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socal anyone?
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Whats up mang
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High Desert area?
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I go out there sometimes for my job, but its a rare occasion
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I don't get it? I wasn't complaining. I have met awesome people off of this website, I had an awesome 2 1/2 year relationship from someone off this site. What point are you trying to make? I agree, i cant argue with that |
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Any metal head?
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Gojira is a great band, anybody listen to them?
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What are you here for??
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Sorry, looks like i Jumped the gun there
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Topic:
What are you here for??
Edited by
m2k22
on
Wed 06/29/11 02:28 PM
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here for dating, but seems like a lost cause. Everyone here says to join in the forums to find someone. ha ha, no one in my state is in the forums. I want to meet someone on here I could actually meet with in person on a regular basis. I've found out in my years on the internet, no one is who they appear to be online. It's just too easy to be something different or what you want to be. I also rely on vibes that people give off and you really only get a good feel in person. until my special someone pops into my area I'll keep posting mindless chatter in the forums hoping for someone to conversate with about lifes many perplexities. Unfortunately, the issue for many here is that there is no one local. As for not being who they appear to be online, I don't believe that's the case for everyone. You just have to be pickier about who you meet. Though, you aren't being straight forward about who you are here (no picture) so why expect others to be? Maybe I don't have a camera. Maybe I don't have any photo's of myself. Maybe I'm in the witness protection program. Maybe there is a psycho on this site and I had to make a new account without a photo so they won't harrass me on here or in person. Maybe I'd rather not be judged on my looks. Maybe I prefer the ambiguity. I don't see how that isn't being straight forward. It isn't like I have another person's photo up and pretending it's me. It's my choice as to what I reveal about myself in my own profile. If someone would like a photo, all they need to do is ask, but I'd prefer to share my photos in private and that is my choice. She is correct though. If those are your choices and reasons don't rant about it when you don't get the desired results. I met awesome people out of this site and had a good relationship for almost 3 yrs from someone off of mingle. Obviously what you are doing hasn't worked for you, try going out to the bar or w/e Try reading more than one post before commenting. |
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I don't get it? I wasn't complaining. I have met awesome people off of this website, I had an awesome 2 1/2 year relationship from someone off this site. What point are you trying to make?
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I just dont get it, enlighten me. I have so many guys tell me that they are shocked that I answered their email. Why should that be shocking. If someone takes their time, and directs it to me by emailing me, the very least I could do, would be to email them back. I answer all my emails, I would think it rude not to. They dont always get the answer they want to hear. I usually read their profile, (no matter if I think their picture is cute or not),and respond knowing their profile when I do. If they are too young(which happens alot to me) I simply tell them that, and I usually add in that I hope they arent hurt, mad, or disappointed. If they dont live near me its easy, because I already have a boyfriend all the way across the country. And if im just plain not interested, I just say,"sorry, but I am not interested at this time, but thank you for considering me".I think thats a nice tactful way to say it. I dont expect men to be perfect, and I certainly dont judge them, who am I, or are we, to do that??? I just think, it would be nice, if more women responded to their emails.You have to have at least once written someone, and they didnt write back...how did it make you feel??? Terrible huh? So at least be nice enough to say "no thank you". JMO. P.S. I also write in the end of every letter that I write ..."Good luck in finding your dream girl". Yea, in the same respect I am not very tactful when it comes to messaging others. I just say "whats up" in hopes of opening up a convo, but I'm not gonna go into a huge ordeal just to send the perfect message and I don't expect to get responses back; when I do its nice but I don't let it bother me. |
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Mustache
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I like to cook too! I need lessons tho
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Bars out in Orange County
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Who wants to go?!
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Involountary work
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Good **** dude, is this original content or where are the lyrics from?
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Topic:
What are you here for??
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here for dating, but seems like a lost cause. Everyone here says to join in the forums to find someone. ha ha, no one in my state is in the forums. I want to meet someone on here I could actually meet with in person on a regular basis. I've found out in my years on the internet, no one is who they appear to be online. It's just too easy to be something different or what you want to be. I also rely on vibes that people give off and you really only get a good feel in person. until my special someone pops into my area I'll keep posting mindless chatter in the forums hoping for someone to conversate with about lifes many perplexities. Unfortunately, the issue for many here is that there is no one local. As for not being who they appear to be online, I don't believe that's the case for everyone. You just have to be pickier about who you meet. Though, you aren't being straight forward about who you are here (no picture) so why expect others to be? Maybe I don't have a camera. Maybe I don't have any photo's of myself. Maybe I'm in the witness protection program. Maybe there is a psycho on this site and I had to make a new account without a photo so they won't harrass me on here or in person. Maybe I'd rather not be judged on my looks. Maybe I prefer the ambiguity. I don't see how that isn't being straight forward. It isn't like I have another person's photo up and pretending it's me. It's my choice as to what I reveal about myself in my own profile. If someone would like a photo, all they need to do is ask, but I'd prefer to share my photos in private and that is my choice. She is correct though. If those are your choices and reasons don't rant about it when you don't get the desired results. I met awesome people out of this site and had a good relationship for almost 3 yrs from someone off of mingle. Obviously what you are doing hasn't worked for you, try going out to the bar or w/e |
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It's Over..
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With looks like that i woudn't even worry about it. Sounds like he wasted your time
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Any metal head?
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Metal head reporting in
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Topic:
What are you here for??
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I just got out of an LTR
Not sure what I want to do, Networking at the very least. |
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It's simple. He wants to have sex with you but he doesn't want to date you.
This is what I really think it means |
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Hey Socal
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Whats up
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Hey guys
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Let me have it. You can be brutal
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I eat a lot of weird things, the stuff I eat that grosses my friends out the most is Lamb Balls...
Lamb Balls so gOOOOOOOOd! |
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