Topic: Dating a stripper
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Sun 05/01/11 01:09 AM
Do you think dating a stripper can work out?

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Sun 05/01/11 01:37 AM
Edited by racinghart on Sun 05/01/11 01:40 AM

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Sun 05/01/11 03:40 AM
Edited by msharmony on Sun 05/01/11 03:41 AM

Do you think dating a stripper can work out?



why couldnt it? not all strippers have the same character, values, etc,,,,


although it would take a 'certain' type of man to be ok with drunk men oogling their half naked lady every night and her ENTICING Them to do so,,,,

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Sun 05/01/11 03:50 AM
yes it could work out but she'd stop stripping and gets a regular job because she wants to stop stripping and spend more time with you and also because stripping doesn't last forever. plus it is very high in the sleaze factor....

laugh

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Sun 05/01/11 05:07 AM
I've dated a number of strippers. If they had anything in common it was they needed instant gratification. Most of them spent money as fast as they made it and never had enough to cover buying a new tire for the car when it was needed.

You have to be careful you don't fall for her tricks and games. Her job is manipulating men and you'll have to stay ahead of her to earn and keep her respect.

However, the rewards are great.

Can you handle seeing your girlfriend giving another man a lap dance?

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Sun 05/01/11 09:01 AM
Been there and done it.

It ain't for everyone. The fact is, EVERY NIGHT, someone is gonna make an offer...usually money, cars or jobs...and THAT is hard to compete with.

I know alot of strippers. One of my friends who is also my lawyer who represents my art work, owns a strip club and I have permanent VIP status. Yep, they do spend thier money as fast as they make it...and they make more money than I do. They are nice people but, the job warps a normal sense of loyalty.

My first true love stripped for a short time. I still love the woman but, I could never trust a stripper. I realize that is an unfar generalization but, after 20+ years of knowing them....I would never trust one with my heart.

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Sun 05/01/11 10:20 AM
strippers are people too, and , for the most part, friendly, beautiful, full of energy and great people to be around. yes, i would date a stripper anytime, and i go see some at least once a week... nothing beats a good lapdance!

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Sun 05/01/11 10:30 AM

Do you think dating a stripper can work out?


I did once, it didn't work out, but I don't think her profession was really a factor though.

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Sun 05/01/11 10:59 AM
I'm a former stripper and have been married for 8 years going on 9.

It depends on the woman & the man. They have to both be mature.

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Sun 05/01/11 11:22 AM
Besides all that has been said here already, does she (I am assuming the stripper is a she) like her job or hate it?

If she likes her job then it might be more important than who she is dating, this means that she might take it further than just the hours that she is actually working on the clock if you know what I mean.

If she hates her job then who she is dating will have to put up with her being disgusted at her job and herself every day. That is not a good situation.

Some girls just see it as a means to an end. They need the money and this is there last resort for money that they can find. So they just go and kind of zone out while at work until they have enough money to pay the bills or what ever they need to do.

There might be more types but those are the only ones I have met... Good Luck

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Sun 05/01/11 12:04 PM

I'm a former stripper and have been married for 8 years going on 9.

It depends on the woman & the man. They have to both be mature.



thats very true, my niece was an exotic dancer while she was young, trying to build a foundation for her own life (she had a bit of a crazy mother) but she was very smart and made wise investments with the money, married a computer engineer who had been her best friend through school, helped pay to finish sending him to school, and then they both put together their funds to build a wonderful life

she has had her own house, cars, etc,,since her young twenties
and they also own animals (horses) and have two beatiful children


if people are MATURE enough, their occupation wont interrupt what they need to do for their life

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Sun 05/01/11 12:27 PM

Do you think dating a stripper can work out?

Never been in that type of relationship. I would suspect you would need to put a lot of trust in your partner and you partner really feeling passionate with you. And I guess also not be extremely jealous over the attention she will get.

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Sun 05/01/11 12:43 PM

Been there and done it.

It ain't for everyone. The fact is, EVERY NIGHT, someone is gonna make an offer...usually money, cars or jobs...and THAT is hard to compete with.

I know alot of strippers. One of my friends who is also my lawyer who represents my art work, owns a strip club and I have permanent VIP status. Yep, they do spend thier money as fast as they make it...and they make more money than I do. They are nice people but, the job warps a normal sense of loyalty.

My first true love stripped for a short time. I still love the woman but, I could never trust a stripper. I realize that is an unfar generalization but, after 20+ years of knowing them....I would never trust one with my heart.


prolly the best answer I've seen on this topic in 3 years of internet forum

add that a lot of them really may not completely have positive attitudes about guys - laughin atcha while ur droolin so to speak

so you will have to be a little of a psychologist to date one

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Sun 05/01/11 06:19 PM
Obviously at my age it won't happen. However, if 30 years younger I would have to say no. I couldn't handle other men seeing her undressed. Just like women do not like to share their man with another woman.

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Mon 05/02/11 09:49 PM
Well indiandave4 It can happen if you put forth an effort.bigsmile

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Mon 05/02/11 09:55 PM

Obviously at my age it won't happen. However, if 30 years younger I would have to say no. I couldn't handle other men seeing her undressed. Just like women do not like to share their man with another woman.



dude... have you ever been to a tittybar?... as long as you have money, they would love to date you...

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Mon 05/02/11 10:08 PM
dating a stripper dosen't mean any thing.there is nothing bad in it,so far she had agreed to quit stripping. Then she will have my best love.

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Mon 05/02/11 10:13 PM
dating a stripper dosen't mean any thing.there is nothing bad in it,so far she had agreed to quit stripping. Then she will have my best love.

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Mon 05/02/11 10:20 PM
dating a stripper dosen't mean any thing.there is nothing bad in it,so far she had agreed to quit stripping. Then she will have my best love.

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Tue 05/03/11 02:00 PM

dude... have you ever been to a tittybar?... as long as you have money, they would love to date you...


Nope and don't plan on it. Sorry if that is percieved as politically incorrect.