oh just stop.

You don't have to lie to not be honest. I am sure that I'm not the only cat that tries to list all the postive things I have going for me, and hide the negatives. It is something you have to do to make internet dating work. Let's test that.

I am an unemployed medical marijuana smoker without a car, and I moved back in with my mom a long two years ago. I don't smoke every day, i am so damned poor right now I only smoke two days a week, and smoking weed is my favorite hobby.

I have not had sex with anybody else in about a year, I have been two dates, each their own train wreck, made out with a random chick at a bar on St. Patty's day, and exchanged naked pics and phone sex with a girl that never showed up. I have had a bad run of women.

I have been unemployed for over a year, I am in debt up to my ****in ears and owe my drivers license over 5000 dollars before I can think about buying another car. The worst part is I never even got a DUI. Piddley *** traffic tickets that added up and turned into a driving without a license. Then when I got a car to go to work i got a second driving without a license. I might actually have an arrest warrent out for me, I'll have to call the government and find out one of these days.

I used to sell furniture, and make good(not great) money. Now I am desperate to find a min wage job that will give me 20 hours per week just to be able to buy somebody dinner, or sit at a bar and talk to random women, or buy enough weed for seven days out of the week.

I have a few hobbies, but none of them are what women would like to see listed. I don't ride any jet ski's or four wheelers and I absolutely hate to ski. **** those expensive death traps anyway. I like to smoke weed, cook food, eat, work out, sit by the pool, watch and talk about football, drink with women, and have sex. The rest of the **** is just filler. I am working on a book that has a snowballs chance in hell of being finished, and an even smaller chance of being published. I don't work on it very often, mainly because I am not a very good writer.

I am looking for a woman that is willing to spend time with me without spending any money. After a year of no sex looks and age don't matter to me much. Seriously, I dated a girl that weighed more than twice as much as me simply because she was cool to hang out with. Sex was like climbing a mountain. I like women of all races and colors. I have a type, but it is hard to define. Eyes are my favorite quality on a woman, and she has to have another good quality. Basically if you have if you have two eyes and are willing to hang out with me your in!

I am an intellegent person with hideously bad luck. If I catch a break I run like hell with it, there are just not many breaks for me to catch in the luck pond. I can be a very determined person, but I also try to let go of things. I have been bitten by following something with too much determination, as well as most of the other ways a person can be metaphorically bitten (by trying too hard, not trying hard enough, being too outgoing, being too smart, being too qualified) you name a positive quality and it has likely worked against me. Hopefully not to the point I am just another jaded person living inside my little comfort box. I stay true to who I am reguardless of the **** storm I have to deal with.

So in summation, I only date women with two eyes, but if you have a cool patch over one like uma thurman on kill bill i would consider you. I am a loser right now, and maybe for the rest of my life, I don't know the future. You can't keep a good man down, but you can knock him down. If you read all of that and are still interested feel free to message me!

^^^Cliff notes anyone???



Welcome OP!

I am working on a book that has a snowballs chance in hell of being finished, and an even smaller chance of being published. I don't work on it very often, mainly because I am not a very good writer.

I am looking for a woman that is willing to spend time with me without spending any money.

Why do people keep calling me OP?

It is simply an expression of frustration about the corelation between finantial stability and finding a partner. When times are at their hardest is when you need somebody by your side most, but a lot of people feel you have to get all the money stuff taken care of before you can love, which is unfortunate because that is not what is truely important in life.

What you have described is the need of a muse. Someone that inspires you to create something that you can share with everyone.
Smoking dope is without purpose. Blaming bad luck is a device to negate your ambitions.
Plan the work and work the plan man...oh yeah, and hug your mom

You say that now but when you DO get your shlt together theres a "snowballs chance in hell" you would seek a mate that is as hard up as you are right now.

PEACE OUT

I forgot to mention I was looking for a woman with an attention span. Once that can read whole books sometimes!

Why do people keep calling me OP?

It is actually interesting to me to see your original woe is me post and the responses you have received from everyone. All you do is tell everyone how wrong they are and how theres nothing more you can do to help your situation. The fact that you have the audacity to pseudo psycho analyze people is beyond my comprehension.

What do you hope to gain by not seeing any other perspective but your own?


You don't need to answer that because this time I really wont be back.

I'm finishing my master's program; I can read books and I have an attention span for things that inspire me. Your spelling and grammatical errors turned me off; therefore, I wasn't interested.

I wish you well. It seems you have quite a big of baggage to unload.

I mentioned this on page 1, but spelling and grammar errors are there because I like to keep the flow of my writing going, then go back and edit through. I didn't realize there wasn't an edit button on the origional post.

If you were not interested why not just keep it to yourself and move on instead of advertising about how you found me uninteresting?

Edit: reguarding the baggage. i deal with it on the internet so i don't have to dump it onto the people in my real life.

When you post on a public internet forum all members in good standing are entitled to post.

Posting your open wounds on the forum is bound to attract feedback. You may not always like what you hear, and as long as no one is name calling or insulting, an adult debate is what you should expect.

Those were my thoughts.

9erguy, I am a straight forward person as well. You mentioned that you don't sugar coat your feelings.

Keep in mind that the responses you get might be as blunt as your personality as well. If you want people to appreciate your outspokenness then you also have to accept that characteristic in other people.

Keep posting in the forums. You will get a lot of perspective from a variety of members. Perspective is always good in repairing and growing.

Enjoy Mingle; it's a great site!