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Topic: dissed again
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Fri 08/27/10 09:04 AM
Twice i might add, a mini diss when i saw a person who lied about their profile pic, ouch, second, I met a guy two weeks ago, things went great as usual, then we texted throughout the week. rescheduled a few times and i said maybe now is not a good time, or if your not really into it, thats cool. but NO he replies saying he totally wants to go out, wants to see me, blah blah blah, is he just to afraid to be honest with me and say he is not interested or what. Its been two weeks since we went out last, although we still text from time to time, its me initiating and so i havent sent text for past couple days and therefore have not received any. bumbed about it.

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Fri 08/27/10 09:08 AM
i think crap-ola like this happens in waves..I had a couple of months in a row of things similiar happen to me..cant tell you the number of times I got stood up..(THATS always good for the ego)...so, maybe its the moon and stars, maybe its cosmic flatulance, what ever it is, the bad patch will pass soon enough..thats the great thing about life, NOTHING lasts forever (not even the bad times)

hang in there
flowerforyou

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Fri 08/27/10 09:16 AM
I would forget about it and as soon as you just don't care anymore thats when he will try to hang out again. It's like they know EXACTLY when you don't give a shlt anymore and thats when it becomes a challenge. Boys are dumb.

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Fri 08/27/10 09:17 AM

I would forget about it and as soon as you just don't care anymore thats when he will try to hang out again. It's like they know EXACTLY when you don't give a shlt anymore and thats when it becomes a challenge. Boys are dumb.


throw rocks at them....bigsmile

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Fri 08/27/10 09:18 AM
Wow, you're not having much luck are you? Maybe you should stop looking. It's usually then that someone finds you.....

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Fri 08/27/10 09:22 AM
Everytime I give up and someone finds me it's even worse than if I find someone slaphead

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Fri 08/27/10 09:26 AM

Everytime I give up and someone finds me it's even worse than if I find someone slaphead

hmm then I'd definitely throw rocks at them..

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Fri 08/27/10 09:30 AM
Life would be so much easier if everybody was just honest about their feelings instead of trying to make you guess what's going on in their heads. So you are having such a hard time with all this. Hang in there and when the time is right, the right one will come along!!

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Fri 08/27/10 09:42 AM
Everytime I give up and someone finds me it's even worse than if I find someone


hmm then I'd definitely throw rocks at them..



BIG ROCKS....... pitchfork

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Fri 08/27/10 09:52 AM

Twice i might add, a mini diss when i saw a
person who lied about their profile pic, ouch,
second, I met a guy two weeks ago, things went
great as usual, then we texted throughout the
week. rescheduled a few times and i said maybe
now is not a good time, or if your not really
into it, thats cool. but NO he replies saying
he totally wants to go out, wants to see me,
blah blah blah, is he just to afraid to be
honest with me and say he is not interested or
what. Its been two weeks since we went out last,
although we still text from time to time, its
me initiating and so i havent sent text for past
couple days and therefore have not received any
. bumbed about it.

I would read this as, he is over you.

Goofball73's photo
Fri 08/27/10 10:20 AM
Sound like he has ADHD.

TxsGal3333's photo
Fri 08/27/10 10:27 AM
Humm can't say I would called it being dissed just that it was not meant to be.

Been there done that ect... better to find out early then later.

I'm one that I will send a first e-mail, phone call or text but if they don't return it or you feel like you have to pull teeth to get them to respond then forget it it. Not even worth it......noway

ProPhotographer's photo
Fri 08/27/10 11:09 AM


Twice i might add, a mini diss when i saw a
person who lied about their profile pic, ouch,
second, I met a guy two weeks ago, things went
great as usual, then we texted throughout the
week. rescheduled a few times and i said maybe
now is not a good time, or if your not really
into it, thats cool. but NO he replies saying
he totally wants to go out, wants to see me,
blah blah blah, is he just to afraid to be
honest with me and say he is not interested or
what. Its been two weeks since we went out last,
although we still text from time to time, its
me initiating and so i havent sent text for past
couple days and therefore have not received any
. bumbed about it.

I would read this as, he is over you.

He is just being polite in responding to your text messages but
he's also showing poor dating etiquette by not expressing his feelings towards you in a way that you will accept.

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Fri 08/27/10 12:25 PM
Let him come to you and try to find somebody else in the mean time.

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Fri 08/27/10 12:53 PM


I would forget about it and as soon as you just don't care anymore thats when he will try to hang out again. It's like they know EXACTLY when you don't give a shlt anymore and thats when it becomes a challenge. Boys are dumb.


throw rocks at them....bigsmile
ouch noway

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Fri 08/27/10 01:23 PM



throw rocks at them....bigsmile


Also a great way to score with crack addicts!

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Fri 08/27/10 04:24 PM
Edited by Dodo_David on Fri 08/27/10 04:31 PM

Twice i might add, a mini diss when i saw a person who lied about their profile pic, ouch . . .


If the profile pic is a lie, then I agree with pmarco41. Throw rocks. Then perhaps his next profile pic will include a black eye.

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Mon 08/30/10 11:01 PM


Twice i might add, a mini diss when i saw a person who lied about their profile pic, ouch . . .


If the profile pic is a lie, then I agree with pmarco41. Throw rocks. Then perhaps his next profile pic will include a black eye.


oh the irony...

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Mon 08/30/10 11:18 PM
Sorry this fizzled but sounds like you were lucky it did because he was waffeling that fast he would drive you crazy.

I would say if you have to ask what his feelings are then it is either too early and more likely they are basiclly carnal ( nice looking gal) but not into you the person.

His Loss Young Lady. Plenty of better out there. If your out having fun they will come to you.

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Tue 08/31/10 12:27 AM

Twice i might add, a mini diss when i saw a person who lied about their profile pic, ouch, second, I met a guy two weeks ago, things went great as usual, then we texted throughout the week. rescheduled a few times and i said maybe now is not a good time, or if your not really into it, thats cool. but NO he replies saying he totally wants to go out, wants to see me, blah blah blah, is he just to afraid to be honest with me and say he is not interested or what. Its been two weeks since we went out last, although we still text from time to time, its me initiating and so i havent sent text for past couple days and therefore have not received any. bumbed about it.


You figured him out I would say. He doesn't want to hurt your feelings. Makes me think of the scripture; "I would that you were hot or cold because if you are lukewarm I will spew you out of my mouth." He is just leaving you hanging. At one point he was hot for you. Then you probably said something that made him cold towards you. And now you are dealing with the lukewarm. It is part of the nice guy thing which can be frustrating because sometimes what you need is a real ******* to be honest with you.

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