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It's a slut when a guy does it and it's a slut when a girl does it. If any thing this standard shows that women have more virtue than men. Did that win me points! my mom still loves me  
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See I don't have a problem with that behavior if its consensual and they people doing it aren't in a relationship or hurting anyone.Regardless of male or female. More power to you go out and have fun while you can! Its not my place to judge anyone but myself.
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traditional maybe - I find the term old fashioned offensive - just thought I'd mention that traditional values have worked well for a lot of people for a long long time that is why we have them because they have been mostly - not always- successful- flexibility is good too tho and to meet me - there is nothing old fashioned about me at all so I don't appreciate the assumption and as I said the paying thing has been the preference of the men, not mine - usually much younger, actaully - and NOT just an expectation that I have. Tho it is one I share on a first date particularly it is a sign that he is really into you - otherwise you've been friend zoned lovey And if either person is worrying much about who is going to pay, then you aren't that into the date. It's my preference to offer to pay, just as it's yours not to. I just choose not to worry about the "friend zone" in terms of who pays. It's silly. |
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I never quite understood the notch on the belt game. Isn't it a social no no to have too many notches on the belt? When and where did men create this mix up anyway.
"I have many women so I am bigger man" what? smack me! If we "men" would have kept things zipped up we would have created a more sane place to live in, but NOOOO, we have to show our ****S to the world to make us feel important. I am man, I rule the planet, bow before me cause I am all knowing. Right sorry, never bought it and I'm a guy. Well I think I am, wait a minute.. yep I'm a guy. |
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I never quite understood the notch on the belt game. Isn't it a social no no to have too many notches on the belt? When and where did men create this mix up anyway. "I have many women so I am bigger man" what? smack me! If we "men" would have kept things zipped up we would have created a more sane place to live in, but NOOOO, we have to show our ****S to the world to make us feel important. I am man, I rule the planet, bow before me cause I am all knowing. Right sorry, never bought it and I'm a guy. Well I think I am, wait a minute.. yep I'm a guy. yeah, jeesh, the stronger sex should be setting firmer standards and values..... show that the sexual partner is of 'value'(as opposed to the 'sex') by treating them like they are you are doing a good job redeeming the reputation of men in this thread mg,,lol |
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Well thanks, I would hope that men really do care inside but that blasted ego thing is a real killer for us.
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Edited by
sweetestgirl11
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Sun 06/12/11 06:18 PM
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traditional maybe - I find the term old fashioned offensive - just thought I'd mention that traditional values have worked well for a lot of people for a long long time that is why we have them because they have been mostly - not always- successful- flexibility is good too tho and to meet me - there is nothing old fashioned about me at all so I don't appreciate the assumption and as I said the paying thing has been the preference of the men, not mine - usually much younger, actaully - and NOT just an expectation that I have. Tho it is one I share on a first date particularly it is a sign that he is really into you - otherwise you've been friend zoned lovey And if either person is worrying much about who is going to pay, then you aren't that into the date. It's my preference to offer to pay, just as it's yours not to. I just choose not to worry about the "friend zone" in terms of who pays. It's silly. |
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Edited by
tazzops
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Sun 06/12/11 06:32 PM
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Oh well.
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traditional maybe - I find the term old fashioned offensive - just thought I'd mention that traditional values have worked well for a lot of people for a long long time that is why we have them because they have been mostly - not always- successful- flexibility is good too tho and to meet me - there is nothing old fashioned about me at all so I don't appreciate the assumption and as I said the paying thing has been the preference of the men, not mine - usually much younger, actaully - and NOT just an expectation that I have. Tho it is one I share on a first date particularly it is a sign that he is really into you - otherwise you've been friend zoned lovey And if either person is worrying much about who is going to pay, then you aren't that into the date. It's my preference to offer to pay, just as it's yours not to. I just choose not to worry about the "friend zone" in terms of who pays. It's silly. |
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Well thanks, I would hope that men really do care inside but that blasted ego thing is a real killer for us. then shrink it, an over inflated ego is most annoying anyway.... |
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Well thanks, I would hope that men really do care inside but that blasted ego thing is a real killer for us. then shrink it, an over inflated ego is most annoying anyway.... I agree. Rather than using it as an excuse, get rid of it. |
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Seems the double standard is alive and well...still! From another thread... " Don't feed me any of that self control BULLSHITTE!" "FACT: We (men) are animals and when instinct is triggered it overrides common sense." " Don't dangle meat in front of a dog...." 
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So... basically they're saying men don't have common sense?
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Only when they have a boner...I guess
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So... basically they're saying men don't have common sense? Yes.... absolutely correct  X 100
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I guess I should have said they're basically saying men have no self control.
What thread was this? |
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wow...
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wow... Yes.... Wow! "Cross threading" your opinions.... double wow wow 
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Edited by
mg1959
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Wed 06/15/11 12:29 PM
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Yep, men have a different outlook cause of our difference in testosterone. We can side, even agree with you, but we are still driven by a different urge. My wife (I feel) did a good job in training me, but she did it with tons and tons of love so I didn't know it was taking place. I didn't realize how much till I started hanging around guys mainly again.
Bottom line is (from what I have seen) if you try to take a guy head on he's going to give you his natural manly response. If you win his testosterone over with love he will be a piece of clay. Loyal to you, dedicated to you and as much ego as you want him to have. Personally my wife loved my ego cause she also taught me how to laugh at it and not take it seriously. She never went a day knowing she did not own me. And I loved it!!! Let me edit this and add. Being owned by a thoughtful woman is the greatest feeling a man can ever have shy of meeting God himself. |
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