My opinion alot of women want something real and genuine and not be treated like a sex object, woman want to be treated with class and respect, we are not dogmeat.

dude, look who's talking, get back to perving

I agree with singmesweet and sweetestgirl here.

Personally, I hate it when women say they want a commitment, and then proceed just to use me for sex. I mean, what do I do? I can't hide my package. And I feel downright uncomfortable when women stare there. How rude is it when you talk to a woman, and she's not looking at your eyes, but at your junk. There have been times when I have said, "Hey, cowgirl, my eyes are up here."

So ladies, don't treat me like your little sex toy. I'm a man, a sexy man, but a man nonetheless. I have a mind. And I'm a lot more than a package with energy.

fwb is perfect while ur still looking for the one..u must break off the benifit part if u meet the ONE.some people may only have time,effort,desire to be in a relationship.takes work to keep relationships healty and strong.takes a phone call to friend to be a friend and benifit whenever possible,hard to **** up friendship,easy to ruin relationships.who doesnt have complaints about their relationship their in?Who has complaint about their fwb?besides wanting to be more than friends.To each his own.Different strokes for different folks.

it is still not a good idea for a woman to concede or accept a FWB situation because he usually ends up with someone else - you r exactly right FWB sends the message to her that she is not the ONE and won't be as I seldom see FWB graduate into a relationship

problem is a lot of women hope or think they will and sometimes it's because a man has misrepresented things - and sometimes it's because she's hearing what she wants to hear

but I maintain my buyer beware and we shouldn't agree to FWB unless we don't mind being used - I agree w/ NavyGirl on this one

I think better said that if the women in this FWB really wants to be "the one" for the man in the FWB...then she shoulc not accept!

I have never been hurt by my FWBs and was happy when they did find suitable mates. FWB is not designed to result in a LTR...it's simply 2 lonely friends helping each other out (generally sexual, but I have known a few that just wanted some cuddling). It is a given that neither one is "the one" for the other or we'd have started a relationship instead of the FWB!

I always preferred the FWB thing until I met the ex hubby! The most recent ex was only suppose to go that far & turned into an LTR.

I totally agree with singme...bring on the non-clingy, just wanna have a little fun guys!

Drink a little drink, smoke a little smoke, let me leave you with a smile...

we are not dogmeat.

Always willing to put a big smile on a beautiful face!

dude, i just perved you. so there

FWB is not about distrust or wanting to start a relationship with ur fwb.its a situation where both people feel comfortabe with the only friend and only benefit part of it.go out have good time together and feel comfortable with that person to enjoy some benefits for both people and specifically not wanting or needing any thing more from the other friend.if ur ready to find a mate for relationship status then go look else where not in the friend.it wasnt meant to be in the first place.pretty simple.

I agree with singmesweet and sweetestgirl here.

Personally, I hate it when women say they want a commitment, and then proceed just to use me for sex. I mean, what do I do? I can't hide my package. And I feel downright uncomfortable when women stare there. How rude is it when you talk to a woman, and she's not looking at your eyes, but at your junk. There have been times when I have said, "Hey, cowgirl, my eyes are up here."

So ladies, don't treat me like your little sex toy. I'm a man, a sexy man, but a man nonetheless. I have a mind. And I'm a lot more than a package with energy.

yes if those are acceptable terms, that is between the people involved

but where I think the problems come in is when a guy obtains sex by deception

firefly my experience with this hasn't been positive and I do feel I deserve better - to me the convenience thing is just a cop out as a justification - a real man doesn't mind putting the necessary effort into courtship

- as u can see I just really don't like it on many levels

I also don't really trust men who advocate FWB. I think they're users who want something for nothing- but that's me- I agree tho we are all entitled to our opinions and what works best for us