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Topic: 8 dumb mistakes men make with women
tanyaann Joined Mon 12/03/07 Posts: 32220	Thu 12/09/10 05:42 PM
8. Our toilet, our rules If you come over to our house, spend the night, and leave the toilet seat up, So...are you saying that if you spend a night at a man's house, the woman needs to put the seat up? Ron Actually, Yes. When I am at a house where there is all guys or a boyfriend's place.... if the toliet seat is up, I put it back up when I am done.

Lilypetal Joined Wed 02/25/09 Posts: 4052	Thu 12/09/10 06:04 PM
One mistake that didn't make the list.....Not considering how the other person might interperet what you say before opening your mouth.

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Thu 12/09/10 06:34 PM
Screw rule number eight. I'll just pee in her shower!

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Thu 12/09/10 06:59 PM
I think the list is good basic advice for the first few dates for a man who is either very young and hasn't dated much, or a man who has been out of the dating pool for awhile and needs "reminders" (such as recently divorced) AND really does want to have things go smoothly - because the list is common sense manners that can apply to both genders when meeting a new person

Mirage4279 Joined Sat 09/04/10 Posts: 2466	Thu 12/09/10 11:20 PM
I usually put peeing in the shower off till the second date. Then she knows whe's mine! LOL

Jtevans Joined Fri 08/10/07 Posts: 30654	Thu 12/09/10 11:33 PM
i'm sorry,did you say something?i wasn't paying attention,i was checking out that chicks cleavage over there ------>

Ladylid2012 Joined Sun 07/05/09 Posts: 42269	Thu 12/09/10 11:49 PM
I disagree with number 7... flattery is annoying and gets old fast.

Mirage4279 Joined Sat 09/04/10 Posts: 2466	Thu 12/09/10 11:57 PM
Flattery is one of those things I guess it is really pointless if the person does not mean it. Kind of l9ike on the rate from one to ten thing... if someone says ten then you kind of dismiss what they say (unless you really are right around a ten). A compliment I guess is a good way too start a conversation; unfortunatly, alot of people do not mean it so much when they compliment.

Jtevans Joined Fri 08/10/07 Posts: 30654	Fri 12/10/10 12:02 AM
I disagree with number 7... flattery is annoying and gets old fast. "you have nice boobs"....yeah that's how i roll

TxsGal3333 Joined Tue 09/05/06 Posts: 76438	Fri 12/10/10 12:10 PM
Hummm so many rules we are dammed if we do and dammed if we don't.... I say play it by ear and go with the flow... Don't try to hard if they like you they will like you for you.... I don't believe the guy has to pay the first time but it is nice... last date I went on and the guy paid I text him back a few days later and asked if he would like to go out to eat my treat. Even though there was no chemistry I felt it was the best move to make... Myself I prefer going dutch on the first date that way there is no expectations from either party. Not all guys make more money then the women so why should they be the ones to pay all the time.. As far as the toilet seat goes my gawd if it is such a big issue that if the seat is up or down then put a damn spring on it so it will shut on it's own lmao

Beachfarmer Joined Tue 04/17/07 Posts: 24709	Fri 12/10/10 12:24 PM
I disagree with number 7... flattery is annoying and gets old fast. You're so smart.

TheShadow Joined Sun 08/13/06 Posts: 14218	Fri 12/10/10 12:32 PM
As far as the toilet seat goes my gawd if it is such a big issue that if the seat is up or down then put a damn spring on it so it will shut on it's own lmao I actually thought about doing that

massagetrade Joined Thu 02/22/07 Posts: 8505	Fri 12/10/10 01:06 PM Edited by massagetrade on Fri 12/10/10 01:07 PM
Edit: Another mistake....

metalwing Joined Fri 11/14/08 Posts: 26218	Fri 12/10/10 01:19 PM
I cook. That seems to work pretty well.

mightymoe Joined Sun 11/19/06 Posts: 37362	Fri 12/10/10 01:25 PM
good article, makes alot of sense

angel_or_demon Joined Fri 11/26/10 Posts: 1529	Fri 12/10/10 02:21 PM
I think you should just chill out and go with the flow. Each person is different and some people aren't bothered about things like the toilet seat left up. Greater things to worry about in the world i think

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Fri 12/10/10 05:21 PM
I disagree with number 7... flattery is annoying and gets old fast. but if it's genuine , Lady...it's quite nice and I can usually tell if it's genuine...or...not

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Fri 12/10/10 05:24 PM
I think you should just chill out and go with the flow. Each person is different and some people aren't bothered about things like the toilet seat left up. Greater things to worry about in the world i think prolly right but it 's easy to get a little wigged out sometimes about things that r important to us like that rule about being too relaxed - if u r too chill it looks like it doesnt matter

motowndowntown Joined Wed 11/19/08 Posts: 21824	Fri 12/10/10 05:50 PM
Hummm so many rules we are dammed if we do and dammed if we don't.... I say play it by ear and go with the flow... Don't try to hard if they like you they will like you for you.... I don't believe the guy has to pay the first time but it is nice... last date I went on and the guy paid I text him back a few days later and asked if he would like to go out to eat my treat. Even though there was no chemistry I felt it was the best move to make... Myself I prefer going dutch on the first date that way there is no expectations from either party. Not all guys make more money then the women so why should they be the ones to pay all the time.. As far as the toilet seat goes my gawd if it is such a big issue that if the seat is up or down then put a damn spring on it so it will shut on it's own lmao You invite guys to eat your treat on the second date? mmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

sharpandpointless Joined Tue 11/30/10 Posts: 79	Fri 12/10/10 06:08 PM
@#7 "flattery's the food of fools,"