i need help helping a spirit that has asked me to help it move on to the light. i have no experience in this and know no one with experience in this field. myself and a few others are looking into the matter, but it is SLOW GOING. i was kind of at a loss where to put this but hoping maybe someone will have some advice to offer.

Ask a priest?

unfortunately the ones ive spoken with dont have any experience in this area either. luckily one of our good acquaintances is a catholic priest and is looking into it. ive also contacted some local psychics,for instance there's one who does work for the fbi and our local police department, but im not really willing to pay 900 dollars for someone who may not even be able to help resolve the issue or worse for another who may just be a charlatan, because we have those here too lol.

The spirit should be able to find a point of light probably on the horizon (maybe not). Just tell it to look for the point of light and start walking toward it. I have limited experience with this but this was the technique we used.

thank you so much. im willing to try that.

i posted a much longer version of this plea in the misc, in which i talk about my mom briefly and being an energy magnet. she seems to think too that sometimes people who are more sensitive are similar to the light and that when a spirit feels lost they are attracted to anything they think can help. sometimes they dont even realize that we dont know them or have no way of knowing exactly who theyre trying to get a message across to. with the high levels of activity in my environment lately i thought originally this was the case with this spirit. interestingly enough dess just asked to be helped in finding their way into the light. they have a firm grasp on who they were and when they died. and this particular spirit is not as transient as most of the others in our home, in fact it truly seems stuck. so i said to myself "hey...i can do this...and if not im going to try to find a way to make this happen." since then some of dess' particular activities have settled down.

I always try to make friends with my ghosts. I mean after all its their home, too.

Ghostly Delight

by RainbowSlider

Your spirit is such a ghostly delight.
Your heat helps me to sleep at night.
The light is off so you don't go away.
Wouldn't want to disturb you anyway.

It is eerie though you being so hot.
I thought ghosts were cold; Your not.
Where ever you touch me my skins alive.
Never know when you come; Its a surprise.

When I am lonely you are such a dear.
Makes me miss you more though, hear?
Didn't want to scare you; Stood still.
Sometimes when you touch I get a chill.

Come back any time its your home, too.
Cobwebs just got to me; Made me blue.
Don't worry the spiders will make more.
Mausoleum is just as pretty as before.

I will let you go back to sleep, dear.
Just wanted you to know I don't fear.
Your love is as alive as when you left.
Your touch is as firm as it is so deft.

When the three ghosts would visit I found that they were just watching over me and making sure I was okay. It took a bit getting used. I mean when they would all try to talk at once it was a problem but they worked it out.

My azz would be moving.........

I take it that you and ghosts don't get along.

im no stranger to having spirits around and i know exactly what you mean and how you feel rainbow. partly its because im in a new environment and most the spirits im not yet familiar with, part of the issue i think will require sage smudges to remove the negative energies from our home so that the positive ones will have a more peaceful state to exist in, as will trent,myself, and our animals.
i wanted to thank you so much for sharing

there is an italian joke of a man who goes every day rain or shine to the feet of a statue of a patron saint and prays and prays to the saint please let me win the lottery please....finally after years of these daily pleas the saint statues comes to life for a moment and says to the man please please please son...GO BUY A TICKET.
its funny how every time i ask the universe for help with a problem im amazed when it pulls through.

today i finally got the gumption to post about this and ask for help amongst others and today on a random excursion to a different part of the city i meet a woman who has experience in this area and is able to offer me guidance...furthermore she is introducing me tomorrow to someone who will be able to assist me. today i finally ask about this problem and it is literally within hours that i find a possible solution. the universe and all of us within its interdependent web of life are just absolutely amazing.

i will post more about this tomorrow or the next day regarding what happens tomorrow evening. hopefully i will be able to help dess pass into the light, and to create a more peaceful environment for the rest of our spirits under my protection, so to speak.

ive always felt the same...just as it is my animals home, so it is to anything that coexists with me. i believe that to be part of the balance. this is a lovely poem. i quite like it.

we had some really negative energy in january that had me sleeping at our office building for one week lol. that was a very tumultuous month.

You are welcome. I love writing poems. Two women thought this next poem was erotic but one guy thought I was quite mad.

Ghost Tingle

by RainbowSlider

Oh, what an awesome eerie feeling.
When the ghosts tickle when kneeling.
Chills they give; Goosebumps, oh my.
I love it when they caress my thighs.

Such a sensation like I have never felt.
Especially when they use the sash belt.
Fingertips like long soft gentle feathers.
I can't remember feeling such pleasure.

Nails that go up and down my spine.
It really drives me out of my mind.
The positions they all can achieve.
At First I couldn't really believe.

Of all of my loves they are the best.
They make me feel like a wanted guest.
Blown kisses and such nice hugs.
I never experience this even on drugs.

I used to think that ghosts couldn't touch.
But now I don't see it that way as much.
I'll admit the first time was weird with a ghost.
Making it with a ghost you can really boast.

i also love to write poetry. i can see where the afore mentioned readers could have drawn their conclusions from.
do you remember when anna nicole smith raved about her personal ghost lover to a magazine during the bill clinton scandal?

I know the names mentioned but not the scandal.

Hey. Bohe. You checked this place out yet?

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Just my luck that was a year ago.

just tell it to leave.let it know it is your home now and it is not wanted there.be firm when telling this.if that doesn't work,contact a Native American Shaman (i'm sure you can search for one online).they have a ritual that you can use to cleanse your home.


hope this helps

i did a white sage smudging thanks jt

this worked really well. i took it a step further and ended up singing them into the light. we could all feel it working.