I don't believe for a minute that there is anyone who plans to cheat
once and never does it again.

that's true smokey, and a bad woman is easy to find when you're hard lol

Ha ha!! yep!

You boys need to clean off your own back porch before you go and
catergorize all women as cheaters. There are just as many men out there
with that same sort of shitty character, which is no character at all.
i.e. "a good man is hard to find"

Why not we just say "Good Love is Hard to Find"

J

i ain't categorizing anyone as anything.

"Maybe we ought to just face the realization that a good woman is as
hard to find. "

and to add your comment "That's true??!" sounded like you were in
agreement...all I am saying is that there are just as many men out there
the act just the same as you all are describing...and to me, this post
sounds like a whole lotta women bashing going on.

Speaking as a woman who never cheated on a loved one, I feel the need to
put a "clause" in this post to remind you all that there are decent,
loyal and trusting women out there that stand by our man!

J

it's a joke...don't get all worked up protecting the female sex. i don't
see too many women defending men when something like this is posted. it
ain't a big deal, there are bad people from both sexes. that is a fact
that i don't think has to be said

Surprisingly enough - some people need to have things "clarified" and as
far as getting worked up...I don't see my post in such a light KB, merly
my feelings, and my thoughts on the subject...go back and read his
orginal post. We do have a lot of younger people posting here lately
that may or may not have the sort of "experience" that the rest of us
do.

I reiterate...there are many women out there that are honest, loyal and
trustworthy...take the time first to find out if that's the kind you
have before you give your heart away.


J

Hey Jane; I've got to agree with you, and that's not without saying that
I have been on the broken hearted side myself, but I have very dear
close friends who are so very trustworthy. "LOVE" is a verb and demands
action, it's not a mud puddle we fall into, comitment and mutual
sacrifice is a hard thing to find today.

Regards Zmackdab

I had sweet revenge when my now ex-husband tried to cheat on me...he
couldn't even get it up!!!!!!!!!!!! I was crushed at first knowing he
had tried to do something like that to hurt me...but when I found out he
couldn't perform..I have lmao ever since...

How in the world does an "X husband" cheat on you?

He was not my EX at the time...I said my now EX....lol

So who drives the number 8 car?

Dale Jr! Who got robbed of his win today!!

Oh yea-h-h I just got back from camping and there wasn't any NASCAR
out there in the big woods by the lake.

There would be if I was there..lol There are such things as portable
tv's with antennas...lol

Salvationjane, that's all I meant. I have two sisters. I would hate to
think they wasted their time doing some of the things these chicks out
here do. Of course they aren't perfect, but nevertheless.

But salvationjane, you did misunderstand our transaction. Like I told
my ex-wife, when you start defending a mere sex against the other sex
you don't sound as political as you do sound like a ho. To me it's
entirely absurd to think we have male and female teams or some shit
going on here. To the youngboy who first posted the question: keep
your head up and take yourself seriously. You'll simply find someone
you can love. Until then have fun.

as is a good man!!!! the ones i've met dont have a problem with being a
playa playa. they think that is the way it always has been and tht is
how men should be. too bad that's wrong.
why get into a relationship if you think you need a spare. why not just
be truthful -- tell women what you really want out of things instead of
all the games!!!

My now exhusband and I use to go out to the local bars and he would
purposely at the end of the night walk out the door hanging on another
woman and then go to her house..I put up with this for almost 2yrs
thinking and hoping he would change. I never cheated on him nor even
thought about doing it. So to say that women cheat on men all the time I
think we are equal. I think it is wrong.