Why cant long disatnce relationship last.Isnt love beyond borders?

they can, and they could, and they do, but sometimes they don't. that about covers it.

What she said

A relationship will work if there is mutual understanding between the partners.
In most of the cases it doesn't work as distances decreases the understanding between them. Partners find it difficult to contact each other. In love, u see ur partner, u hear them, u talk with them and you feel them close to your heart. you feel that they are with you whenever they need you.
in long distance relationships, these things is not present to strengthen your relationship.
It then comes down to the depth of love between then for such a relationship to work.

Regards,
AV

No just me thou good luck in whatever decision you make

perhaps....she too did not get ....what she said....

not when the dominant hand moves TOO far away from the waist

it can in some degree

i was in a long distant relationship with my ex hubby way before we even got married
he was living back in forth from eastern oregon to salem oregon
and we were together on and off for 2yrs before we got married
but we didnt celebrate our 1st annerversay together for i had kicked him out of the house 4 differnt times which the 4th was the last

there was another relationship i was in (15 yrs ago)
i had met him 28yrs prior i actually met him before i met my daughter dad
and when we finaly got together it was 4yrs after my ex hubby and i split up
and he had moved to new mexcio to help his brother and he moved back to be with me a few months later we were together for a little over 3yrs

Has been working for me for the past three plus years. I am in NY and he is in Idaho, 2,558 miles away...(but who's counting?)

Very soon the distance will change.

They can work if you both want them to.

I think they can last till both of you are done making the trip.

I still believe that long distance relationships can work. It just takes the time and patience for it to work out. And lots and lots of communications. It takes lots of work and if both peopl are willing to put the effort into the relationship it will work.

5 years and counting

What she said ^^^

What can I say? I've been a few.

Of course they can just takes a lot more effort. Look at all the success stories here! I still have my hopes up with a certain someone. Just keep positive.

They may work out for some people but eaven for those it does work with I think would come clean to that its unhealthy both mentally and emotionally. Pluss the government gets too much money in taxes from all the hand lotion distributed.

Brilliant.

Ditto