I usually bring up some strong parts of who I am, first, when emailing or chatting with someone of interest. Because, it nips things in the bud! I have strong views on political stuff and don't deal with oversexualize conversations when first getting to know someone online.


So, is there anything about your personality or life style that you throw out there right away?

Yep i firstly I have 6 children, not that that would scare anyone off then comes the fact that I am totally unorganised and lose everything. Hmmm I have had offers to organise me but I dont want to be, so that is a problem. I love not having a plan or anything that has to be done, hmmm yes my home is chaotic on a quiet day and absolute madness on a good one.
And then finally that If I get upset or nervious I giggle, now that is a very very bad ting in an arguement, because first you get nervious and giggle, and if someone is upset with you then they definately do not want you to giggle at them, and then you get upset so you giggle more this definately does not help a relationship. Oh and if I am angry it is exactly the same,I giggle, why cant I just turn blue or something easy, When you are trying to be serious and start to giggle Nobody listens. Oh and then the absolute worse part, if I think I have upset someone I cry yep, tears just start rolling I dont make a sound, just lots of tears. so first I get angry and giggle, then I will just randomly cry..
I just scared myself off, but I think its always good to be honest, like if I ended up with some ultra organised person, I would drive him bonkers.

Oh no. Anaconda are you organised

I'm a pig.

I'm allergic to Lunachicks

I'm horny

I make sure they read at least the first 72 pages of my profile. It's important for them to know about the deal-breakers. NOT interested in wasting anyone's time, including my own....

gee ya mean i forgot to read all that lol

What a perfectly organized mess you are at heart. I like weird in a person. I bet you get a lot of offers.

Oh, so YOU'RE the one who didn't read it....!

nope went right for the Email with out reading it lol

Josie's post made me think of that M and M commercial where the M and M's look at Santa and Santa looks at the M and M's and they both say, "They do exist."

The deal-breakers are on the first 72. I thought that they only filled 52 pages; have they grown in length?

Well, I bit the dust quick on that one.

Hummm I don't know but for some reason as soon as I mention they must be able to carry on a conversation,be able to listen and not whine all the time, I just don't hear back from them......

Yeah, there are some new clauses and codicils in there. There's a "Blue t-shirt on Thursdays" requirement, too. Anybody who doesn't own a blue t-shirt can just keep moving right along....

Legal stuff comes out first. Yes, I'm a punk, yes, that means I've been to jail for vandalism or other such nonsense.

Then we talk about what kind of sides she takes with her main course, once in awhile she comes over, then I realize I need a bigger stoop to fit all of the bodi...erhm, eh...well, err...what was I talking about?

Turns out the only chicks who make it passed the stoop are the ones who bore him to tears or can smoke him out right aways.

Fear and I would last since there's no way he'd be able to put me under the stoop after I get him flying Besides, that I'm wicked awesome.

Seriously though, there's a lot about me I throw right out there. I'm loud, swear too much, smoke weed, listen to odd music, have a wicked weird sense of humour and random knowledge fountain brain. Guys are usually intimidated or weirded out. Don't know which I like best...

not really anything that I throw out there right away, but young guys in their 20s & early 30s - I let them know right up front that I got 'em figured and no they can't use me to learn about sex, and I already know that's all they want so let's not waste any more of ur time or mine cuz y'aint gettin it

Pretty much I do put it out there immediately that I want friends first and a relationship - no NSA no FWB and I expect to be respected - no casual sex. That's gotten rid of everyone on here so far. Starting to think Ima find a new site but I really like my forum friends

Oh and anyone who starts complaining that their ex was crazy or whatever - usually I just avoid

even if the ex is crazy - it's just a weird self pity mode that isn't healthy in the first few contacts, and certainly I do not think highly of anyone who accuses women of being mentally ill because they either do not understand them, or have done something wrong & won't own up to it, or has a generalized negative attitude towards women - also avoid these

After looking through your photos, all I have to say is:

Even with six kids, Josie, you still look GREAT!