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Topic: Anybody like to be Mentally expletive/deleted?
Swimforrealsgirl's photo
Thu 05/12/11 03:33 AM
This is so weird. Ok. I am going to be totally honest. The reason I'm single...is because I liked to be Mentally %&*#@ first and foremost. The head goes, the body follows.

Why?1?!

Beachfarmer's photo
Thu 05/12/11 03:34 AM
your F*%#ed in the head?

Swimforrealsgirl's photo
Thu 05/12/11 03:35 AM

your F*%#ed in the head?


Hell, Yeah!

Beachfarmer's photo
Thu 05/12/11 03:37 AM
Welcome Home

Swimforrealsgirl's photo
Thu 05/12/11 03:38 AM

Welcome Home


Uh, huh. Uh, huh.....

mylifetoday's photo
Thu 05/12/11 03:45 AM
sex occurs in the mind.

If you have ever had bad sex you will know what I mean. laugh

Swimforrealsgirl's photo
Thu 05/12/11 03:47 AM

sex occurs in the mind.

If you have ever had bad sex you will know what I mean. laugh


No question....but....I must be mentally stimulated and intellectually aroused...for the best of me to come out...

mylifetoday's photo
Thu 05/12/11 03:51 AM


sex occurs in the mind.

If you have ever had bad sex you will know what I mean. laugh


No question....but....I must be mentally stimulated and intellectually aroused...for the best of me to come out...


right, that's what I mean.

You have to be interested and desiring. That can't happen if he is not interesting to you. That is: he doesn't trip your mind sometimes... Goes both ways. happy

Beachfarmer's photo
Thu 05/12/11 03:51 AM
"Crossthreading"....but I take it that "this" doesn't happen from a questionairre?

Swimforrealsgirl's photo
Thu 05/12/11 03:55 AM

"Crossthreading"....but I take it that "this" doesn't happen from a questionairre?


Crossthreading? I wouldn't hold that against them....I'm open....

Beachfarmer's photo
Thu 05/12/11 03:57 AM
What WOULD you hold against them?

Swimforrealsgirl's photo
Thu 05/12/11 04:00 AM

What WOULD you hold against them?


Liars, cheaters, cheap, stingy, hateful. That's what I'd hold against them..Other than that...all is fair in love and life....

TattooedDude81's photo
Thu 05/12/11 07:26 AM


What WOULD you hold against them?


Liars, cheaters, cheap, stingy, hateful. That's what I'd hold against them..Other than that...all is fair in love and life....


You have that backwards...all is fair in love and war...

soufiehere's photo
Thu 05/12/11 10:31 AM



What WOULD you hold against them?


Liars, cheaters, cheap, stingy, hateful. That's what I'd hold against them..Other than that...all is fair in love and life....


You have that backwards...all is fair in love and war...

I think most women are like that.
Mental stimulation precurses any other
form of attraction.
Men have a hard time grasping this.
They want the visual goods to be perfect first.
Then they might look further.
They will call it 'chemistry.'
Whereas, if they enter through our minds
we really do not care so much what
they look like.
We call THAT 'chemistry.'

Totage's photo
Thu 05/12/11 10:41 AM

This is so weird. Ok. I am going to be totally honest. The reason I'm single...is because I liked to be Mentally %&*#@ first and foremost. The head goes, the body follows.

Why?1?!


Makes sense to me, but then again I'm insane, so... :tongue:


no photo
Thu 05/12/11 11:52 AM
I get my mental stimulation from reading.

From a man, I want some other kind of stimulation. laugh drool

RowBaby's photo
Thu 05/12/11 11:56 AM

I think most women are like that.
Mental stimulation precurses any other
form of attraction.
Men have a hard time grasping this.
They want the visual goods to be perfect first.
Then they might look further.
They will call it 'chemistry.'
Whereas, if they enter through our minds
we really do not care so much what
they look like.
We call THAT 'chemistry.'

exactly!

no photo
Thu 05/12/11 11:59 AM
Real chemistry is mutual and has to do with pheromones and vibrations.


no photo
Thu 05/12/11 12:03 PM
No offense to guys or girls, but while mental stimulation and common interests are always helpful, to expect to get enough of that all from a single partner eventually leads to head games and petty disagreements.

Embrace the differences, enjoy the things you have in common. Let him or her be who they are.


no photo
Thu 05/12/11 12:22 PM




What WOULD you hold against them?


Liars, cheaters, cheap, stingy, hateful. That's what I'd hold against them..Other than that...all is fair in love and life....


You have that backwards...all is fair in love and war...

I think most women are like that.
Mental stimulation precurses any other
form of attraction.
Men have a hard time grasping this.
They want the visual goods to be perfect first.
Then they might look further.
They will call it 'chemistry.'
Whereas, if they enter through our minds
we really do not care so much what
they look like.
We call THAT 'chemistry.'


Not true for me! I am attracted first physically and then need the emotional, intellectual stimulation to want it to go anywhere. I think it is not only men who are attracted by looks - some of us women want the same kind of attraction that we accuse men of wanting. I have met lots of guys who are nice, kind, sincere and have become great friends - but if the chemistry is not there - it is just not there.
Maybe I am superficial - but just being honest!!!

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