Topic: What are you here for??
DTHRomeo's photo
Mon 06/27/11 09:21 AM

Friends, Relationships, Marriage, or for Just a good time???


Free snacks!

Beachfarmer's photo
Mon 06/27/11 10:00 AM
yep.........SNACKS!!!drinker

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Mon 06/27/11 10:06 AM


here for dating, but seems like a lost cause. Everyone here says to join in the forums to find someone. ha ha, no one in my state is in the forums. I want to meet someone on here I could actually meet with in person on a regular basis. I've found out in my years on the internet, no one is who they appear to be online. It's just too easy to be something different or what you want to be. I also rely on vibes that people give off and you really only get a good feel in person. until my special someone pops into my area I'll keep posting mindless chatter in the forums hoping for someone to conversate with about lifes many perplexities.


Wow Frank, for someone still fairly young I am a bit surprised you even need to find someone online. Life's perplexities? I always thought it takes a whole lot more than 23 years of living to be exposed to life's perplexities. You still have alot of life ahead of you & depending on your outlook...most of it will be good...sometimes kafuddled & bemusing ...but still good. Good luck to you...sincerely.


If only life discriminated by age the way the world does. I've seen more than my fair share of life in my 23yrs. That could be why I am online in my search. Should I be in a bar or club looking? or maybe I should be finding a good party or other social event? The thing is, I do all of that. When it comes to finding a date, these aren't the places I look to find someone that is mentally on my level or share similar experience in life. I've met plenty of women I get along with in these places but none that have the quality I'm looking for.

I've been in love and know what I'm looking for. The internet gives me the ability to widen my search. Since I'm unwilling to comprimise on what I want, it could be awhile, but I'm ok with that.

I hope you find someone for your sister. Everyone needs a companion, even if it's just a really good friend. Having someone you can trust talking to about things you wouldn't tell anyone else, definitely makes life easier.

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Mon 06/27/11 10:34 AM



here for dating, but seems like a lost cause. Everyone here says to join in the forums to find someone. ha ha, no one in my state is in the forums. I want to meet someone on here I could actually meet with in person on a regular basis. I've found out in my years on the internet, no one is who they appear to be online. It's just too easy to be something different or what you want to be. I also rely on vibes that people give off and you really only get a good feel in person. until my special someone pops into my area I'll keep posting mindless chatter in the forums hoping for someone to conversate with about lifes many perplexities.


Wow Frank, for someone still fairly young I am a bit surprised you even need to find someone online. Life's perplexities? I always thought it takes a whole lot more than 23 years of living to be exposed to life's perplexities. You still have alot of life ahead of you & depending on your outlook...most of it will be good...sometimes kafuddled & bemusing ...but still good. Good luck to you...sincerely.


If only life discriminated by age the way the world does. I've seen more than my fair share of life in my 23yrs. That could be why I am online in my search. Should I be in a bar or club looking? or maybe I should be finding a good party or other social event? The thing is, I do all of that. When it comes to finding a date, these aren't the places I look to find someone that is mentally on my level or share similar experience in life. I've met plenty of women I get along with in these places but none that have the quality I'm looking for.

I've been in love and know what I'm looking for. The internet gives me the ability to widen my search. Since I'm unwilling to comprimise on what I want, it could be awhile, but I'm ok with that.

I hope you find someone for your sister. Everyone needs a companion, even if it's just a really good friend. Having someone you can trust talking to about things you wouldn't tell anyone else, definitely makes life easier.


Well said! happy

I am here for very simular reasons. And I feel the same way as you! ^_^

MsAlooooooof's photo
Mon 06/27/11 11:01 AM
Thanks Frank...good luck to you too...all the best in your quest!

ArtGurl's photo
Mon 06/27/11 12:13 PM


Friends, Relationships, Marriage, or for Just a good time???


Free snacks!



Romeo ... Beachie .... you guys got snacks???? love

Beachfarmer's photo
Mon 06/27/11 12:28 PM
love Trollop!

DTHRomeo's photo
Tue 06/28/11 03:39 AM
Oh yes we do Art! love

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Tue 06/28/11 05:22 AM
Edited by singmesweet on Tue 06/28/11 05:24 AM

here for dating, but seems like a lost cause. Everyone here says to join in the forums to find someone. ha ha, no one in my state is in the forums. I want to meet someone on here I could actually meet with in person on a regular basis. I've found out in my years on the internet, no one is who they appear to be online. It's just too easy to be something different or what you want to be. I also rely on vibes that people give off and you really only get a good feel in person. until my special someone pops into my area I'll keep posting mindless chatter in the forums hoping for someone to conversate with about lifes many perplexities.


Unfortunately, the issue for many here is that there is no one local.

As for not being who they appear to be online, I don't believe that's the case for everyone. You just have to be pickier about who you meet. Though, you aren't being straight forward about who you are here (no picture) so why expect others to be?

rara777's photo
Tue 06/28/11 05:56 AM
drinks drinker I`m just here for the beer. drinker drinks

m2k22's photo
Tue 06/28/11 11:07 AM
I just got out of an LTR

Not sure what I want to do, Networking at the very least.

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Tue 06/28/11 11:17 AM


here for dating, but seems like a lost cause. Everyone here says to join in the forums to find someone. ha ha, no one in my state is in the forums. I want to meet someone on here I could actually meet with in person on a regular basis. I've found out in my years on the internet, no one is who they appear to be online. It's just too easy to be something different or what you want to be. I also rely on vibes that people give off and you really only get a good feel in person. until my special someone pops into my area I'll keep posting mindless chatter in the forums hoping for someone to conversate with about lifes many perplexities.


Unfortunately, the issue for many here is that there is no one local.

As for not being who they appear to be online, I don't believe that's the case for everyone. You just have to be pickier about who you meet. Though, you aren't being straight forward about who you are here (no picture) so why expect others to be?


Maybe I don't have a camera. Maybe I don't have any photo's of myself. Maybe I'm in the witness protection program. Maybe there is a psycho on this site and I had to make a new account without a photo so they won't harrass me on here or in person. Maybe I'd rather not be judged on my looks. Maybe I prefer the ambiguity.

I don't see how that isn't being straight forward. It isn't like I have another person's photo up and pretending it's me. It's my choice as to what I reveal about myself in my own profile. If someone would like a photo, all they need to do is ask, but I'd prefer to share my photos in private and that is my choice.




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Tue 06/28/11 12:18 PM



here for dating, but seems like a lost cause. Everyone here says to join in the forums to find someone. ha ha, no one in my state is in the forums. I want to meet someone on here I could actually meet with in person on a regular basis. I've found out in my years on the internet, no one is who they appear to be online. It's just too easy to be something different or what you want to be. I also rely on vibes that people give off and you really only get a good feel in person. until my special someone pops into my area I'll keep posting mindless chatter in the forums hoping for someone to conversate with about lifes many perplexities.


Unfortunately, the issue for many here is that there is no one local.

As for not being who they appear to be online, I don't believe that's the case for everyone. You just have to be pickier about who you meet. Though, you aren't being straight forward about who you are here (no picture) so why expect others to be?


Maybe I don't have a camera. Maybe I don't have any photo's of myself. Maybe I'm in the witness protection program. Maybe there is a psycho on this site and I had to make a new account without a photo so they won't harrass me on here or in person. Maybe I'd rather not be judged on my looks. Maybe I prefer the ambiguity.

I don't see how that isn't being straight forward. It isn't like I have another person's photo up and pretending it's me. It's my choice as to what I reveal about myself in my own profile. If someone would like a photo, all they need to do is ask, but I'd prefer to share my photos in private and that is my choice.






She is correct though. If those are your choices and reasons don't rant about it when you don't get the desired results. I met awesome people out of this site and had a good relationship for almost 3 yrs from someone off of mingle. Obviously what you are doing hasn't worked for you, try going out to the bar or w/e

prashant01's photo
Tue 06/28/11 12:25 PM
jff

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Tue 06/28/11 01:23 PM
I'm looking for friends 'n' fun with someone who is in-state, not from uganda.

Ladylid2012's photo
Tue 06/28/11 01:31 PM

I'm looking for friends 'n' fun with someone who is in-state, not from uganda.


(((N))) flowerforyou

wux's photo
Tue 06/28/11 01:36 PM
I here, waiting for to be adopted by Prince Charles and his consort.

SEVEN YEARS ALREADY!!

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Tue 06/28/11 01:38 PM
:heart: Lady!

wux's photo
Tue 06/28/11 01:39 PM

Wow Frank, for someone still fairly young I am a bit surprised you even need to find someone online. Life's perplexities? I always thought it takes a whole lot more than 23 years of living to be exposed to life's perplexities. You still have alot of life ahead of you & depending on your outlook...most of it will be good...sometimes kafuddled & bemusing ...but still good. Good luck to you...sincerely.


Life becomes perplexless after 56. You've seen it all, done it all, felt it all.

Then you keep loking for the exit, and when you are there, you stop in your track, and others have to force you through.

It's a funny life we live in.

MFB88's photo
Tue 06/28/11 01:55 PM
I'm on mingle to hopefully meet someone to have a relationship with, also meet awesome people from around the world