Have you ever had a moment where time slows down so much that it seems to go on forever?

Have you ever looked at someone for the first time, and known them a lifetime?

Have you ever found you know someone instantly?...that they have always been there, more a part of you, than you would ever have known?


I have had this experience once before, I knew him before I met him, instantly....and what evolved from that was a lifelong love.


It has appeared again....minding my own business, perambulating around in my day to day, unglamorous, unprepared, not a hairbrush, mascara, or shoes to be seen world....and WHAM!

He appeared....exactly as I knew him to be...barefoot, fisherman pants, long silver ponytail, liquid brown eyes, and silent.

His silence is the most powerful recognition for me...as I live mostly in silence...and yet his music is melodical, ethereal, and familiar.

Self contained, accepting, allowing, gentle, humble.

And the strangest part?...it is as if he has always been here...the ease and comfort of sharing space for both of us, is so natural it as if we have always known each other.

He blends so well in our crazy house, and crazy lives, I think he was made for this Now.


I'm a little ruffled and wrong footed on the superficial level...and thankfully he hears it.


When you least expect it, when you have surrendered and accepted that your lifetime has known that One Great Love, you've had your lot....BOOM...knocked me on my arse.


Share with me your thoughts, please?

Love is a strange thing.

Some find it on every corner.

Some never at all.

A lucky few find that it lasts a lifetime.

That's a wonderful thing.

Couldn't have said it better.
Out of nowhere.
Unexpected.
Lives changed :-)

u sound happy jess and that is wonderful

when he and we feel like home, that's the best place to be.

Yeah, but it's kind of sucky when they don't feel the same :s

Happy for you Jess, that's special love, that is ^_^

Well I have met a guy that I felt like I known my whole life. He understands me, listens to me; doesn't judge me, and I am just very comfortable around him. Unfortunately he is married; however I do treasure him as a good friend.

I've had something like that in the past seems like a life time ago that it happen..........Hoping that someday in the future that feeling will happen again....

For those that have found that feeling and living in the moment enjoy it to the fullest .....

nice

nice

I am too moved to say anything about your post, OP.

We saw the physical manifestations...the 'us' that we know ourselves to be, for the first time 2 weeks ago....through a woman who I have loved with the deepest sister love for over ten years.

The pair of them were meandering up the east coast of Australia in his bus...The White Rhino...she has a house and land here, in Agnes Water, and was organising stuff for the new tenants of her house...hence the visit.

Do you have people in your life, friends, family, that you light up around??...that you feel the All of you, when with them?

..she's that person for me...I adore her so much that her leaving, leaves me aching...and for her, the same. There is no sexual thing in it...it's complete sister love.


Well bless her heart, here she is on another adventure, with the 'Spirit Cat', travelling to places that they feel a connection to, and in her 44th year, having accepted she is not to carry a child, nor birth a child, in this lifetime....she arrives at my house, and discovers she is pregnant!...(she has had one pregnancy in her whole sexual lifetime, and miscarried 15 years ago...)

The biological father is someone she is travelling up the coast to rendevous with in Cairns, for a sailing journey over a month...

The irony?...Both Stephen, (Spirit Cat) and myself are parents....he has 7 children, I have 4...she's horrified, terrified, puzzled, bewildered...and excited...and we spent the whole time chuckling, supporting, holding, loving her through all the emotions..

She landed exactly where she needed to be, with exactly the right people when she learnt this news...

She's going to be a mother!!...Yay!

So Stephen is the courier, therapist, conspirator, nursemaid...(afternoon sickness has crept in, and he is spending his life making her ginger tea)...delivering her to her lover in Cairns, more of her, than when they were last together.

I miss them both terribly, Stephen, with his own drive to return to Agnes, to us...and yet to safely deliver my wild sister love to her lover at the other end of the State....and her, for her vulnerability...her huge loving energy, and what lies ahead for her.

Stephen assures me, they will both be back here within a week, him definitely, and her not far behind.


My house...Asylum....has a second house within it, self contained, joined by a doorway through...and it is here I suspect the Heart Thief, my darling sister of heart, is returning to settle in for her confinement, birth and early months after.


She delivered him to me, me to him....and now, a child for all of us...

my life, crazy as it sounds, is perfect.

so THAT's the disturbance in the force lately!!! Love abounds in a myriad of ways. So happy for you!

Oooops....sorry...I wondered if the glow was noticable..

Jess every time I was sure that I would never feel that strongly for any man again I have surpassed the time before. So it gets better and better each time and I believe it is because we become better with time at a spiritual type level at least.

Hmm, me it was the opposite. With every relationship; I became more and more distance and very cold. I have a wall of steel around my heart now.

I'm thrilled for ya Jess....
such moments don't happen for everyone

Dragoness...maybe us 47th year crazy Dragon ladies that have let go of the physical only attraction, and are delving into the deeper spiritual connection know what we are waffling on about?

I have found also, each relationship brings it's own richness, it's own lessons, it's own gifts...as painful in the moment, they may be..there's a stepping stone feeling wrapped in it.