And do what exactly. i look for work every goddam day, other than that I have nothing else to do. I could walk around walmart, that would be productive I'm sure.

Alright, I broke down and read your post.

People who blame everything on bad luck are just incapable of accepting responsibility for their own actions/ choices. Time to put on your big boy pants! YOU CAUSED your drivers license issues not "bad luck".

You should not be looking for ANYONE right now. There is so much work to be done on yourself theres no point. Sadly I dated a guy in almost the exact same situation/ mindframe as you so I speak from experience. He also blamed everything on bad luck and it prevented him from moving forward in his life.

Put down the bong and go do something productive.

If you did not read it then what puts you in a position to call it a sob story.

Are you aware your profile doesn't have a single one of your own words on it?

I found that quite humorous.
Especially this part: 'After a
year of no sex looks and age
don't matter to me much.'

So, you are at rock bottom.
That whine was a very good year.
You are SO going to fit in here :-)

Welcome.

This thread isn't going to end well.

I did read it and it's just pathetic. Nice first post.


My profile use to have a lot of my own words. I'm not here looking for a date so why bother?

Try and get a job at Walmart........

well, at least we know you are a very likeable guy

This is just crazy talk here.........

There's a time and place for sharing such personal information... It shows lack of respect for yourself that you just blurt it out like that to a bunch of strangers.

So you don't believe in bad luck. The timeframe of the things that happened to me was simply as bad as it could have been, and the circumstances surrounding me i had no control over. I have made some bad choices and corrected them. I was pulled over 12 times in a year and a half within two blocks of my house. I actually caught an off duty police officer breaking one of my tail lights. I never recieved a speeding ticket or any other moving violation, when I turned in the signed fix it tickets, they were lost and sent to collections. Call it whatever the hell you want, I call it bad luck.

I am fine the way I am, just because you don't like it doesn't mean I have to go through life alone. If I didn't date women that had problems I would never date. Everybody has problems.

I am a very proactive person, and I do everything I can to work out of it, but it is very frustrating, especially going at it alone. Just a little help and support would do wonders for me. I am not talking a lot of help either, just a woman to look in the eyes and talk, somebody that is willing to spend time with me.

I already did, they rejected me. I go in there every tuesday at 1 to talk to the personnel manager and beg for a job. It is our of her hands.

I am being honest about who I am, Why does being honest mean a lack of self respect. Are you saying I don't respect myself to lie to strangers? I honestly don't care about what people think of me, i am looking for one person to understnad and care for me, not a bunch of internet buddies.

What was that, sorry I was too busy to read what you said?

Have you looked at any straight commission sales jobs? You said you had a sales background.

I can only work where I can walk, and there are no comission jobs within walking distance.

I never said anything about lying. I'm saying this isn't a 12 step program and it's so unnecessary to spill your guts to us in your very first post. Just have fun and loosen up. Laugh here. If you find someone you think is cool that you want to share your story with then good for you.

Like I said, complete honesty, not sugar coated internet honesty. I am putting negatives first and if a woman can appreciate the straitforwardness then she will get to know the positive things about me.

I am tired of talking to women, haveing them like me, then it falling apart when they hear the negatives. This weeds out the field.

Would you want to talk to someone who was all negative right away?

Hi, I'm a smelly bum with a third grade reading level... wanna date me?

Noooo

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