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Topic: What turns you off?...
iam4u Joined Fri 10/13/06 Posts: 30096	Sat 03/12/11 08:48 PM
You know that time,,when she's close to you and she locks her eyes on yours and her sweet lips open to say,,,, WE'RE F-UCKING THROUGH! THAT WILL DO -IT FOR ME... OK...

Sneaksintoyourheart Joined Fri 10/16/09 Posts: 19261	Sat 03/12/11 08:55 PM
right now people that can't really tell the truth or is that too much to ask for lol

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Sat 03/12/11 09:06 PM Edited by sweetestgirl11 on Sat 03/12/11 09:07 PM
Oh where 's ur sense of humor? My ex-wife got it in the divorce. u know the world would be a better place with a tribe of little Lex's Only if they were running things. And I can't see the governments of the world letting THAT happen....! how could they stop it? ( the gov't takeover by mini Lex'z - driving mini coopers?) Oh, and don't let her have ur sense of humor - offer her some kinda trade - granny's crystal or something

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Sat 03/12/11 09:10 PM
I suggest a thorough interrogation before going out in public with someone you don't really know.. It saves some of this disappointment and dissatisfaction I'm finding in these replies.. I know u were trying to be funny but you may have a point - prolly a first meeting should be pretty casual & quiet - just to talk to determine attraction & compatability If there's food involved - keep it light and informal

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Sat 03/12/11 09:14 PM
right now people that can't really tell the truth or is that too much to ask for lol I think sneak, it depends on what ur asking - we get so familiar with each other on these forums - we may forget sometimes that we really don't know each other some questions can hover close to the "mind ur own business" zone... and seem out of place in a casual 1st meeting

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Mon 03/14/11 06:19 AM
I noticed that when I go out on a first date the usual little things turn me off about a guy. Like what they wear for the occasion, if they shaved, or if they are decent tippers. What turns you off when your on a first date? And is it something you notice a lot? Arrogance, talking about themselves the entire time, rude to the waiter.. things like that.

Lili_M Joined Fri 02/11/11 Posts: 300	Mon 03/14/11 05:57 PM
I was beginning to think ... "I am turned off by fawningly nice guys"... at first I thought this was a problem...do I really want someone who is not nice to me and not the guy who seems to really like me? What is my problem? then I read the definition below...I think its okay to be turned off by the person described in this definition... Definition from Dictionary.com fawn 1 (fôn) intr.v. fawned, fawn·ing, fawns 1. To exhibit affection or attempt to please, as a dog does by wagging its tail, whining, or cringing. 2. To seek favor or attention by flattery and obsequious behavior.

fireflysgirl Joined Mon 10/18/10 Posts: 2957	Mon 03/14/11 06:03 PM
I was beginning to think ... "I am turned off by fawningly nice guys"... at first I thought this was a problem...do I really want someone who is not nice to me and not the guy who seems to really like me? What is my problem? then I read the definition below...I think its okay to be turned off by the person described in this definition... Definition from Dictionary.com fawn 1 (fôn) intr.v. fawned, fawn·ing, fawns 1. To exhibit affection or attempt to please, as a dog does by wagging its tail, whining, or cringing. 2. To seek favor or attention by flattery and obsequious behavior. yes fake people suck!!! I'm not really into dating, but I think people should avoid discussing politics, religion, and exs on first dates

Lili_M Joined Fri 02/11/11 Posts: 300	Mon 03/14/11 10:34 PM Edited by Lili_M on Mon 03/14/11 10:37 PM
then I read the definition below...I think its okay to be turned off by the person described in this definition... Definition from Dictionary.com fawn 1 (fôn) intr.v. fawned, fawn·ing, fawns 1. To exhibit affection or attempt to please, as a dog does by wagging its tail, whining, or cringing. 2. To seek favor or attention by flattery and obsequious behavior. yes fake people suck!!! I'm not really into dating, but I think people should avoid discussing politics, religion, and exs on first dates I had a guy talking about strip clubs and hash...really did he think I was coming back for more of that...seriously...do I look like a boobie tasseled drug user...I think not

theaimeehane Joined Fri 02/18/11 Posts: 32	Tue 03/15/11 04:05 PM
when they order for you, and expect sex on the 1st date

mrheartfelt Joined Fri 11/26/10 Posts: 770	Tue 03/15/11 04:12 PM
then I read the definition below...I think its okay to be turned off by the person described in this definition... Definition from Dictionary.com fawn 1 (fôn) intr.v. fawned, fawn·ing, fawns 1. To exhibit affection or attempt to please, as a dog does by wagging its tail, whining, or cringing. 2. To seek favor or attention by flattery and obsequious behavior. yes fake people suck!!! I'm not really into dating, but I think people should avoid discussing politics, religion, and exs on first dates I tend to not want to deal with anyone who can't pay their own way or take a woman out and not have any money to pay the bill. Ugly!!! I don't like people who try to be more and act like they are better than you. I won't even mention exes or terrible table manners. I could go on, but I will stop right here. Ouch!!!!! I had a guy talking about strip clubs and hash...really did he think I was coming back for more of that...seriously...do I look like a boobie tasseled drug user...I think not

fireflysgirl Joined Mon 10/18/10 Posts: 2957	Tue 03/15/11 04:26 PM
then I read the definition below...I think its okay to be turned off by the person described in this definition... Definition from Dictionary.com fawn 1 (fôn) intr.v. fawned, fawn·ing, fawns 1. To exhibit affection or attempt to please, as a dog does by wagging its tail, whining, or cringing. 2. To seek favor or attention by flattery and obsequious behavior. yes fake people suck!!! I'm not really into dating, but I think people should avoid discussing politics, religion, and exs on first dates I had a guy talking about strip clubs and hash...really did he think I was coming back for more of that...seriously...do I look like a boobie tasseled drug user...I think not LOL...lili! My actual first date with the ex hubby...I took him to a strip club for his birthday! On a side note...I knew most of the girls that danced there and the owners of the club :)

msharmony Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 61041	Tue 03/15/11 04:29 PM Edited by msharmony on Tue 03/15/11 04:29 PM
inability to communicate, particularly, inability to actually ABSORB what the other person is saying kind of like reading comprehension but with no text,,,lol Im a stickler for reading and communication comprehension cant see myself lasting long with someone I constantly had to re explain or repeat things to

Torgo70 Joined Fri 06/27/08 Posts: 27387	Tue 03/15/11 04:33 PM
inability to communicate, particularly, inability to actually ABSORB what the other person is saying kind of like reading comprehension but with no text,,,lol Im a stickler for reading and communication comprehension cant see myself lasting long with someone I constantly had to re explain or repeat things to Could you explain the last part?

Torgo70 Joined Fri 06/27/08 Posts: 27387	Tue 03/15/11 04:47 PM
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Dragoness Joined Wed 10/17/07 Posts: 23320	Tue 03/15/11 04:57 PM
Any kind of prejudice against people by race, ethnicity, citizenship status, sexual orientation, religion or non religion, etc... That usually ends badly because I am worse about it in person than I am on here. Any kind of misogynistic attitude or talk. IE Dumb broads, how chicks can't drive, all crazy females, stupid women talk, etc... Treating wait staff and service people badly. Gripping about the food the whole meal. Speaking about how so&so does it better etc... Complaining about his job, his family, his ex, his kids, his finances, the weather, etc.... Making fun of those he feels are less fortunate than him. Over dressing and bragging. The assumption of cleanliness is always made.

mrheartfelt Joined Fri 11/26/10 Posts: 770	Tue 03/15/11 05:08 PM
Any kind of prejudice against people by race, ethnicity, citizenship status, sexual orientation, religion or non religion, etc... That usually ends badly because I am worse about it in person than I am on here. Any kind of misogynistic attitude or talk. IE Dumb broads, how chicks can't drive, all crazy females, stupid women talk, etc... Treating wait staff and service people badly. Gripping about the food the whole meal. Speaking about how so&so does it better etc... Complaining about his job, his family, his ex, his kids, his finances, the weather, etc.... Making fun of those he feels are less fortunate than him. Over dressing and bragging. The assumption of cleanliness is always made. Nice!! I agree. I forgot about some of those things.

Dragoness Joined Wed 10/17/07 Posts: 23320	Tue 03/15/11 05:26 PM
Any kind of prejudice against people by race, ethnicity, citizenship status, sexual orientation, religion or non religion, etc... That usually ends badly because I am worse about it in person than I am on here. Any kind of misogynistic attitude or talk. IE Dumb broads, how chicks can't drive, all crazy females, stupid women talk, etc... Treating wait staff and service people badly. Gripping about the food the whole meal. Speaking about how so&so does it better etc... Complaining about his job, his family, his ex, his kids, his finances, the weather, etc.... Making fun of those he feels are less fortunate than him. Over dressing and bragging. The assumption of cleanliness is always made. Nice!! I agree. I forgot about some of those things. Thanks