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Topic: I need some feedback here...
Cheer_up's photo
Sun 01/16/11 07:41 PM

I'm trying to figure something out... I've been meeting a lot of women in public that obviously are attracted to me for the wrong reasons that are nothing that I'm about. So what I want you all to do, is look at my pics on my profile, not the rest of my profile. Tell me what kind of person my pics make me appear to be? Please be honest? I want to know if my outward image is accurately representing who I really am? I don't care how cruel or harsh you may be either... I'm not looking for compliments unless they're true. I want to see if it's my appearance alone that's attracting this type of woman?
well i Don't really judge guys but you seem like a laid back party type of guy who likes to have a good time by your pictures i see nothing wrong there cheers and good luck dude :thumbsup:

wraithme66's photo
Sun 01/16/11 07:45 PM

it's tha gangbanger beard, dude...



Hahahaha! I've never heard of it that way!

wraithme66's photo
Sun 01/16/11 07:47 PM
Thanks everybody... I guess my physical appearance is pretty much accurate as far as who I am... I guess there's another reason women misjudge me? Maybe it's my body language?

IndnPrncs's photo
Sun 01/16/11 07:48 PM
I don't think they're misjudging you Jason.. I think they're just hoping they have a chance with you and they have the nerve to find out...

Beachfarmer's photo
Sun 01/16/11 07:56 PM
I feel it though...

tears I'm not just a mind for you to use for depth of character, humor, intrigue, emotion, humanity, and connection.

I have a body too......happy with a killer smile!

Simonedemidova's photo
Sun 01/16/11 07:59 PM
i think most of your pics are nice, but they are also diverse so it is hard to see what type of person you really are. the one you are currently using, scares me---- the eye thing>>> but then some of them look really handsome and you look tall. . .I would think you would be able to notice a crackhead when she hits on you though. Maybe you are picking the wrong women. .

wraithme66's photo
Sun 01/16/11 08:00 PM

I don't think they're misjudging you Jason.. I think they're just hoping they have a chance with you and they have the nerve to find out...



I have been told that before... But usually from people that already know me. That's why I asked some strangers here tonight. But always... Thank you! You're always soo sweet.

wraithme66's photo
Sun 01/16/11 08:01 PM

i think most of your pics are nice, but they are also diverse so it is hard to see what type of person you really are. the one you are currently using, scares me---- the eye thing>>> but then some of them look really handsome and you look tall. . .I would think you would be able to notice a crackhead when she hits on you though. Maybe you are picking the wrong women. .



Lol! "Crackhead" Actually... The women I pick have no interest in me. It's the horrible ones that pick me. I'm not saying I'm going for them. I'm just saying that's what comes my direction.

no photo
Sun 01/16/11 08:02 PM

Thanks everybody... I guess my physical appearance is pretty much accurate as far as who I am... I guess there's another reason women misjudge me? Maybe it's my body language?


how do you know that the ones who are right for you aren't attracted to you? First of all, they must be attracted to you to be "right for you" in the first place.

You gotta draw from the pool of ladies that wants to be with you rather than worrying about why the ones that don't, won't

guys - laugh always want what that can't have.

Good Luck

Oh, and if party types are what u want to attract, ur fine:wink:

IndnPrncs's photo
Sun 01/16/11 08:03 PM


I don't think they're misjudging you Jason.. I think they're just hoping they have a chance with you and they have the nerve to find out...



I have been told that before... But usually from people that already know me. That's why I asked some strangers here tonight. But always... Thank you! You're always soo sweet.


I'm honest darlin' sweet is debatable... lol...

I used to ask my guy friends "am I a freak magnet or what" and they always told me "men with egos don't like rejection so they won't usually put themselves out there to be rejected. But a guy that's used to being rejected figures that if he keeps aiming at some point he'll hit the bullseye"... It made sense or as much as it could, I'm thinking that's what you're experiencing...

hiddenmeaning's photo
Sun 01/16/11 08:10 PM
buddy your smile looks a little too fake so i would use some more relaxed ones, honestly you look like your up to something and your in pain.
no offence ment buddy but its the smile

wraithme66's photo
Sun 01/16/11 08:10 PM


Thanks everybody... I guess my physical appearance is pretty much accurate as far as who I am... I guess there's another reason women misjudge me? Maybe it's my body language?


how do you know that the ones who are right for you aren't attracted to you? First of all, they must be attracted to you to be "right for you" in the first place.

You gotta draw from the pool of ladies that wants to be with you rather than worrying about why the ones that don't, won't

guys - laugh always want what that can't have.

Good Luck

Oh, and if party types are what u want to attract, ur fine:wink:



Lol! I have dated all types... And Most of the time... I already know about the ones that come my way. So I know they're not right for me. As for your party observation. Dead wrong. I'm looking to settle down, and start a family of my own. I'm looking for decent, and honest, and someone that is at least similar to me to where we connect as people.

no photo
Sun 01/16/11 08:27 PM



Thanks everybody... I guess my physical appearance is pretty much accurate as far as who I am... I guess there's another reason women misjudge me? Maybe it's my body language?


how do you know that the ones who are right for you aren't attracted to you? First of all, they must be attracted to you to be "right for you" in the first place.

You gotta draw from the pool of ladies that wants to be with you rather than worrying about why the ones that don't, won't

guys - laugh always want what that can't have.

Good Luck

Oh, and if party types are what u want to attract, ur fine:wink:



Lol! I have dated all types... And Most of the time... I already know about the ones that come my way. So I know they're not right for me. As for your party observation. Dead wrong. I'm looking to settle down, and start a family of my own. I'm looking for decent, and honest, and someone that is at least similar to me to where we connect as people.



well that's great information. But I will say, in my opinion, your profile photos give the exact OPPOSITE impression. You may want to leave out a few of the goofy ones, change your main pic to something more of an outdoor shot or a portraint pic... and maybe some photos that show you at ur computer, or at work - that show you're into morethan partying...jmho

wraithme66's photo
Sun 01/16/11 08:39 PM
Edited by wraithme66 on Sun 01/16/11 08:41 PM




Thanks everybody... I guess my physical appearance is pretty much accurate as far as who I am... I guess there's another reason women misjudge me? Maybe it's my body language?


how do you know that the ones who are right for you aren't attracted to you? First of all, they must be attracted to you to be "right for you" in the first place.

You gotta draw from the pool of ladies that wants to be with you rather than worrying about why the ones that don't, won't

guys - laugh always want what that can't have.

Good Luck

Oh, and if party types are what u want to attract, ur fine:wink:



Lol! I have dated all types... And Most of the time... I already know about the ones that come my way. So I know they're not right for me. As for your party observation. Dead wrong. I'm looking to settle down, and start a family of my own. I'm looking for decent, and honest, and someone that is at least similar to me to where we connect as people.



well that's great information. But I will say, in my opinion, your profile photos give the exact OPPOSITE impression. You may want to leave out a few of the goofy ones, change your main pic to something more of an outdoor shot or a portraint pic... and maybe some photos that show you at ur computer, or at work - that show you're into morethan partying...jmho



Hmmm?... I'll have to look into that... But honestly. The only pic that has anything to do with any actual partying was the group photo which was at my birthday party. All the others are just ordinary every day life. Some were me at work... Some were at the Dallas art museum. Others were me at home. I don't get the party vibe at all?

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