything I've dealt with over the past weeks in therapy. That if I don't believe in myself, how would ppl believe.
Just like with my writing if I don't believe I'm good at what I'm doing so how can I expect for a agent to believe in me as both author and person.
Great advice.


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precisely! Glad to hear that my writings helped you to realized something. I am not a composer but I really love to write phrases, lessons in life and sometimes do poem as well.

All your comments help me to continue writing..because sometime I keep it to myself and not sharing it.

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Fri 06/24/11 07:48 PM

hmmm resort. What was th occasion?


It was holy week and I was in my vacation at work so we decided to have a family outing. And it was summer here as well.

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Wed 06/22/11 06:18 AM

Joan where are you at in your profile pic??? Looks like a water world park of sorts.


It was taken in a Resort.. It is a swimming pool with slides.

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Wed 06/22/11 06:17 AM

hey Joan hey everybodywaving


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hi there.. how are you?

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