I Know where you are comming from yes i have cheated on a guy and yes it
was for revenge. but that wasnt the only reason he misstreated me. He
lied saying his x wife was dead well come to find out she is live and
well and he wasnt Divorced. they were still married then he left me for
a 15yr old and he was 28. now I am married and happy so what I am saying
is i think i had a reason to do it.

DAME THAT IS F***KED UP GUYS CAN BE BAD AND ALOT WORSE THAN US GIRLS.MY
HUSBANDS CHEATED ON ME LOTS OF TIMES I JUST NEVER HAD PROOF WHEN THE
GIRLS FOUND OUT I NEW THEY WERE GONE BUT 1 YEAR AGO I FOUND OUT HE
CHEATED AND HAD ANOTHER BABY HE SAYS ITS NOT HIS I SEEN THIS KID AND HE
HAS HIS NOSE WE HAVE 3 KIDS TOGETHER WHAT AN ASS BUT NOW IM DONE AND I
NEVER CHEATED ON HIM I DONT NO WHAT U GET OUT OF IT 2 WRONG DONT MAKE A
RIGHT

Anybody can cheat...it's not exclusively men or women that do it. As
far as reasons go, each person would have to give you theirs because
it's always going to change...revenge, curiosity, boredom, feeling
trapped, unhappiness, loneliness, frustration...the list goes on and on.

I myself have never cheated on anyone. I was taught as a small child
that no matter what it is you're doing, if you have to sneak around then
it is wrong. Honesty is always you're best bet...unfortunately, being
honest means being courageous also.

I have told every guy that I have had a relationship with that all I
truly expect is honesty. If he really wants to sleep with someone else
there is nothing I can do to change that. I can't babysit him
24/7...and I'm realistic enough to know that if the desire is there then
there is already a problem with us. I have always said that I deserve
to be respected enough for him to come to me and be honest. Tell me you
want to screw someone else...I can take it...and then I can decide what
I'm going to do- which is leave the relationship and move on. Plus, I
don't want the "gift that keeps on giving"...that's messing with
someone's life, and that's BS.

I've been cheated on and it sucks. For me, it's not the sex part at
all...it's the deceit, dishonesty and disrespect. It's the fact that
this person I love can't even behave like an adult and admit to me or
theirself that there's problems. It's a lack of communication and
confidence.

One last thing...it's unfortunate when you level judgement across the
board because of a handful of bad experiences. Not every dog
bites...sometimes you just have to look a little while before you find
the one that doesn't bite you.

well look heres the story.. both cheat .. and for diff reasons all
together.. maybe shes looking for something she feals your not giving..
maybe its she thinks your doing the same.. maybe she just cant stay
faithful. im dealing with the same deal..14 years.. cheated mutiple
times with 3 diff guys.. Always blamed myself but heres the
key//Cheating isnt fair on eather person.. Sets both up for a fall.. The
head games that go with it almost hurt more then the act itself.. As i
said its both ..Hey ive done it too.. not recently but ive done it..
Know something..I kick myself in the ass every day for it ..I hurt the
person i was with.. but i hurt myself too... Lost alotta god girls that
way... Learn from it .. if its you doing the cheating wake up! ya just
gonna hurt in the long run..If youve been cheated on ..I know it hurts
but keep going forward..i dont know how..Im learning myself.... goodluck

It goes both ways honey. It's not just the girls. I honestly think that
women do it for the sole fact that they aren't getting the attention at
home and men do it just because they want to. Not trying to start
anything here....just my opinion.
I cheated on my boyfriend of 8 yrs during the last 10 months of our
relationship. I regret it badly and would never ever do it again. It not
only hurts the person being cheated on. It hurts both parties.
There are no excuses for cheating. It's wrong and that's it. I've
learned that the hard way. But you live and you learn.

both sexes cheat and meeting the types of people that do is a part of
life. try not to let it get to you too much because you seem young and
you might run into another. tell her to kick rocks and go get a new one.
if she cheats, get rid of her too. just don't let it turn you into what
they are or it will really mess you up.