Topic: What turns you off?...
msharmony's photo
Wed 03/09/11 12:29 PM



I noticed that when I go out on a first date the usual little things turn me off about a guy. Like what they wear for the occasion, if they shaved, or if they are decent tippers.

What turns you off when your on a first date? And is it something you notice a lot? flowerforyou


shallow conversation, talking about their money or their valuables
bad hygiene, unshaven, untrimmed
anti religious or anti family talk
distracting tattoos or piercings


Well....2 out of 4 aitn bad. LOL!!



:tongue: :tongue:

good thing is, im TOTALLY aware that those who are interested in what turns me off,, would likewise not be so attracted to me either

so its all goodlaugh

Mayhem_J's photo
Wed 03/09/11 12:40 PM
True Dat!!

scttggry81's photo
Wed 03/09/11 04:53 PM
Overkilling the cost of a first date. Especially in this economy. Seriously, a guy takes a woman out, he should pay the tab no questions asked, but women should show a bit of class by not going for the most expensive thing on the menu, or going over board on anything that costs money in general. I don't have a problem spending money on you, but I still have to be able to eat until my next paycheck. Hell, you wanna screw somebody over moneywise, you got family don't you?

Last part was a joke, as it is hard to sense sarcasm over the internet...

Ladylid2012's photo
Wed 03/09/11 04:56 PM
I can work with anyone except an arrogant, mean ego maniac

motowndowntown's photo
Wed 03/09/11 05:15 PM
Farting and or belching.

At least wait till the second date.

Goofball73's photo
Wed 03/09/11 06:54 PM
Chicks laugh. I can't really describe it, but if it is loud, annoying, and has a kid looking at me saying "Kill that biatch", then game over.

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Wed 03/09/11 06:55 PM
Is there anything wrong with a chick that can down a beer and belch louder than the guy next to her. I think not!!!:tongue:

indianadave4's photo
Wed 03/09/11 09:03 PM
1. Women who talk very little. I get bored trying to keep the conversation going.
2. Women who treat the first date like it's a job interview or performance review.
3. Women who say they'd like to go out again but never respond by phone or email.
4. Radical feminists who like to argue about anything and everything.
5. Exccessive makeup. I want to date a woman not a clown.
6. The woman looks little like her picture or description. Uses younger pictures for her profile.

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Wed 03/09/11 09:13 PM

Lack of manners & common sense.


Amen to that.

Lack of class:

Failure to tip the waitress.
Rude to the waitress.
Bad table manners.
Talking on the phone or texting.
Dieing for a cigarette.
Taking you strait to a seedy motel. (LOL)
Obsessive compulsive disorders (like eating disorders, phobias, paranoia)

Hey, I've seen them all.




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Wed 03/09/11 09:13 PM

Any kind of comb-over...shudder.
I will buy you a razor.

If you have to look at other girls..
be prepared to follow THEM home.


rofl

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Wed 03/09/11 09:17 PM

As long as she is slightly sane and puts out at the end of the night...I'm good to go. I'm easy to please.



JUST KIDDING LADIES!! Lol!!



Get something off the menu you are going to enjoy. Don't get some cheesy salad. Go ahead and eat normal. Don't sit there and think that I'm going to think you are a pig if you eat a burger. Or order the cheapest thing on the menu. Especially if I suggested the place where we are eating. I wouldn't pick a place I couldn't afford. And your damn right I'm paying.


Good for you. I like a good steak. Yum.

fireflysgirl's photo
Thu 03/10/11 06:00 PM
Ugh...I hate dating! The whole "can i impress them enough to wanna see me again" game is not for me! I don't like being touched by people I don't know well so I'm not gonna put out the first time I meet someone.

If a man wants to see me...I am not hard to find & if I am interested...he will know! I'd rather just hook up with a friend that date randomly

rlynne's photo
Thu 03/10/11 06:11 PM

I noticed that when I go out on a first date the usual little things turn me off about a guy. Like what they wear for the occasion, if they shaved, or if they are decent tippers.

What turns you off when your on a first date? And is it something you notice a lot? flowerforyou



texting the entire time...

bad breath...

how you tip the server(also dependent upon quality of service)

telling me how fabulous i am( i already know that, along with what i'm worth...lets talk about something interesting)

asking me direct questions receiving direct answers, and then being dissatisfied with the answer...i don't sugar coat things..thats stupid and your not five.

indianadave4's photo
Fri 03/11/11 07:44 AM

Ugh...I hate dating! The whole "can i impress them enough to wanna see me again" game is not for me! I don't like being touched by people I don't know well so I'm not gonna put out the first time I meet someone.

If a man wants to see me...I am not hard to find & if I am interested...he will know! I'd rather just hook up with a friend that date randomly


I'm curious how this is working for you!

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Fri 03/11/11 07:52 AM
Women that are too conservative and goody goody.

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Fri 03/11/11 09:47 AM

Is there anything wrong with a chick that can down a beer and belch louder than the guy next to her. I think not!!!:tongue:



*places check mark here*laugh

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Fri 03/11/11 09:47 AM

Women that are too conservative and goody goody.



and here...def..here...lolol..laugh

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Fri 03/11/11 11:19 AM


Is there anything wrong with a chick that can down a beer and belch louder than the guy next to her. I think not!!!:tongue:



*places check mark here*laugh


SWEET!! lol:wink:

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Fri 03/11/11 11:20 AM


Women that are too conservative and goody goody.



and here...def..here...lolol..laugh


A check as in u r conservative and goody goody...lol

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Fri 03/11/11 11:30 AM




Def...a Conservative..goody goody type.